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May 30, 2008

All it takes is enough 'deal flow'

Hey guys,

One of the biggest reasons men get into a bad relationship with the wrong women is because they have no other options. They meet a woman, are ecstatic that she simply likes them, then get into a relationship that is doomed from the beginning.

What's the best way to prevent this? By having lots of "deal flow"--the more options you have, the better choices you tend to make. But most men have no idea how to increase their deal flow. Read the below email to discover how one man is using my secrets to dramatically increase his choices with women.

John,

I'm testing an online dating site technique that I thought of which is posting a profile with the headline "Whats in it for you" without a picture on it. Over the last 20 days I have had 14 women check out my profile 10 of which have actually contacted me. I have no desire to play these women but they all seem like quality girls and I can only imagine what the response would be like if I had my picture posted 'cause I'm a handsome guy amongst other things. But I want to say you are teaching a truth in understanding how to create attraction and I'm getting results like never before. After getting to know these women and deciding who should be friend zoned I'm pretty sure I will wind up with that quality lady after all thats all I need just one but having options is great until I'm ready to enter into something deeper with one of them. Being in this position of authority is cool I feel like I'm finally on the right track to that special lady all us "monogs" crave.

Thanx A BUNCH YOU ARE A CREDIT,

Brian G.

JA: Thanks for the email, Brian, and congratulations on your increased "deal flow." When you know you have more women interested in you than you could ever have time to even meet, it does several great things. First off, it does put you in the position of authority (that women love) because you're the one doing the choosing. Secondly, it gives you the time to make a good choice because you're under no pressure. The more you have to choose from, the better choice you will makes. Thirdly, and most importantly, it does wonders for your self image--when you have 10 women after you, you quickly realize you're an attractive guy, desirable to women. All the fear, doubt and frustration disappear, replaced by certainty, confidence and authority, all three of which are highly attractive to women. That's why I love "deal flow!" Thanks for the great email, Brian.

To quickly and dramatically increase your deal flow with desirable women, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 09:30 PM | Comments (0)

May 29, 2008

How to sustain attraction

Hey guys,

One of the most valuable ways to learn about creating and sustaining attraction is to pay attention to what a woman has to say about a man she's been attracted to over the long run.

Sustaining attraction is just as important as creating it in the first place, and it is a learnable skill. Pay close attention to the email from a female reader below, describing how her boyfriend has mastered the skill of sustaining attraction.

Dear John,

I can't say enough about reading some of your material that you teach men about women and how to act around them. Thank you. Please allow me to explain why I said that. I am an attractive female with more then enough male suitors. The standing joke at my work is that I have 6 boyfriends.

All these men are tall, attractive, would do anything for me. My current boyfriend is NOTHING like any of the men I have dated before. He isn't about 6 foot, he is average in looks, he isn't a momma's boy and he isn't like his dad. He is confident but not arrogant and egotistical and thinks that he knows everything. He was confident in himself to ask me out totally sober. (I told him that the reason I said yes was because he was sober). Women should never feel that they are pretty through the bottom of a beer glass. I refuse to go out with someone if they have been drinking to get up the courage.

Rob smokes. I don't care if he does. It's because how he handles the smoking issue. Most of the time if a man smokes I would say "Don't waste my time." Rob just says "Ok honey I will chew gum before I kiss you." What has baffled family and friends is why I am so attracted to this guy and want to be around him.


When I got the link to your web site from Mimi Tanner I was delighted as I kept reading. Many of the things that you talk about I see Rob doing. So refreshing! Rob doesn't have a wussy personality and he is never overbearing or rude. Instead of giving into me all the time
because I am a woman and he doesn't want to get dumped.. if necessary he will tell me "no".

Rob knows how to act like a man. it's like he has silent authority. Kind of cool actually. The teenage kids totally dig him. They think he is cool and they don't set out to make him miserable. (If the kids don't like the guy they make him miserable) He has the kids' respect. He treats me with respect and he doesn't diss important things about me. Like my job. If I am being a goofball and silly he joins in the fun. He is man enough to let me be me and him be him and the mutual respect adoration and attraction just keeps getting stronger.


Since Rob makes me feel important, special and most importantly like a woman, I want to do little things for him. I want him around for a long long time. Since we are both work-aholics our time is special and precious. We have learned to make the most of it. Oh yes one more thing. I make more in my job then Rob; and that is ok with us. He is happy doing what he loves and I am happy doing what I love.

Money looks and job don't count... its what type of man he is.

Thank you so much. I have learned a bit about men too from reading you stuff.

Sincerely,

Kim
Washington State

JA: Kim, thanks for the great email, I couldn't have said it any better myself. Guys, if you can make a woman feel like a woman (i.e. feel a powerful sense of attraction for you even when you're not around), then you can choose your own outcomes even with women who are deluged with offers from guys who may be better looking or make more money. Women make decisions about men based on how they feel around them, and how women feel is due to controllable male behavior.

Thanks for the great story, Kim!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to step up to the Big Leagues and claim the success with women you deserve? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now...

Posted by john at 02:27 PM | Comments (0)

May 28, 2008

The one attraction killer every man overlooks—are you guilty of it?

Hey guys,

What I want to talk about today is an attraction killing habit many men engage in without even knowing it.

What is this habit? Constantly questioning yourself. Now, I don't mean questioning yourself in a good way such as asking "how can I do this better?" What I'm talking about is constantly questioning your "worthiness" to attract desirable women.

