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Will she see you again? Only if you do this one thing right
After I discovered attraction was a learnable skill, I got to where I was pretty good at getting first dates. But getting a second one was a real pain. Why? Because I didn't do a good enough job of creating attraction on the first one.
This happens with a lot of guys, but there is a simple solution. Have a look at the email below, as well as my answer--it may just save you a lot of "one time" dates.
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Hi John:
Maybe you don't call this "flaking"; maybe it's something else but it seems to happen too often. I meet a women we (at least seem to have a pretty good time), and towards the end of the evening I suggest that we should get together again. As soon as I get a "maybe" or a "we can talk about" I pretty much figure that a: the evening did not go as well as I perceived. b: I am being asked to beg (forget it!) or c: This is some test to which I do not have the right answer. I used to call again, but now I just do not bother. Am I being the flake here? Thanks,
James
JA: Thanks for the email, James. While this is not what I'd call flaking, I do know exactly what's going on here: the women who say, "maybe" are not attracted to you. You see, when a woman feels that wonderful feeling of attraction, she cannot wait to see you again. You become the most important thing to her. But if she's not attracted to you, you might as well not even exist any more.
One thing you should work on is your calibration skills. By calibration skills, I mean your ability to tell when a woman is attracted to you, and when she's not. Think back over your past successes, and see if you can remember the looks, gestures and mannerisms of a woman who was very attracted to you. Then see if you can remember the looks, gestures and behavior of a woman who told you "maybe." You'll find there's a big difference between the two.
There's one last thing to keep in mind in this situation: you should never "suggest" to a woman that you get together again. That's a loss of personal authority, and can kill attraction dead. Now, if she's truly attracted to you, getting together again will be the most natural thing in the world, and all you have to do is say, "let's meet again at this time, date, and place." You don't ask, you simply make the statement. If she's attracted, she'll be there at the appointed time and place. If she's not, she'll let you know she can't meet you.
The whole key to all of this, though is successfully creating attraction. Do it right, and she'll always want to meet you again. Screw it up, and you'll keep getting a lot of maybe's and "think about it's."
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On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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