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April 09, 2008
Why didn’t you marry her?
Hey guys,
It happens to me over and over again. I'll tell a long ago story of how I met a woman, we hit it off, had an amazing time together, and experienced an incredible feeling of attraction.
Invariably someone will ask, "well what happened--why didn't you marry her?" It's a question that drives me crazy because of all the unspoken implications behind it.
First off, let me say I am a big fan of marriage. I think marriage and family is the social bedrock of our country, and if you're going to have kids they need a mother and father who live and raise them together.
I also think marriage (or, more appropriately a marriage-like arrangement a la Gene Simmons that overcomes the financial disaster of divorce) is an institution to be respected, and anyone who gets married should do so with the intent of staying together.
That being said, however, I am very much against the "marriage at any cost" attitude that is prevalent in our society. Marriage is NOT appropriate for all people, and when people it is inappropriate for cave into social pressure and get married, the divorce lawyers start to salivate.
Furthermore, there is an insidious social belief that because you experience attraction with a woman (or "get physical" with her) that it means you should marry her. That's not true at all--initial attraction quickly fades, and lasting relationships are built on an entirely different set of factors.
Yet, everyday, well meaning men and women buy into the "complex equivalence" that intense, initial attraction means you should get married. Then after the initial attraction wears off (a biological fact that takes from six months to three years), they start blaming each other for "changing," end the relationship and repeat the cycle, thinking it's the other person, and never thinking about the fact their perception of marriage is fatally flawed.
Under the surface there's also the social implication that those who aren't yet married are somehow inferior to everyone else, an implication that riles me to no end. Many men and women have reached the conclusion that marriage is not for them, and made the wise decision not to engage in it, much to the chagrin of their thrice divorced friends.
If you want to have successful relationships with women, you must ignore the social programming instilled in us from Day 1 about marriage. It has little to do with how you initially feel about someone, and everything to do with how well matched you are with them for the long haul.
Neither should you feel guilty about relationships you have with women that are NOT leading towards marriage, something social programming is very good at making people feel. Shut out all the social programming, all the BS, all the criticism from others, and make decisions based on what's best for you.
You may stay single all your life and be much happier than all your married friends. Or you may get married wisely and have something not many people have--a truly lasting and successful marriage.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
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