Some men question whether they're too short. Others feel they're too tall. Some think they're too fat. Some worry about being too skinny.

The list goes on and on. Men who are balding or graying constantly worry that the state of their hair will turn women off. Some think they have too much hair on their body. Other men think they don't make enough money. Others worry that they make too much.

Lookit, the only thing this constant questioning does is breed self doubt. And doubt is a prime attraction killer. Women don't want a man who doubts himself, women want a man who's confident in himself DESPITE any perceived shortcomings.

If I wanted to, I could constantly worry that I'm too short, too bald, too fat, have a business that turns women off (it doesn't--quite the opposite actually) and so on and so forth until I couldn't attract a woman to save my soul.

But I don't. Why? Because I know if I can make a woman feel attraction that none of that matters, and in fact, becomes endearing. When they feel attraction, they love my balding head, want to hear stories about my business, pay no attention to my lack of height (they say it's "just perfect" at 5' 6"), and tell me what great shape I'm in.

Why? Because I give perceived shortcomings no thought whatsoever, and concentrate on making a woman feel attraction. And they do!

If you do the same thing, you'll get the same results. Stop questioning yourself, and start creating attraction--it really is that simple!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Confused about just how to create attraction? Never fear, I've got all this handled for you! Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now to quickly and easily turn yourself into an automatic, attraction creating machine.

Posted by john at 04:18 AM | Comments (0)

May 27, 2008

Strong women, stronger men

Hey guys,

In the last 20 years, society has changed a lot. Women are starting to be more aggressive in business, and in romance, and I for one think that's a very good thing.

However, some guys are either frightened by this or confused, and don't know how to respond to such women. In fact, men, as a whole have responded absolutely the wrong way.

Unfortunately many men think that just because a woman is strong and successful, she desires a meek and submissive man. They think women want nice guys and wusses, tender-hearted fools who cry at the drop of a hanky.

The truth, however, is the opposite: women want stronger men, and they want men who act like men are supposed to.

You see, the response of men to the rise of women in power has been to get weaker, instead of to get stronger.

Understand this: no matter how successful a woman is, she still wants the man in her life to provide emotional strength, comfort and security. That is very important to women, and always will be. In fact, the stronger the woman, the more important it is, because there are so few places for her to find it, especially if she spends all day in that role.

So, when you meet a strong, smart, intelligent woman, be happy--it's your opportunity to be a strong man, and attract a woman all the wusses dream about, but never get.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Yes, I will take pictures and post them... a real, live blog is coming soon...

PPS Discover even more amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 04:12 AM | Comments (0)

May 26, 2008

Can I eat a 3 pound burger?

Hey guys,

I am on my way to Cleveland, OH for two reasons. One is for a mastermind meeting, where a group of us "information marketers" gets together to brainstorm ideas for our respective businesses.

The other reason is a little less noble. I am going to meet up with my brother, and we're going to drive over to a place in Clearfield, PA called Denny's Beer Barrel Pub.

Why are we going there? The answer is simple: to see if we can handle one of their huge burgers-- 2lbs, 3 lbs, or 6 lbs. It will be a feat of manly excess--the only question is, can I eat 2 or 3 pounds?

One thing I do know for certain--I cannot consume 6 pounds, and in fact, only two people in the world have done that... both skinny women.

What on God's Green Earth possessed me to do such a thing? A TV show. You see, a few weeks ago I was watching the Travel Channel and they had a special on places where they served huge portions of food... and lo and behold Denny's Beer Barrel Pub came up.

Now, while I am very big into health, fitness, and diet, like most "fitness guys," I have a love for food, especially huge portions. I'll pay the price in the gym and with my diet after all is said and done, but one thing I love to do is eat huge portions of good.

See, I have a list of places I want to visit before I die, and one thing I make it a point to do is actually cross things off that list. When I saw the show with Denny's, I immediately checked to see how far it was from my normal travel path, and found it to be only a three hour drive. No problem--I'll be there on Tuesday, probably around 1 PM.

What does all this have to do with attraction? Simply this: most men lead dull, boring, uninteresting lives, never taking action to do what they want, only talking about it, even apologizing for it.

I don't. If I want to do something, I do it, and this is no exception. And that behavior right there, the behavior of no regrets, no apologies, is very attractive to women indeed.

And the ability to eat a 3 pound burger? Probably not--but it's attractive to ME.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Yes, I will take pictures and post them... a real, live blog is coming soon...

PPS Discover even more amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 01:54 AM | Comments (0)

May 25, 2008

The inside out method of attraction

Hey guys,

"Inside out." A statement with multiple meanings. It could be a really cool song by a band called XYZ (it is). Or it could be a very useful attraction philosophy (it is as well).

You can check out the song on YouTube. But keep it right here for the philosophy--it might just allow you to attract the woman of your dreams.

When most men see an attractive woman, they think from the outside in. They see her, feel lust, attraction, desire, etc., then base their behavior on that emotion that was created when they saw her. In other words, they're not in control of the situation.

The attractive man thinks from the inside out. He sees an attractive woman, and immediately starts focusing on both is and her internal processes. Lust and beauty can wait- he must first create attraction via behavior.

See, the first thing you want to do when you see an attractive woman is avoid what most other men do, and that requires internal focus on your part. You don't want to slobber all over he because she's hot, compliment her just so she'll like you, beg for her phone number or any other thing you're immediately compelled to do.

Focusing internally prevents you from killing attraction so you can focus on creating it, and focus on her external responses, both verbal and non verbal.

