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"These secrets really opened my eyes. After a bitter divorce I moved to Denver to get away from my ex-wife and basically start over. I knew no one in Denver and had no way to meet anyone. I was burned out on women, and skeptical about ever meeting one who I could just enjoy spending time with. But, I gave John's secrets a try, and to my utter surprise I "hooked up" with a cute Emergency Room Doctor! She really likes being my "adventure partner" (just like John taught me she would), and our "relationship" is completely stress free. This is how it's supposed to be!

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"Wow, I wish I'd had this book in college, when I was 21! Better late than never, though. I'm 37 years old, balding, and kind of gruff looking. I never believed these secrets would work for me. But I decided I had nothing to lose, so I recently tried them in a popular local bar. Sure enough, a cute blonde named Amy came up to approach me and start talking to me... she even gave me her number. I was so stunned these secrets worked that I didn't call her back. I couldn't believe this was actually happening just like John said it would. She finally called me, and we decided to go bowling... funny thing though, we never made it to the bowling alley!"

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"These secrets are fantastic. I travel a lot in my business so I don't have time for a steady relationship right now. John's secrets have allowed me to meet women in every city I travel to. I spend time in New York, Philadelphia, Phoenix, Baltimore, as well as here in Toronto. A few days before I arrive, I put John's secrets to work for me online, and always have a date, no matter where I am in the world. If I ever decide to "settle down" I know I can use them to meet that one special lady, but for right now, I'm having way too much fun! Thanks, John!"

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"Dear John,
I had purchased your E-book a couple of months ago, and let me tell you, it's truly a God-send! What I love about your instructions is they are very open-ended in how one can implement your techniques. One doesn't have to worry about "Oh shit, am I doing what such and such page instructed me to do correctly?!" - it beautifully managed to conjure up a bigger, practical "what to do" picture by the time I was finished reading it that, frankly, I doubt few other e-books on the matter will be able to pull off in their readers' minds. Needless to say, my results with women have been pretty amazing! The "smile your way through" technique alone is incredibly effective. Definitely smacks of the good ol' "small hinges turn big doors" maxim, and does so beautifully! It amazing how it's small things like this most of us men take for granted, instead trying desperately to put up some fake Al Pacinoesque or Johnny Depp look to attract women (and for the record, two gorgeous ladies I know of like neither of these actors :)! Most importantly, what I REALLY appreciate about your ebook is that the methods you implement can cater for men coming from ALL backgrounds - whether they are your average "free spirited" schmoe in the street, or even religious, spiritually inclined types such as myself. You may find this funny, but to be perfectly honest, before purchasing your product, I went through some trepidation before buying it, thinking it was wholly based on "best ways to flirt with women" in bars and so on - a practice that's strongly shunned by the culture I was brought up in. But upon finishing your book, I realized there are some fundamental truths about male / female dynamics that NO one in their right state of mind can deny... and us "religious" freaks have this thing for "truism" :) haha Once again, thank you very much for this awesome e-book. Two more semesters, and I'll be done with college - so, no more tuition fees! Which means you'll be looking forward to having at least ONE person purchase your Deluxe offer from my neck of the woods ;)"
Sincerely,
Arman

April 27, 2008

Online dating from a woman’s perspective

Hey guys,

Recently I received an email from a man wondering why so many women's profiles stayed up for so long on online dating sites. The reason, of course, is these poor women can't seem to meet any attractive men online and are subjected to waldoes, wusses, and nice guys.

I received several good responses from women regarding their experiences with online dating, and today I want to share one of those with you.

John:

I've been meaning to write to you for days now. When I saw you were also a fan of Robert Cialdini's theories, I just had to respond.

I'm a fit, attractive, no-strings-attached, non-clingy woman with a fun career who had been on a popular online dating site for (I hate to admit it) YEARS now, I HAD to write back regarding online dating.

I couldn't agree w/your message below more:

"Oh, and the reason you see so many women with profiles that stay up for months? They keep meeting losers, wackos, and creeps who repel women instead of attract them. If you think it's tough for guys to meet attractive women, it's a nightmare for women to meet attractive men. That's why you see the same profiles over and over."

I try to be a positive thinker. However, the truth is, when online dating first took off, it was a fun place to meet people. It's now turned into a cesspool of men (and woman) who have what I call 'Relationship A.D.D.' It creates a 'kid in a candy store' mentality and women are increasingly wary to utilize the online venue.

I've had guys write to me with emails full of innuendo and others who have railed on me for being 'too picky' in my profile. Hey, I'm paying to post an online profile. There's nothing wrong with stating what I want! : ) Then there are the men who clearly have not read my profile before responding as well as men who come on WAY too strong.

If you're a guy out there who wants to attract a quality woman online, my suggestions for your profile are:

* Have a great CURRENT photo (be truthful about your weight and height or you are just wasting everyone's time.) Everyone is attracted to different things. Be PROUD of who you are!

* Mention you are secure in your career but not a work-a-holic (if this is true)

* Don't just 'wink' at women in which you are interested. Most of the attractive women on these sites will pass you by as you are not putting in any effort. Your emails should reference specific details you admire in her online profile.

* Your emails should NOT come on too strong. Show that you are a confident man, but do NOT act wimpy by referring to past relationship failures, etc. (As John also recommends.)

* Most importantly, if you just got out of a relationship, take the time to get your life together and confidence back before attempting to date again. Women (and I'm sure men) really resent being your 'transitional' person.

Lastly, whether it be online dating or face-to-face encounters, NEVER pass up the chance to greet an attractive woman. You have no idea how few times men pass up the chance as they fear those women are 'taken', 'out of their league' or 'b*tchy.'

Thanks John.

-Leah

JA: Thanks for the great email, Leah, your advice is right on, especially when it comes to men sending "winks." Nothing says "I'm a wimp," or "I'm lazy" more than sending one of those dumb ass winks. If you got the idea to send one, so did 27 other men. If you want a woman to respond to you, you've got to send a well written email that evokes mental images, compelling her to want to find out more about you. A wink does not do that.

I once had a guy who bought my Deluxe System, and sent in his coupon for a profile critique. I made some changes in it, and told him he had to actively write women since he lived in a sparsely populated area. What did he do? Sent out 187 "winks," then griped because only ten women looked at his profile. Heck, those are actually pretty good numbers, based on "winks"--think what would have happened had he followed my advice.

Thanks for the excellent email, Leah.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Do You Need Money to Attract Women?I get this question a lot from guys. Everyone wants to know if "having money" is important when it comes to meeting women. The answer is... yes AND no! Look, you don't have to have money to get women to approach you. In fact, whenever I first talk with a woman, I hide the fact that I do OK for myself, moneywise. I show up in my beat up 1992 Buick Regal (a car fit for The King - Not!) and make jokes about it.

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Do You Make These Mistakes With Sexy Women?

1. Hoping and praying she'll "like you" because of "who you are?"

2. "Just being yourself." around sexy women.

3. Buying sexy women gifts, candy, flowers or jewelry to impress them?

4. Being a kind, sensitive, caring guy who caters to her every whim and desire.

5. Thinking that just because she's "with you" she won't dump you in a heartbeat for another guy.

6. Thinking that just because you have money, a fancy car or a big house sexy women will be attracted to you.

7. Going on "dates." with sexy women.

8. Hoping she'll "let you kiss her" at the end of a "date."

9. Buying sexy women drinks first, hoping they'll "go home with you."

10. Believing sexy women when they say, "I just wish I could meet a nice guy."

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