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"These secrets really opened my eyes. After a bitter divorce I moved to Denver to get away from my ex-wife and basically start over. I knew no one in Denver and had no way to meet anyone. I was burned out on women, and skeptical about ever meeting one who I could just enjoy spending time with. But, I gave John's secrets a try, and to my utter surprise I "hooked up" with a cute Emergency Room Doctor! She really likes being my "adventure partner" (just like John taught me she would), and our "relationship" is completely stress free. This is how it's supposed to be!

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"Wow, I wish I'd had this book in college, when I was 21! Better late than never, though. I'm 37 years old, balding, and kind of gruff looking. I never believed these secrets would work for me. But I decided I had nothing to lose, so I recently tried them in a popular local bar. Sure enough, a cute blonde named Amy came up to approach me and start talking to me... she even gave me her number. I was so stunned these secrets worked that I didn't call her back. I couldn't believe this was actually happening just like John said it would. She finally called me, and we decided to go bowling... funny thing though, we never made it to the bowling alley!"

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"Dear John,
I had purchased your E-book a couple of months ago, and let me tell you, it's truly a God-send! What I love about your instructions is they are very open-ended in how one can implement your techniques. One doesn't have to worry about "Oh shit, am I doing what such and such page instructed me to do correctly?!" - it beautifully managed to conjure up a bigger, practical "what to do" picture by the time I was finished reading it that, frankly, I doubt few other e-books on the matter will be able to pull off in their readers' minds. Needless to say, my results with women have been pretty amazing! The "smile your way through" technique alone is incredibly effective. Definitely smacks of the good ol' "small hinges turn big doors" maxim, and does so beautifully! It amazing how it's small things like this most of us men take for granted, instead trying desperately to put up some fake Al Pacinoesque or Johnny Depp look to attract women (and for the record, two gorgeous ladies I know of like neither of these actors :)! Most importantly, what I REALLY appreciate about your ebook is that the methods you implement can cater for men coming from ALL backgrounds - whether they are your average "free spirited" schmoe in the street, or even religious, spiritually inclined types such as myself. You may find this funny, but to be perfectly honest, before purchasing your product, I went through some trepidation before buying it, thinking it was wholly based on "best ways to flirt with women" in bars and so on - a practice that's strongly shunned by the culture I was brought up in. But upon finishing your book, I realized there are some fundamental truths about male / female dynamics that NO one in their right state of mind can deny... and us "religious" freaks have this thing for "truism" :) haha Once again, thank you very much for this awesome e-book. Two more semesters, and I'll be done with college - so, no more tuition fees! Which means you'll be looking forward to having at least ONE person purchase your Deluxe offer from my neck of the woods ;)"

March 02, 2007

Tomorrow, Saturday, March 3 2007 is the big day… get ready

It happens tomorrow, Saturday, March 3 2007 at 2 PM Eastern

What, you ask? The official re-release of my Real Conversations with Real Women Eavesdrop CD's, where you get to hear me talk one on one with real, live women, creating attraction before your very ears. If you've ever been confused by what I or others teach, this system will make EVERYTHING clear.

For a neat preview of this system, go to
While the VIP list has snatched up most of the available sets, there are a few left. The above link will be the link to go to tomorrow at 2:00 PM Eastern- at that time, it will go live, and I will be accepting orders for this unique system. In fact, you might want to book mark this link to make sure they're not all gone by the time you get there.

Also, if you haven't checked them out, you can listen to audio samples of this unique program at:

Get ready, because this release is going to be really exciting--I have designed this product to help the man who is awkward and unlucky with women (but it will work just as well for men who are already successful, and want to become more so). Again, you can check out the preview page at: and this page will go live Saturday, March 3 2007 at 2 PM Eastern

Originally there were 27 Basic sets, and 17 Deluxe sets in this re-release. Since I first re-released this product to my VIP List, we are down to 8 sets of the Basic, and 5 sets of the Deluxe remaining. Obviously they won't last long (my list is now at 63,332), so it is vital you take fast action when the link goes live. I will send you that link tomorrow, right before it goes live.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Again, the place to be at Saturday, March 3 2007 at 2:00 PM Eastern by your email- look for an email with the subject line "It's Alive!" That email will contain the link to the webpage where you can get your hands on this remarkable system.