By coming from the "inside out," you can control and direct the interaction to where you both want it to go--and that's usually a place most "outside in" guys never get to.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Discover even more amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 07:35 PM | Comments (0)

May 24, 2008

How to broadcast a “tractor beam” that pulls women right to you

Hey guys,

When I started this womenapproachyou business exactly four years ago, it was mostly about building "automatic attraction systems"--autopilot systems that put you in a position where women were forced to come to you due to the environment.

Now, I still love automatic attraction systems, and I always will. But lately, I've discovered that women have started approaching me absent any attraction system whatsoever, in public settings with other men present.

Why is this? I think it has to do with the fact that I've reinforced my self image to the point where I really do expect women to walk right up to me, and I'm broadcasting "something" that compels them to do so.

Now, a lot of it has to do with the way I carry myself, and my facial expressions, but there's more too it than that--women have told me they can "sense" when an extremely attractive man enters a room, even if it's noisy and crowded.

I attribute this to me simply spending a lot of time talking with women via different media, with the expectation they will be attracted to me. The more you do it, the more you subconsciously broadcast CME (Charismatic Male Energy) to women, something few men do.

The more time I spend with women the more "mischief I have in my heart," for lack of a better term. I feel attractive, fun, playful, and women pick up on it--and approach me.

Now, I'm not saying all this to brag. Not at all. In fact, I think this applies to every man regardless of looks, age, or income. The more time you spend talking with women, the more time you spend on the nuances of attraction, the more you will broadcast a "tractor beam" that literally compels women to walk up to you, regardless of whether or not you're using an automatic attraction system.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Discover even more amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 07:32 PM | Comments (0)

May 23, 2008

The rhythm of love

Hey guys,

Ah, what a great song that is--Rhythm of Love by the Scorpions, back when rock -n roll ruled the scene, not this gawd-awful whiney alternative trash.

While it is a great song, there is a lesson the title--"rhythm." Attraction really does have a rhythm to it, and when you start mastering this skill, that's one of the things you notice.

Think about the opposite of rhythm--starting and stopping, awkwardness, choppiness, and no defined climax. Yet, that's how most guys approach attraction.

When you start interacting with women on a fun, naughty, mischievous level, you start getting into a back and forth rhythm. She says one thing, you say something related that tops it, and so and so forth.

You and she start to get into a rhythm. You can feel an "energy flow" between the two of you, and the interaction is very smooth.

Not only that, it's moving towards a "climax"--you meeting her again, getting physical, etc. There's a buildup of anticipation within the rhythm, a slow turning up of the volume that drives women wild.

Women have a name for this. They call it "chemistry," and it's incredibly important to them. Read any online profile and you'll see most women are looking for "chemistry."

When you start getting into a rhythm with women (and it's a skill you'll unconsciously learn as you talk to more women), you'll be able to create that elusive thing they all desire, and you'll be able to do so, literally on demand.

That's when you'll have achieved true power and control over your relationships, and let me tell you, that's a great skill to have.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Discover even more amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 07:30 PM | Comments (0)

May 22, 2008

Walking tall

Hey guys,

Yesterday afternoon I went into a local BBQ joint to get something to eat. As I walked in, I noticed a guy walking toward me, and an odd thought popped into my mind:

"Wow, that guy is short."

What was odd about that thought was this: as he walked by me, I noticed he was actually physically taller than me--but I still thought he was shorter.

Understand this: according to my US Navy physical, I'm 5' 6 ¼" in flat feet, about 5' 7" in shoes. So, technically I'm short, shorter than this guy was.

Why then, would I think he was short? It was all in the way he carried himself. For whatever reason, he projected a feeling of "smallness," and it was kind of creepy.

Guys like this repel women, no matter their height. When a woman says she wants a tall man, what she really means is a man who "feels" taller.

I've met plenty of women in person who said they only liked men taller than a certain height, who were floored when I told them my actually height. In fact some of them don't believe it saying they thought I was 5'8", even 5' 9".

I've never been mistaken for 6' 2" and I never will be. But because I walk tall, and project an image of "tallness," women are attracted to me. It's not your physical height that matters, it's what you project.

"Tallness" attracts, "smallness" repels, no matter your actual height.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Discover amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 07:27 PM | Comments (0)

May 21, 2008

The lost art of attraction

Hey guys,

I love to watch old movies--movies from the 40's, 50's and 60's (even some from the 70's), back when men acted like men, not scared little boys. You can learn a lot from those movies, just paying attention to the mannerisms of some of the all time great leading men.

If you want to see the contrast between those men (who were devastatingly attractive to women) and today's wimp, watch a few of those movies, then watch a few movies (or better yet TV shows) of today.

Who should you pay attention to in the older classics? Here are a few names that will definitely get you on the right track:

David Niven

Steve McQueen

Sean Connery

James Dean

Clint Eastwood

John Wayne

Robert Mitchum

William Shatner (young, old, or middle aged--ol Bill's never lost it)

There are others, of course, but if you pay attention to these men, you'll get the idea. Watch out for what they have in common. Better yet, watch them with a woman, then watch a few of todays wusses with her and note the difference in her reactions.

What works is what works is what works and that will never change.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 07:22 PM | Comments (0)

May 20, 2008

What attractive men know about women that unattractive men don’t

Hey guys,

A while back I was at an event talking with a group of guys who know what I do for a living. Invariably they all want to see me use a "magic line" that somehow gets women to be attracted to me, and they always want to see a "demo."

