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April 02, 2008
The attraction is gone— why?
Hey guys,
Ever met a woman, hit it off, thought things were going great and then... wham--she tells you she's just not interested any more?
I think every guy has, and it's frustrating as hell if you don't know why. If you do though, you can take early action to make sure it doesn't happen, and keep her interested. How? Read the following question and my answer to discover how to do just that...
My girlfriend has recently been having some trouble with our relationship. She says that I am the one for her but she feels something is missing but she is unsure of what the hole is from. She has told me that she wants to move a little bit slower and we have already been together for a month. I have been trying to do everything to re-create the attraction but not much is helping...please help!
Sincerely,
Samuel
JA: Thanks for the email, Samuel. This is something I hear about over and over again, and I used to experience it myself. What usually happens is this: when she meets you, she feels attraction. But over time, you start making yourself available all the time, you gradually stop doing the things that created the attraction in the first place, and you let your personal authority slip. What's missing here is the feeling of attraction she felt in the first place.
The first thing to do is to STOP making yourself so available. When a woman knows she can have you anytime she wants, it's an attraction killer. Why? Because all the mystery, intrigue, and excitement is gone.
The next thing to do is to mentally remove your "one and only" attachment from her. The instant she feels you've made a mental attachment to her, the attraction fades. She may be a great woman, but she's one of many great women available to you, and you need to adopt this mindset, and do so ASAP. Women don't like men who make them the center of their lives, they like men who have interesting lives they get to be a part of.
The last thing to do is re assert your personal authority--when she's saying you should "slow it down," that means you've let the authority slip over to her, and again she feels something is missing. As a man, you should take the lead in the relationship, so she can follow.
Truthfully, it may be too late with this one--once the attraction is lost, it's hard to regain it. But, even if you don't recreate it, you'll know what NOT to do with the next woman... and that's very valuable in and of itself.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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