PPS A while back I had an unusual contest. Whoever provided the best answer to the following question, "if I were to 'sell' you my soon to be released Real Conversations with Real Women Eavesdrop CD's free, would you get them AND how do you feel they would benefit you?" would win a free copy of the Deluxe version of that product.

The winner to that contest was a man named Bill L--and his winning entry is at the bottom of this message. With the thousands of people on this list, I received hundreds of entries as you might imagine. Some of these entries were very valuable, so I'm going to reprint the best ones here.

Reading over these entries, you may find something unusual happening: you may realize that what you thought was a problem or issue with women only you had is actually shared by many other men, and that can be a comforting thought. While you will discover different ways this product will benefit you, you'll also discover that, no matter your struggles with women, you are not alone, nor are you "weird." Many other men share the same struggles as you might.


I would "buy" a free copy of this CD set because I feel like I am at a crossroads in life. While age does not matter, according to the King's mantra, my ability to attract women from a physical standpoint is on the downturn. Yet recently, after many years of spectacular failure, I've noticed I've been coming closer with the alleged fairer sex, but have been unable to slam the door (to the bedroom behind me, locking it, and then proceeding with several hours of the mind-blowing, earth-shattering, room-spinning, spine-tingling, toe-curling, back-arching white-knuckle intense passion that all creatures on this earth crave). If I found something that I could afford that could help me get over the hump (no pun intended) I'd certainly be interested. And really, what is more affordable than "free?"

Jacksonville, FL

Hi John,

My answer to your question is this:

I used to have a friend (He is not longer my friend, because he got involved with hard drugs and become "an energy sucker") that was very succesfull with women.

He used to talk with them using the "hands free mode" of his mobile phone, to allow me to hear the conversation, he was such a jerk!! he he he!!

He has no respect for women privacy, but through him I've learned something that can't be learned "studying" theory alone. Hearing him talking to women, watching a true live example of how to talk
to generate attraction in women teached me this something, is like the natural proccess of learning by imitation. You would say modelling.

At fist I made the mistake of "copying" him, but then he also adviced my to follow his example but "being myself", adapting his ways to my core temperament (he is a non-reflexive overagressive kind of guy, I'm more of a laid-back, thinker guy) and then I started to generate atraction in women by the way a talk to them.

At the age of 27 years old, I've never had any sexual contact with women, not even kissing despite being quite attractive physically and being really smart. I used to a very, very "nice" and "naive" guy,

Men, I've seduced my first women, making out with her, at a birthday party in a few minutes, and I've never kissed a girl before because but modelling him helped my to recover my "natural naughty side". The girl was amazed by my "charm" and surrendered to my advances (not to all advances at first but I was persistent, you know retreat and repeat, and final surrender).

This is a true story that became real thanks to having a living example to learn from.

Because of my personal experience with modelling I know that your product has value. Hearing these real conversations can help a guy to get the vibe, to internalize all the attraction principles going beyond the theory to the practice.

This is my answer, a long and a convoluted one, I know.

Greetings from Spain

Carlos G.

Hey john,

I am entering myself in this contest because I believe that this particuler subject is haunting me in this stage of my life. I once read in one of your weekly e-mails that one thing we all need to do is identify what problems need to be fixed in our quest for beautiful women, then be man enough to do something about it. I have charm, somewhat good looks, and the humor under control. I need help when it comes to actually approaching/conversing with women (what to say, when to say & how to say it) In my mind i know what i'd like to say, but just can't put it all together. I know some women are easier to talk to then others, but it's the ones that pose a challenge that I set my sights on to give me the confidence I'm looking for. I would buy the CD's now matter what, but hey...if it's free it's for me!

keep doing your thing, the help is greatly appreciated!