Usually I politely decline, but occasionally an opportunity will present itself that lends itself to the true demonstration of attraction.

Out of the corner of my eye, I saw a guy walk up to an attractive woman (also attending that conference) and make a dumbass comment about the way she was dressed. What was dumb about it was not the comment itself, it was the way he said it, and his body language.

So after he walked away (and she was happy to see him go) I walked up and said exactly the same thing--with a naughty grin on my face, and a mischievous look in my eye. All I can say is, her response to me was different from the choad she just ran off.

Why? Because I acknowledge the sexual dynamic that's always present between men and women, no matter the situation. He didn't- he tried to pretend it wasn't there, and that he wasn't attracted to her, which she knew was BS.

She classified him as a liar from the get-go, whereas she knows I'm acknowledging the truth of the interaction, that I'm a man, she's a woman, and there's a spark there. Does that mean that I act on it? No, not at all. But because I acknowledge it, it makes her comfortable with me.

That's one of the underground secrets men who are attractive to women know that men who are unattractive or downright creepy don't. Unattractive guys pretend there's no sexual tension--attractive guys acknowledge and embrace it, but also transmit to her they're in control of their actions.

Powerful stuff, fellas--put it to work and enjoy the results!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Discover amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 04:45 PM | Comments (0)

May 19, 2008

Can you run your own brain?

Hey guys,

One of the critical differences between successful and unsuccessful people is this: successful people run their own brains, unsuccessful people let their brains run them.

As humans, we all have the ability (at least most of us) to control our behavior in regards to an emotional response. But most people don't do it, choosing instead to give into their emotions in the moment.

The unsuccessful man reacts badly to bad news, letting his emotional responses dictate how he acts. The successful man suppresses his emotions just enough so he can make rational decisions, often turning bad news into good news.

The key is to be aware that you can run your own brain, and the knowledge that this awareness is power. While you can never make the emotions go away, you can certainly control how you react to such emotions.

This, in essence, is running your own brain, and it is a critical component of success in any area. If you want to succeed with desirable women, controlling your behavioral reactions to your emotions is critical--the man who is always out of control is unattractive (and dangerous) to women.

So, keep in mind that you can run your own brain. Next time you experience an emotion that caused you to behave in a manner not conducive to success, stop and think about the best course of behavior. The more you do this, the better you will get at this skill, and the more successful you will become.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Discover amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now

Posted by john at 04:43 PM | Comments (0)

May 18, 2008

Why women love challenging men

Hey guys,

Here's good news: I have decided to extend my tax rebate sale by one day--it ends at midnight tonight, and you do NOT want to miss out. For details, go to

http://www.johnalanis.com/taxsale2008.htm

On with today's episode. What I want to talk about today is the importance of being a challenging guy to women. Women love men who challenge them. They do not like men who are pushovers.

I used to think that the way to a woman's heart was to give her everything she said she wanted, and tell her everything she wants to hear. But for some reason, that just didn't seem to work--I'd always hear, "you're such a nice guy," or "let's just be friends."

So, being the analytical guy that I am, I said to myself, "let's try something different." So I stopped telling women what they said they wanted to hear, stopped giving them everything they said they wanted.

Instead I positioned myself as "different" from other guys, because now I wasn't the type of guy who'd tell them what they wanted to hear... I was the type of guy who told it like it was. While at times they said they didn't like that, their behavior proved otherwise.

Now, when I did give a compliment, or do something for them, it was truly appreciated. Why? Because they knew it was genuine, not some BS tactic to get me to like them. And they knew I presented a real challenge to them, that I was not some guy they could push around.

As a result, they stayed around, secretly happy they'd finally found a man who was no pushover. Try it for yourself, I think you'll love the results.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't forget about my Tax Day Stimulus sale going on right now, and ending tonight: http://www.johnalanis.com/taxsale2008.htm

Posted by john at 09:18 PM | Comments (0)

May 17, 2008

Is it ever bad to be over-blown?

Hey guys,

Just a quick reminder, today is the last day of my Tax Rebate Stimulus sale--it ends at midnight tonight, and you do NOT want to miss out. For details, go to

http://www.johnalanis.com/taxsale2008.htm

On with today's lesson. As many of you know I am a huge fan of Gene
Simmons, both in his attitudes toward business and relationships.

One thing I have paid very close attention to with Gene is his careful crafting of his over-blown personality. At first blush he appears amazingly egotistical and outrageous--and in many respects he is.

In fact, one of his favorite sayings is, "It's nice to meet me, isn't it?" Kinda sums it all up.

Gene's overblown personality however, has a point to it--he's crafted it to produce an intended result and has done so brilliantly. He's overblown to point where he's attractive (attracts money, women, customers, fans, etc.) but pointedly avoids crossing the line where it becomes repulsive.

He's in complete control at all times, and transmits the fact that he doesn't take himself too seriously, although when provoked he'll fight until the end.

Many guys miss this point, and their over blown personality (which is very attractive to women, when done right) becomes who they are, and makes them repulsive. They believe their own con and start acting like arrogant fools, instead of not taking themselves too seriously.

The way to avoid this trap is simple: make it a point to switch out of your "overblown character" on a consistent basis, revealing a warm, genuine, serious side to yourself... before switching back.

This switching is one of the big secrets to attraction--without it, you're an overblown fool. With it, you might just be the next Gene Simmons. Or John Alanis!

