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April 03, 2008
Yet another way to kill attraction
Hey guys,
Before you learn how to create attraction, there is a very important thing you must do. What is it? You must get rid of all your attraction killing habits.
If you don't, you will always wind up killing the attraction dead, even if you did everything right. Today I want to talk about a huge attraction killer most men are unaware of.
Here it is: the expectation that something "physical" is going to happen when you're going out with a woman. If she senses in any way, shape or form you have an ulterior motive, or expect something from her, that will kill the attraction.
I don't know how many men I've heard say, "I spent $200 on dinner and drinks, and all I got was a hug at the end of the night." Well, duh. It's because you thought that since you bought her something, she'd give you something in return, and attraction just doesn't work that way.
You cannot buy a woman's affections, and richer, better looking, and more successful men than you have already tried. When you do this, she recognizes you as just another guy, and treats you as such.
So what's the answer? Simply this: get rid of the expectation that she's going to give you something physical in exchange for a night on the town, and replace it with the mindset of mystery, intrigue, and anticipation.
When you disconnect from the expectation mindset, and replace it with the mystery, intrigue and excitement mindset, the whole game changes. She senses you're completely different from other men because of the absence of expectation, and that alone can lead to attraction.
When you add in naughty, playful, funny and other attraction creating behavior, all with no expectations whatsoever, that's when the fun really starts.
You cannot chase attraction, nor can you buy it. It's not a transactional thing. But when you're cool to the wire, and let things come to you, you'll both wind up having a good time, and she'll usually says this:
"I can't believe that just happened."
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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