Joe A.


The reason I feel this product would benefit me, is that I have been incurably shy with women,even though I have been a musician for the better part of 30 years, I clam up, as the "blankness descends" whenever beautiful women are around- I always feel that whatever I say would be of no interest to them, and it is VERY difficult for me to have any "casual " conversations. Just hearing John's samples has given me more self-confidence that there IS hope for me and my future
relationships with women.

Thanks again, John for filling the void in this area of life- I am well on my way to much greater success, in all areas of my life, as a result of your system!



Certainly I would buy it for free. Why, because I love a good deal and this is certainly worth more than free.

I am relaxed and have an easy time talking to women in person. Since I have been listening to you, that has been made easier because now I
really do this automatically without thinking about it. Just seems
to come more natural now.

Now on the phone is quite different. For some reason I do not have that easy a time to do the same thing on the phone. Therefore, I would hope that listening to these conversations would help me with this.

One thing that seems to happen on the phone much more than in person is long lulls in the conversation.

The one thing I do know about women is you can never know enough and can never study enough. I learn new things every day and I'm no spring chicken.

Keep up the good work and as always thanks for your good onformation.



Hi John,

I would "buy" these recordings for free because I believe that they will show where the theory and concepts become real. To me, studying theories and concepts from various people's viewpoints and perspectives is a great way to find my way of doing anything, and owning the material for myself. The principle of modeling others in real application is, for me, the fastest way to mastery of anything. I then chunk it into bite sized pieces and work with a bit at a time.

By the way, this is what I know works best for me, but I don't always do it. For example, after attending two internet marketing seminars and purchasing four in depth home study programs, and now receiving 150 extra e-mails each week,....I just got overwhelmed and was not getting any progress with any of them! I am picking one to start with and get good at, then I can study others to enhance once I am in the game.

So here's what I would do with your eavesdrop conversations. I would first listen to each one to get the flow of the conversations. Next I would go back and pick one at a time to focus on, listen to it daily, and practice using the key things that stand out to me in that one for a week with the women I speak with that week. Next week, another set of factors to focus on from the next cd, and so on...

I figure this way I won't just expand my cd collection, but my
collection of women as well. Now that's what I'm talking about!

Thanks for your materials, newsletter tips, and your openness to share others' materials as well. I expect to add these conversations to my collection of materials from you, Shelly, and Chet.

Thanks again,


What's Up The King,

If your product was free, I would definitely buy it regardless. The product you have is very valuable. Most guys tell themselves that they are comfortable talking with women on the the phone, or talking with women in general, but IN REALITY THEY ARE NOT. Purchasing your product will ensure I am confident when talking with a women on the phone that I eventually would want to talk with (amongst other things) in person. I know I would benefit tremendously from purchasing your product. I will have knowledge of a very valuable skill that many men need to know, but will not learn from going to college or any other type of traditional education. Many men will more than likely not learn this skill from their family or friends. Also, I just genuinely believe the world would be a better place in general if I am able to brighten some lucky woman's day while talking to them on the phone. I am convinced purchasing your product is mandatory. Talk to you later.



this product would benifit me because i have never had a relationship with a women ever and i am 25 yrs old next month.i want to get rid of this depressed sad feeling and prove to myself and others that i deseve and can hold a exceptional attractive women.



It will benefit myself by knowing which road to take to get to my destination, put me on the highway and help me stay of the dead end roads leading to no where.As a rsult one will feel more in control of situations with all its side affects to ones personal authority and self worth


You bet your ass I would buy it if you sold it to me for free.
Why? Because I'd like to hear you have real conversations with women. Don't get me wrong, John, I think you're right about attraction, about what chicks want and think. But it would be nice to hear it all from the horse's mouth (the horse being women, that is). This way I could really learn how women think. Yeah, read
romance novels, but you need all the tools you can get, all the info you can get at your disposal. As you've said many, many times, you'll be successful if you have the right information.

Thanks for your time,
Bob W.

