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April 15, 2008
The truth about social media and attraction
Hey guys,
In case you missed it, the latest internet fad is "social media." Social media are personal websites like MySpace and Facebook, that let you form networks with in person friends and friends from around the world.
I got a good question from a college student a few weeks ago wondering whether he should ask for a woman's # via Facebook since he hasn't seen her in person for awhile. The answer I give him might just surprise you...
John-
I've been talking to this girl and we seem to get along pretty well. Our conversations are pretty good (make her laugh and what not). I do not get to see her all that often nor do I have her number. We mostly communicate on facebook and I was wondering both how to either ask for the number and/or just ask her to "hang out" sometime through facebook.
My gut tells me that asking through email is a bad idea, but i dont see her on a regular basis. Every little bit helps!!!! hope to hear from you soon,
mj
JA: Thanks for the email, MJ. Your intuition is right--asking through email is not an especially good idea, and the thing to do is give her the opportunity to continue the conversation with you at another time the next time you see her in person. In fact, any time you meet a woman in person you happen to find attractive, you should always set up the next meeting then and there. Waiting is ALWAYS a bad idea.
However, you do have use what you have at your disposal, and that being said, just let her know you're really not an "email back and forth type of guy, and that you prefer to speak on the phone." Once you get her on the phone, don't talk long. Get in rapport with her, build a little attraction, then tell her you've got to go, but you can hang in person on X or Y day.
The key is to strongly and gently lead the interaction to where YOU want it to go. Women will follow a strong male presence, but that presence weakens the further you get away from an in person interaction. Facebook and other social media can be OK to meet people you otherwise never would have met, but they are a terrible way to communicate. I don't use them. If I want to spend time with a woman, I'll call her on the phone, then meet her in person. For someone out of town I'll keep in touch via email, but I draw the line at social media, and that makes me different... and women like different.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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