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't forget about my Tax Day Stimulus sale going on right now, and ending tonigh:

http://www.johnalanis.com/taxsale2008.htm

Posted by john at 09:13 PM | Comments (0)

May 16, 2008

Should you discriminate against women?

Hey guys,

Before we get started today, I want to remind everyone about my Tax Stimulus Rebate sale, going on right now.For all the details and to get in on the fun, go to:

http://www.johnalanis.com/taxsale2008.htm

On with today's lesson. One big mistake men make when they start to get good attraction is they start treating women they meet differently, based on looks.

A guy starts getting consistent results with desirable women, and all of sudden he starts acting rude or standoffish to women he's not interested in.

This is a huge mistake, and the mark of a jerk. If you're an attractive man, you should treat all women the same, no matter how they look.

If a woman smiles at you, or makes a comment, you should return the favor, and make her feel a little spark of attraction throughout her day, something she might not otherwise have felt.

Women appreciate this, and it builds your self image as a genuinely attractive man. Do you have to act on the attraction? Of course not--that's reserved for women you're personally attracted to.

But when you go out of your way to make all women feel a sense of attraction, you start getting all kinds of cool things in return. Women will say good things about you behind your back, introduce you to their hot friends, and do what they can to make your life better.

Conversely, if you're rude or big headed, women will talk about you to their friends too. They'll say all kinds of bad things, and go out of your way to make your life more difficult. That's what happens to jerks.

So, don't be a jerk. Bring a little attraction to the life of every woman you meet, even if it's just for a brief instant. What you get back in return will be true power, success, and choice with women. Why? Because they'll choose to give it to you.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't forget about my Tax Day Stimulus sale going on right now: http://www.johnalanis.com/taxsale2008.htm.

Posted by john at 08:57 PM | Comments (0)

May 15, 2008

Why am I celebrating today?

Hey guys,

Before we get started today, I want to make a special announcement: starting right now, I'm having a sale!

Why? Well, since the US government is sending out millions of tax rebate checks (I don't get one), I think that's a reason for celebration, and a reason for me to put together a "stimulus package" of my own. For all the details and to get in on the fun, go to:

http://www.johnalanis.com/taxsale2008.htm

On with today's lesson. What I want to talk about is something crucial when it comes to creating and sustaining attraction with women, and that's the ability to control your own impulses.

Do most guys control their own impulses around women? No, they do not. They give in easily to lust, fear, scarcity and other attraction killers, and wind up driving off an otherwise attractive woman.

There are going to be times when you're interacting with women where you get a strong impulse to either "bust a move," call her repeatedly because she hasn't returned your call (or email her, or text her, or instant message her), or accuse her of doing things behinmd your back because she's not at your beck and call.

So how do you control these impulses? First off, have a life outside of women. If a woman doesn't call me back, I have a mountain of things to do--work, fitness, reading, travel, friends to hang out with, writing to do, etc. No big deal, and truthfully the women I know have busy lives as well so I don't expect them to return every call within five minutes.

Secondly, take pleasure in the process of attraction, the give and take, the back and forth, the push and the pull. Too many guys are too anxious to get to the end result that they don't realize the process of attraction is just as important to women as the outcome.

Lastly, become aware of your own mental processes (i.e. master "meta states."). When you do this, you're able to identify a destructive impulse, and quash it before it becomes behavior.

Do all of these, and you'll always be calm, cool, and collected at times and places where others are losing their heads.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't forget about my Tax Day Stimulus sale going on right now: http://www.johnalanis.com/taxsale2008.htm.

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May 14, 2008

The value of accumulated experience

Hey guys,

Recently a friend of mine told me something interesting in regards to the industry I'm in--she said, "you're 80 years old."

What that means, of course, is she thinks I have the knowledge of 80 years of experience in my industry, and there is some truth to that. That is not something that happened by accident, however--it has been a very deliberate accumulation.

When you have accumulated experience, you have a tremendous advantage over everyone else, and you have consistency of results.
Why?

Because whenever something happens, you're either seen it before yourself personally, have a friend who dealt with it, or read about it, and you know what to do in that situation.

For example, there's not too much any woman is going to say or do that's not covered by my accumulated experience.

So how do you get accumulated experience? Many no-nothings would say, "time on station," meaning that experience comes from the passage of time. But that's rarely true--most people don't have 20 years experience, they have one year of experience 20 times.

You get accumulated experience by putting yourself in as many learning situations as possible, making it a point to meet others with accumulated experience, and reading and studying your craft as much as possible.

That way, when a difficult situation comes up you either: 1) know what to do because you've personally dealt with it before, 2) know someone who's dealt with it, and can point you in the right direction or 3) know where to go to find the answer.

Most people, no matter how long they've been turning food into waste, have no accumulated experience, and flounder when the going gets tough. But if you make it a point to accumulate a lot of experience in a very short time, you'll shine when the bright lights come on, and it's crunch time.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Would you like them to approach you first everywhere you go? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

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May 13, 2008

Should you play games with women?

Hey guys,

In my 20's, one of the most common things I'd hear from women is this: "I don't play games and I hate guys who play games." And then, of course, they'd "play games."

I always thought that was a funny saying--"play games," because it had nothing to do at all with fun and games, and everything to do with being jerked around by someone you're attracted to.

"Playing games" has a lot to do with setting a scarcity frame--getting someone excited about something, then taking it away, knowing they'll want it even more. The more you do it, the more you want it.

Is it effective? Yes. But, in the long run, it's a disaster because it breeds resentment. People resent being jerked around and having their time wasted, even if it's by someone they really respect.