Since reading your material, I've had a lot of fun interacting with women, but I've noticed the strategies are useful in all communication with people. It's fantastic. How would the cd's benefit me? I'd have more fun, that's how. The specific techniques would I imagine enable a whole new set of parametres to my conversations, flirting, whatever. I'm a professor - I deliver papers to 400+ people each week, and knowing how to convince an audience of your authority and be magnetic and have them eating out of your hand sure would be valuable. I do pretty good job as it is, I just want to do better! I want to apply all the material appropriately to all kinds of situations...there is a holistic aspect to all human interaction; no matter the tools available, they can be used for specific purposes and I want to win at it! I think some audio cd coaching might help me.



Hey King John,
I would definitely "buy" this for free. It would benefit me greatly by having an actual live person to listen to and model myself after (as you taught me in your "how to be a naughty boy women love" report). Having been in many plays throughout my life, I have developed the ability to emulate people and characters. After listening to a CD that taught me different accents, I was able to emulate the sounds and words that the speaker was saying pretty damn well (I can do a pretty good English accent, and my Indian isn't bad either).

I found that in high school I was modeling myself after the people that got results, be it in attracting women, having good comedic timing, or anything else I wanted to be good at. I would take what worked from them, or what I wanted to "add" to myself, so to speak, to make myself better. I would take in the good, and reject the bad. I didn't realize I was doing this until I read your report on how to be a naughty boy, and how you should "model and modify."

Now here's the thing: I am great with women in person, but I feel like I can do better with them on the phone. I haven't had anyone to model a phone conversation after, well, because they take place between two people and usually no one else. I'm sure that it's possible to make a 3-way conversation, but I've never done that, and I don't know anyone that has. I also could experiment and through trial, error, and calibration, I could probably get better, but it would take longer, and wouldn't be nearly as effective as having someone to model after. One of my Martial Arts instructors once told me "Everything that has to do with fighting has already been discovered. There are only so many ways you can punch, kick, and manipulate joints to inflict pain upon your opponent.

You could experiment and practice on your own, but you would be redoing what the master of long ago did. It's much simpler and more efficient to learn what's already been discovered, then go from there." This is my philosophy. I know that between you and the other men (like the "Shark" and David DeAngelo) that teach men how to be men, you've discovered almost every technique that can be used to attract women. If I experimented on my own, I'm sure I could get there eventually (hey, you must've done that, how else would you be so good with women?) but by the time that happened, I might be old. This is why I need your CD.

It would help me improve my weakest area when it comes to attracting women. Not only that, it would do it in a timely fashion. I would listen to it, and using my superpower of emulation, I will be able to "become" you while still being me. So what are you waiting for? Send me your CD so I can get to work already.


Dear John,

I was amused with your request for details on how your "selling" your product for "free" would help me, but WAIT! Don't discard my entry so quickly, because my amusement was caused by your offer to "sell" me something for "free!" If you give it away for free it'll be a gift, not a purchase... So using that line of reasoning, here's how your "gift" would help me... I usually can initiate conversation with women in the event that I have a predetermined mutual interest to discuss, but in many cases when I don't have such an obvious opening, I find it difficult to approach women with the necessary confidence to initiate a conversation with a random subject or one with a suductive intent. The greatest difficulty I encounter with initiating conversation is in an obvious flirtation scenerio, like in a singles club. So if your product can catapult me beyond such hurdles, it would be a substantial value. (actually if it were free it would be an INFINITE value)

Beyond initiating conversation, perpetuating it past introduction through to mutual interest and budding intimacy would be of greatest value. Learning techniques to pique her interest and sustain it until it is transformed into desire is what is needed here... Some pointers
on lighting an ember and stoking a smoldering fire until it becomes a roaring blaze...those are the techniques all good men (and bad little boys) need to cultivate to have success with women. If you can put THAT in a product you'll have something that would be a great buy at almost any price.

The main technique I need to learn from you and practice until I become proficient is turning myself into "that bad little boy" instead of always being the nice guy. Then demolishing my pedestals forever...So no women can ever occupy another one! Be sure to feature those techniques as well please!

