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February 22, 2007
The universal attraction killer-- are you guilty, too?
People say that love is a universal language, and that just might be true. But it's not the only universal language. The behaviors that create attraction are universal, and so are the behaviors that kill it.
I just received an email from a man who's unfortunately guilty of the "universal attraction killer," and wants to know what to do about it. My answer may surprise you--and it may give you some unique insight into how women think about men.
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Hi there John,
My name's David and I really need your help, I'm having girl problems of my own, see there's this girl who's a volunteer in my local Jewish Community center, who hails from L.A Califronia, BTW I live in Mumbai, India and I am from the Indian Jewish community, so I have known her for the past seven months, things were going smoothly with her, for a few months, I have not dated her but we have met at community functions ,I have tried my best to open a channel of communication with her via e-mail, but to no avail, she keep s pushing me back and also to add insult to injury she complained to her boss about me, when I haven't done anything to her, I want to get to know this girl really well, I really like and I don't know I may have also fallen head over heels in love with her, and I think she realizes that, how can I win her affection, please advice me,
thank you.
JA: Thanks, for the email, David. At this point in time, your chances with her are zero. Why? Because she senses you're desperate, and desperation is the ultimate attraction killer. No matter your race, religion, height, weight, age, or social status, if a woman senses you're desperate, you have no chance.
Furthermore, if she senses desperation in you, she'll think you're a creepy guy, and that can lead to very bad things, like bogus sexual harassment complaints. As I tell high income professional men all the time, women do not divorce, cheat on, complain about or sue men they feel a sense of attraction for. But if she thinks you're creepy, she'll start to perceive you as doing things you didn't in reality do.
So, here's what to do. Forget about this woman for awhile. Work on your attraction skills, and go out and attract lots of desirable women. What you will discover is, you were attracted to her because you didn't have any other options--when you have you choice, your attraction for her will disappear. Then a funny thing might happen--she'll sense you've "changed," and that you're now "good with women." Then she may just approach you. Is this likely to happen? Not really--once a woman thinks you're creepy, it's hard to get out of that category. But I've seen it happen more than you might think. The upshot, however, is when you work on your attraction skills, and start attracting some really quality women, all thoughts of the current one go right out the door--that's what happens when you have better options.
Oh, and if you're a bit confused on how to create attraction, I highly recommend my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success with Women System, where I reveal step by step how to create attraction with the women you truly desire. See http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm for details.
On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
PS What's the best, fastest, easiest way to master attraction? My Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success with Women System, of course! For details, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now
PPS I just got word from my video guy that he's started editing the videos of my Ultimate Attraction Immersion Event... I'll let you know when he's finished so those of you that missed it can experience the event in the comfort of your own home.