If you run across a woman who does this to you, the thing you should immediately do is disqualify her, and find a straightforward one.

And, instead of engaging in petty game playing, you'll discover if you're simply straightforward, and do what you say you're going to do when you say you're going to do it, you'll get much more respect (and create lasting attraction) in the long wrong.

You'll very quickly stand out amongst the game players because women can sense you're a level above them... and that's when you're a truly attractive man.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Would you like them to approach you first everywhere you go? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

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May 12, 2008

Here’s an important attraction skill

Hey guys,

When I was a kid one of the things I loved to do most was spend time with my Uncle, Uncle Johnny. He and my Grandpa taught me how to shoot, how to hunt, how to fish, and how to tell stories.

See, the thing I loved most about my uncle was his manner of speaking. He had a way of saying the most politically incorrect things in a way that made me burst out laughing in spite of myself.

Even though he pretended not to laugh along with me, I could tell he was secretly pleased when I laughed at what he had to say.

As a result, I always wanted to spend time with my Uncle. He was inadvertently hilarious, a trait I took careful note of.

I haven't seen my Uncle in many years, but I made it a point to adopt some of his most effective mannerisms, because I know they make people (especially women) want to spend time with me.

Understand this: no one likes a clown who angles and begs for laughs. But everyone is attracted to the man with the semi-sarcastic, politically incorrect sense of humor and manner of speaking that causes people to laugh... and then laugh harder... even when they know they shouldn't.

Bill Parcells when he was coaching the Dallas Cowboys was a master of this technique as well. His press conferences were "must see TV" because of his sense of humor--he could captivate with his language, sarcasm, and story telling abilities.

If you want to attract women and opportunity at a high level, this is a skill you should develop. When I finally honed it, people who never noticed me before suddenly wanted to hang out with me. Why? Because I was now an attractive man.

Like anything else, developing this skill takes time and patience. But you'll know you're doing it right when people around you start spontaneously laughing, even when they know they shouldn't.

It's one of my "secret attraction weapons"--and if you learn it for yourself, it will become one of yours as well.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Would you like them to approach you first everywhere you go? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

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May 11, 2008

Why you must just say no

Hey guys,

There is going to be a time in your life when you are going to have to make a decision. In that moment, you will know what the right thing to do is, but you will be very, very tempted to do something you know will not end well.

As you become better and better at attraction, especially the part involving personal authority, you will find more and more women will approach you. This is good... but it can also be bad.

Why can it be bad? Because some of the women who approach you will be married but unhappy. Some will be looking for a man to bail them out of a bad situation. Still others will be just plain dysfunctional.

The problem comes when one of these women is very attractive, tempting you with all kinds of wild offers. In that situation, it can be very hard to say no, even if you fully understand the consequences.

However, there is one thing that can easily allow you to say no to a bad situation each and every time, and that is an abundance mentality, backed up by a lot of great women in your life. It's much easier to say no to temptation when you can pick up the phone moments later, and invite a great woman to come over to spend time with you.

That's a big reason why it's important to master the skill of attraction. When you know you can attract women literally on demand, and have a lot of great ones in your life, you will stay out of trouble... and still have lots of fun.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Would you like them to approach you first everywhere you go? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

PPS Happy Mother's Day to all you mothers on the King's list!

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May 09, 2008

She wants you to do this… really

Hey guys,

Do you know what women want more than anything? I'll tell you: they actually want men to come up and talk to them.

Now, you know I'm a big fan of women approaching you first, but I am also a big fan of approaching women, especially when you discover they really do want you to come up and talk to them.

There's something very important in the first paragraph above, and I want to make sure you understand it: women want MEN to approach them. Not whiney little boys, not wimps, and definitely not goofballs spouting the latest pick up line.

They want a man to approach them, a man with a naughty boy smile, a great energy, and a strong sense of personal authority. They want a man to approach them who is genuinely interested in them as a woman, not a man who just wants to take them home because he's female.

When you learn to approach women this way, with no ulterior motive, you'll find amazing things start to happen. You'll attract a lot of women. You'll have amazing adventures. You'll discover how much women really do like men. Your life will change, because you will have a "power" other men don't.

Keep all this in mind next time you see an attractive woman... and get ready for fun!

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Would you like them to approach you first everywhere you go? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

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May 08, 2008

Accurate thinking

Hey guys,

Just about every financially successful person has read Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, and for good reason--it lays out the behaviors that allow you to succeed, and those that cause you to fail.

When someone first reads Think and Grow Rich, they make the mistake of picking and choosing the success behaviors they like, and disregarding those they don't. They love auto-suggestion, and goal setting, and the concept of the mastermind, but the one most people resist the most is accurate thinking.

Accurate thinking means seeing the world as it really is, not as you--or society--wish it to be. This is painful to many people because it involves letting go of long held beliefs and principles, admitting they were just plain wrong about many things. Yet it is this procedure that leads to massive success.

You see, if you want to become successful you must do EVERYTHING that allows you to be successful, not just the things you like. You must become an accurate thinker, and by extension an accurate doer.

Nowhere is there more inaccurate thinking than when it comes to dating, women and relationships. Many guys think, "oh, I'm a kind, sweet, nice guy and I just want to meet a nice girl who doesn't like all the naughty boy stuff you teach. I want a woman who's above that, who will like me for who I am."

That is inaccurate thinking at its worst. Women simply do not respond to a man with that mindset any more than a penny will suddenly fly away instead of falling to the ground when you drop it.