I hope this missive gets me in the running for one of those "Free"

Jeff G.

Question: If I were to sell this product for free, would you "buy" it?

My answer: Absolutely. I am halfway through the Basic course and learning more every day. The more information that I have, the better 'adventurer' I'll become. Besides, the more men that have this product (including myself), the more men will have a greater understanding and control over women. The reasons are simple. We would have a more even playing field, and we could rid the world of wusses once and for all.

I know I'm probably dreaming here, but if every male had this understanding of women, think what a different world we'd have. I personally wouldn't even mind the competition if it would help rid the world of those sniveling 'mama's boys' and wimps!

Information is power and I want more power! I never was a wimp with women. In fact, I considered myself pretty successful with women until about age 40. I thought my only problem was that I could not keep them. Now, because of your course, I'm finding out why! These actual conversations with women would only add to my knowledge and power.

I'm 58 years old and, one of my biggest problems with women has always been approaching and conversing with them. Not only getting the nerve to talk with them but what to say in the conversations as well. Since my latest marriage ended almost 2 years ago I pretty much just "holed up" and maybe gave up on women as well. Your course is in the process is changing my life and I want that process to continue.

I am almost ready to go out 'into the world' again and when I go, I know that I will be successful with women (once I have an idea of what to say to them). All I need is a guidebook. I was always all action with women and I see now that it takes more than action. I have always had many of the qualities that you teach. Nonetheless, I was falling short because I didn't have THEM ALL. With your course, and the free gift, I WILL soon have it all!!!!



I would say yes, I would buy it if it was "Free".

As a Afro American, Christian, No Kids, Never Been Married, 35 yr old in Metro Atlanta, GA where the women to men are 16 to 1 'statistically' ... I see that having the cards in your favor is not enough. It comes down to how you present yourself.

Now, how you present yourself comes from the reality within, or how you see your own self. If you don't see yourself as having 'personal authority', then you will not convey to woman a reality of personal authority. If one can just give that image or vitual reality to a woman, then she will bite even if that "reality she sees" is not true. In this "age of wimps" as you like to call it, Woman are just looking for any man that looks like they have a clue as to who they are and what they want.

I see your conversations as a well to show us how to convey that
reality, even if its not really there. By hearing you, we will not so much go after certain "Lines" or "phrases" that will get a woman in bed. We will go after your presentation, posture, or simply how you handle yourself with a woman. By hearing how you present yourself to a woman, we will then be able to have a model as to how we should talk to woman to give that appearance or reality of Personal Authority.

James J.


Well I beleive you products are no bullshit i been useing you techniques i learned from the deluxe ultimate package and bother there kick ass because i get instant results; i am still learning.
I'd l know if i were to hear your conversions with women i'd be a better attarction maker towards women.

Respectfully, Christopher R.

Hello John;

I have been married for 10 years and although I love my wife, I have a hard time getting her into the sack. I am what you always refer to as a "wuss". I am too nice to women, but I have been reading what you have to say, and although I cannot afford the price of your full course at the moment, am saving all my dimes. I NEED a way to talk to my wife to make her more interested in me and to finally have a satisfying relationship. I got married at 24 and had never had sex before marriage (But neither had my wife). I NEED the help.

Thank you;


For many people, the pursuit of money is the most imporant goal in their life. Yet, what use is wealth if you cannot have true love. Call me an idealist, but spending the rest of your life with a woman is my idea of happiness.

Yet, like so many others, my pursuit of a that wonderful woman seems to only exist in fairy tales. Despite posessing a muscular physique from working out constantly, I never seem to attract that special woman. Even when I muster the courage to talk to beautiful women, they rarely pay attention to me. I lack the charisma, the suave confidence, the witty charm that so many girls adore. Without another to make myself whole, I feel empty and depressed. My friends look down on me because of my inabiltiy to connect or get a date with anybody!

