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April 06, 2008
A tough decision
Hey guys,
One of the toughest decisions a man has to make is choosing between two seemingly well qualified women for a long term relationship. How do you make the right decision without coming across as a jerk?
That's what today's email from Keith D. currently serving in Iraq is all about. Read it carefully, plus my answer to discover how to deal with a difficult situation like this.
John
I am a Soldier currently deployed to Iraq. Back home waiting for me is an amazing woman that I have been with for a few years following an ugly divorce. However, since I have been here I have met another amazing woman that wants to have a long term relationship. We met under some pretty extreme conditions and now I can't get her out of my mind. She is equally amazing and I am having trouble deciding what to do. I don't want to be "one of those guys", but I really like both of them. What is the right thing to do?
Sincerely,
Keith D
JA: Thanks for writing in, Keith--always good to hear from military personnel. There are a few things that are important here. The first one is this: it's a psychological phenomenon that when men and women meet under extreme duress that extreme attraction is produced. (In fact, if you want to create attraction with a woman, engage in physical activity with her (such as running, or going to the gym), and attraction will develop from there.) Now, that does not mean you should necessarily have a long term relationship based on that extreme initial attraction, because initial attraction has very little to do with the success of a long term relationship.
That intense attraction will fade in six months or so, and then you're left with someone you may or may not be well matched with. So, the thing to do is to sit down and unemotionally decide what your current desired outcomes with women are- in other words, gain clarity of purpose.
Once you've determined that, then you need to sit down and decide what it is you want, and don't want in a woman, especially if you are interested in a long term committed relationship. When you go through this exercise, you may actually find out that one or both women are not appropriate for that kind of relationship. The key here is to make sure you go through this exercise unemotionally, taking into account those things that lead to success in a long term relationship.
In my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success with Women System, I devote an entire section to this very thing. You can check it out at http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm.
Thanks for the email, Keith and for your longtime service to our country.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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