If you want to succeed wildly with women, you must become an accurate thinker, understanding the world of women, dating and relationships as it is, not as you would like it to be. But once you do that, you'll have something few guys ever do--choice with women, and I'm here to tell you it's a fine thing to have.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Discover how to be an accurate thinker with women and lead the lifetime of power, success and choice with the women you desire-- go to: http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm.

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May 07, 2008

Why you must 'get in the mood' first

Hey guys,

Several years ago a friend of mine who was a well known martial arts instructor said something interesting to me: "Emotion stands for energy in motion." What he meant was this--if your energy is low or bad your emotion will be too... and everyone will pick up on it.

If you're feeling sick, down or tired it's just about impossible to attract women. They pick up on your negative energy and it short circuits any attraction.

However, there are things you can do about this. Whenever you leave the house, it is important to get yourself in the mood to attract women. Understand that attraction is not just for sex and romance--when you create attraction with women anywhere you go, you get much better service, much better deals, and "head of the line" privileges.

Before you leave the house, mentally rehearse what you will say and do when you see an attractive woman. Replay the successes you've had in the past. Practice your naughty boy smile in front of the mirror, making sure your eyes back it up (a real smile shows through the eyes, a phony one is betrayed by them).

Now you don't have to spend an hour doing this--5 minutes is plenty. But when you do this, you "warm yourself up" for creating attraction with women. Your mind is oriented for that direction, and you don't have to start a conversation with a "cold mind."

This "warm up routine" is one of those seemingly small things that makes the difference between men who are average with women and those who succeed wildly. Don't neglect it--it might cost you the woman you've always been looking for.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to choose your own relationships with the women you desire on your terms? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm.

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May 06, 2008

He is a successful guy— but has no 'luck' with women

Hey guys,

I received an interesting email from a man who should, by any rights, be attracting women left and right. He's a fit, successful, educated business owner--who has no "luck" with women.

His email--and my answer--are below. Read them both carefully, as many men are in the same situation he is.

Hey John:

Thanks for the ad, your service, and your true desire to help men of all backgrounds succeed in one of world's life pleasures: women!!! I wonder if God spent the sixth day creating the perfect gift...........

But frankly, I have to choose between you and a thousand other so called love doctors on the net, bookstores, t.v. (Dr. Phil) and such and such. I've actually purchased a couple of these systems, and sadly to my surprise they all say the same thing (be yourself, be confident, be fun, etc, etc, etc,)

Problem is, I know all that, do all that and still no such luck!!!!!! John, I want to believe that your system will tell me something that no other so-called love site has ever said. I don't want to spend x amount of dollars, just to be disappointed again. I want information, knowledge that I don't know. I want to know the female psyche/science and how it works!!!!! I want to hear something that I haven't already heard from so many other love doctors already!!!!! Its depressing, moronic, and insults my intelligence. I'm a cool, fairly confident guy, who works out, goes to school, got his own business, and so on and so forth. Its just that when it comes to women................well, you know the rest.

I guess I'm asking for something that may not exist. I'm asking for knowledge that I can't find anywhere else. I'm asking for power that can't be sought through common channels. Life should be fun!!! Life should be exciting!!! for me, that's being around the company of hot, sexy, lusty women!!!! My boy Garyce gets all the luck, and doesn't even have half the accomplishments that I do!!!! If your system can offer and promise that, you'll have a customer for life. I'm not looking to return back your product once I used it!!! I'm looking to preserve it, treasure it, and keep it in the files in my life forever!!!!!

I know that this letter is long. I look forward to your prompt response.

Sincerely,

Chris

JA: Thanks for the email, Chris. Yes, there are a lot of goofuses out there selling a lot of crap that "should work," but doesn't. There are also a lot of guys selling very good systems, and the truth is the man serious about success should invest in them all.

Here's the truth about attraction: there is a certain set of male behavior that creates it, and a certain set of male behavior that kills it. If you're not getting results, then you are engaging in unattractive behavior.

Attraction is not luck, nor is it something that just happens. Your friend is not "lucky," he's engaging in attractive behavior and you would do well to model him. Attraction is a skill, and therefore something that can be learned. The operative word here is learned--that means it takes time, energy, effort and dedication to do so. But not as much as you might think, and it is the most fun learning you'll ever have.

There's one more important point I want to make about attracting women. There is no "system" or "hidden piece of knowledge" or any other external "thing" that will attract women for you--it's up to you to put the information to work for you, and to tweak it until you get results. Every guy eventually settles on a unique attraction style--but all attraction styles have important commonalities.

If you're truly serious about success with women, and are willing to take the responsibility to implement what I teach, then you can't help but get results with women. Thousands of guys have done this, changing their life forever. If, however, you're looking for the system to "do it for you," you're going to keep spinning your wheels, and keep getting the same results with women. Thousands of guys have done this too, even though they have the exact same information in front of them as the successful guys.

As I said, attraction is very simple: there's what works, and what doesn't work. If you do what works, and avoid what doesn't work, you'll get results. But YOU have to be willing to do what works, even if you don't like it at first. I, personally, find the law of gravity inconvenient--but I've learned to live with it and use it to my advantage. The same applies with attraction--at times I don't like the reality, but I love the results.

Here's the order link: http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm. It's up to you to take action--now, and in the future.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success and choice with the women you desire? Then go to: http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm.