Which is why I ask you, the King, to help my troubles. With your intricate knowledge of the female mind, and your time- tested formula, I beg you to turn my life around. I want to meet that gorgeous girl beyond the first date. I want to choose the girl who I want to meet, rather than let my friends set up dates that only end in failure after failure. I want to impress the guys that I can get a beautiful women to fall head over heels for me. I want to prove that I can be a real man and show those arrogant guys who always looked at me in distaste. I desire happiness - a happiness that I can only obtain through your product. I would buy your product because with the right information from the King of "women approach me," my life would be complete.

---Jay C.
---Denver, Colorado

John "Ye King ",

I believe the CD would give me a better insight as to what women want and what they will do for it. Not to mention what really turns them on. I haven't Dated for over 12yrs since I was divorced and I believe it would give me a Crash Course as to how Women are thinking these day's.

Your Brother from a different Mother

Jeffery M.

P.S. Keep up the great work John I dig the shit out of your email Newsletter!

Dear John,

As a recent purchaser of your Ultimate Attraction System I am slowly beginning to absorb the wealth of knowledge you threw at me in that package. While I thought your system was pricey, I have always believed, like yourself, that gaining new knowledge and implementing it into your life is the only way to improve yourself as a person, in the long run I knew it would be an invaluable investment. However, I couldn't resist submitting my entry for your contest and having a chance to get my hands on another valuable investment for free!

So why would I "buy" your Real Conversations with Women package from you for free? The answer came to me right away. Because I can offer you something much more valuable than the package itself in return. I am willing to provide you with regular feedback of my progression from nice guy to naughty boy, including stories of my failures and successes. I will provide a wealth of real life, candid examples of situations I encounter along the way. Of course you'll be free to use my input in any way you see fit. I'm well aware that you get plenty of isolated examples from you student's successes, but I think you'll agree, that receiving regular feedback from a single student is an opportunity you can't afford to pass up!

You can leave this part off when you post my winning response later, but I wanted to provide you with some background information about myself to show you that I have everything it takes to make this a successful adventure for the both of us. As a life long "doer" in other areas of life I have already had a significant amount of experience practicing many of your techniques, only it hadn't really dawned on me until I began reading/listening to your materials. I have been involved in team sports my entire life and the key concept in sports is that with practice you'll get better over time. With this I turned myself into a pretty good baseball and football player, even playing some football in college. So I know I have the work ethic and determination to put your concepts into practice and succeed with them in the long run.

Another quality I practiced almost unconsciously was your modeling technique. I regularly try to seek out the top performers in different areas of my life in order to model some of their behaviors into my own personality. I've done this regularly playing sports and most recently in my professional life working in the finance world. Doing this has allowed me to obtain 2 promotions and separate raise within my first 5 years in the working world.

The final quality I have practiced with success is the ability to
find weaknesses in my personality and strengthening them. When I entered the working world I realized I wasn't the best public speaker, so I took it upon myself to volunteer to teach a couple of training courses to fellow employees. This has increased my confidence and comfort speaking in front of people tremendously, so much so, that I'm thinking about Toastmasters, at your suggestion of course, in order to go full circle and make a former weakness into a powerful strength.

In conclusion, I think it is apparent that I am a "doer" who is willing to put in the time and effort to learn this art of attracting women. I have all of the character qualities to transform myself from nice guy to naughty boy with the ladies. As a bonus you'll gain first hand, regular insight into one man's journey along the way.

Your new protégé,
Jeff G.

Hey John: Thanks for the contest, and all the advice.

If you were to give "conversations with women" away for free, I would certainly sign up. The first reason is that you have previously given some very useful information, and also guided me to other people who have (David D'Angelo, Shelley McMurtry, etc.)

Another reason is that any such product should have something (if properly analyzed) that someone who gets it can use for his own situation. In an old job I had there was a multi-hour CD that showed how to do things with a particular type of software. I spent the multi-hours, and gleaned about 15 minutes of useful information that applied to usage of the software for my job.

I don't know how many other people "wasted" that time, but I can say that the 15 minutes of learning helped me then, and continues to help me since. (The company, on the other hand, didn't see fit to make or find a better CD to save everyone else that time -- their decision to waste everyone else's time, and one example of reasons I no longer work there.)

So, how will your conversations with women benefit me -- I don't know for sure yet, but I do know that you have made some great suggestions in the past, and that you are what they call in the media "a reliable source." You take the time to get the useful information out there in a more quickly understood manner.

I've also noticed that while I'm able to use advice to generate attraction in places such as restaurants, it is really easy to fall back into old patterns where you become the "nice" guy and don't generate all the attraction you want (but also sometimes generate too much toward women you're not really interested in). Positive reinforcement and repetition is a good thing.

I'd also like to say thanks for the recent advice telling us to get out there in the real world. I realized upon reading it that I've spent way too much time on the Internet lately. So I'll sign off now and get out there with a sincere "thank you."

Keep 'em coming,

Would I "buy" your CD if you offered it for free? Of course I would. Who would turn down a free CD of The King having conversations with real women showing how to create attraction? Everything I have ever received from John Alanis, whether free or paid, has always been right on the money when it comes to being helpful to real men who want to attract real women. Why wouldn't I or any other man want to learn from the master? What, do you think The King would be sending you a piece of junk just because he had a fit of generous lunacy enough to offer one of his valuable products for free? Get real.

-Charlie R.

I believe the best way to learn anything is to see (or in this case hear) someone successfully applying a skill. It's good to read and study a subject to help master that skill... however, it's MUCH better when you know exactly what to do and how to do it.

Even in the audio samples, I heard very subtle yet powerful attitudes you conveyed to the ladies you were talking with. Hearing the words that you said, and more importantly - how you said them - is the biggest reason that I would buy this product for free.

I'll go another step further - the feeling of confidence and control that I will gain in my life once I listen to, internalize and APPLY the right words and attitudes with women will be worth a LOT in my life. It's difficult to put a price tag on having greater success with women. When you have great relationships with the opposite sex, you feel like you can conquer the world. If you master the fundamentals of business, a sport, or anything else the same way you master the fundamentals with women, you'll have a solid foundation of knowledge and confidence that can lead to success in these other areas.

To summarize - this knowledge, confidence and peace of mind in dealing with women are the main reasons I would buy this product for free.

Brian in Denver


Mr. Alanis,

I would by the cd's because I have learned a new way of life since I started reading and studying your materials. The information you supply is very accurate and effective when applied. It also subliminally encourages you to study related materials and sources. I have found learning and studying to be something I enjoy doing since starting to read your materials. I have never really felt like this before and I have read many other self help materials. You have a way of motivating people to find out more about themselves and life in general that I have seen very few other people duplicate. perhaps none.. I have spent more time in the library and bookstores since reading your book and listening to the cd than ever before. By the way these are great places to meet woman. The ideas and information you offer are priceless. I wish that I had seen them forty years ago.

bill l.

JA: As you can see, I had many fine entries, and many, many more I simply did not have the room to print. I'm happy to see that you guys are thinking about how to actively improve your life, with women and otherwise using my products. I chose Bill as the winner because 1) I had to choose a winner and 2) He's not only applying my information to all areas of his life, he's also actively studying other materials as a result AND attracting women at the places he does so. Now, that's a multi-tasker--and a winner! Congratulations, Bill you win the Deluxe Version of my Real Conversations with Real Women Eavesdrop CD's FREE!

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Do You Make These Mistakes With Sexy Women?

1. Hoping and praying she'll "like you" because of "who you are?"

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5. Thinking that just because she's "with you" she won't dump you in a heartbeat for another guy.

6. Thinking that just because you have money, a fancy car or a big house sexy women will be attracted to you.

7. Going on "dates." with sexy women.

8. Hoping she'll "let you kiss her" at the end of a "date."

9. Buying sexy women drinks first, hoping they'll "go home with you."

10. Believing sexy women when they say, "I just wish I could meet a nice guy."

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