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May 05, 2008

Where to eat like a man

Hey guys

As many of you know, I am very much an advocate of health and fitness, and that includes your diet. High protein, low carbs, lower fat, with lots of fresh fruits and vegetables spread out in small portions throughout the day while consuming lots of water is the way to go.

However, there are times when you just have to put that all aside and eat like a man--and occasionally I do just that.

Over the weekend I had the travel channel on, and they featured three places where you could go to eat like a man.

One is a place called Denny's Beer Barrel Pub in Clearfield, PA. Their claim to fame is huge burgers--2 lbs, 3lbs, 6lbs, 15lbs and all the way up to 128 lbs! Now while I know I couldn't eat the 6 pounder (only two people have and they were both skinny women), I could handle the 2 pounder, and possibly the 3.

Since I will be 3 hours away from that fine eating establishment in May, I might just have to drive on over and try my luck.

http://www.dennysbeerbarrelpub.com/

Another place that caught my eye was the Cattleman's Steakhouse in El Paso, TX. Reason it got my attention (in addition to their 4 pound porterhouses) was that I'd actually been there when I was a kid, living in El Paso. Might have to go back for that one.

The last featured place was a restaurant in Amarillo, TX called the Big Texan, and that's the place where they'll give you your meal free if you can eat a 72 oz steak in 90 minutes or less, along with the sides.

Now, I have eaten the 48 oz porterhouse at Morton's (my favorite all time restaurant) along with appetizers, salads, sides and dessert (plus some of my buddy's steak since he wasn't man enough to eat an entire petite filet by himself), and I'd be curious to see if I can handle that one. http://www.bigtexan.com/

Now, the ability to consume huge amounts of beef may not exactly endear you to the woman of your dreams... but you'll darn sure feel like a man when you're done--even if you do have spend three weeks in the gym working it all off so you can do it all over again!

Oh, and if you fellas have any more "huge portions" restaurant recommendations for me, let me know. Locally (Austin), I love the County Line and the Salt Lick, but those are all you can eat, so they fall into a different category.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to master every part of your dating and relationship life? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

PPS Discover how to unleash the naturally attractive man inside-- go to www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm right now!

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May 04, 2008

Should you have 'friends without benefits?'

Hey guys

Usually when a man signs up for my episodes, he's doing so because he wants to attract women for dating and relationships. But what about women in general you have no interest in romantically--how do my attraction strategies apply to them?

I bring this up because a doer who has gotten my materials, taken action and gotten results, brings up that topic in a recent email to me. Here it is:

Dear John,

I purchased your system and made small adjustments to my behaviour around women. I am now successful and confident and have a very nice girlfriend and 18 other female friends without benefits... My roommate was watching the "revolving door" at our apartment for a while in disbelief. And he is still stuck in his old ways of being "very nice" with obvious results: no women in his life for many years, even though he is an attractive 26 year old massage therapist with a college degree. If you could, please sign him up for your daily emails and ads about your products.


Sincerely,

Michael Z.

JA: Michael, congratulations on taking action and getting results. While obviously, your primary success is in getting and keeping a nice girlfriend, your almost as important secondary success is having lots of women as friends.

That's one thing a lot of guys who discover attraction is nothing more than a formula, a skill, seem to miss: you can use these skills to bring women into your life you are NOT interested in pursuing romantically. Why is this important? Because women like this can bring you opportunity (contacts, better jobs, financial opportunities, etc.), can introduce you to others you'd never meet, and put you in touch with women you may be romantically interested in.

In your day to day life, you have to deal with women in different kinds of environments. Knowing how to create attraction, even for an instant, can get you all kinds of things the average man has no access to. You get better seating at restaurants, faster check out at banks, grocery stores, etc., and invaluable contacts at airlines, the phone company, etc that you can use as a "back door" to bypass the usual service BS. In other words, having lots of female friends you don't sleep with, but who find you attractive, makes it much easier for you to succeed in other aspects of your life.

Attraction isn't just for dating, sex, and relationships--its for EVERY interaction with women. The more attractive you are, the better your outcome, plain and simple. That's the real power of being able to create attraction at will.

And, I will definitely make sure you friend gets signed up. Thanks for bringing up this topic, Michael!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to master every part of your dating and relationship life? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

PPS Discover how to unleash the naturally attractive man inside-- go to www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm right now!

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May 03, 2008

Is excitement overwhelming you?

Hey guys,

When I started in business many years ago, I was very excited by the prospect of generating floods of cash. In fact, I often got so excited it inhibited my work. This same thing happens to guys who want to attract women. Luckily, there is a solution to this problem, something that turns paralyzing excitement into the ordinary.

Read on to discover the email that sparked this question, and the solution that follows.

Hi John ,

My name is Jim and I'm 21 , and I'm a fan of you , you literally changed my life since I heard about you.... Anywayz I'm here today to ask you about what would u do in a certain situation. When sometimes you accomplish something ABNORMAL , getting billions , having abundance of women , being literally on the top of the world , YOU JUST GET EXCITED and that excitement sometimes can stop you from going any further telling yourself(I COULDNT BELIEVE THAT I DONE THIS) so is there any helpful idea or belief that could make me think that WHATEVER I DO! Wherever I go , I would NOT be excited because that excitement hurts and really sometimes causes what I call (BUTTERFLY) feeling whether its women etc.... once I had a friend that got about 7 millions in his account one night and he just got a heartattack from EXCITEMENT.

Please help me.

Thanx,

-Jim

JA: Thanks for the email, Jim--you bring up some really good points. Sometimes excitement about an expected outcome can be just as paralyzing as fear. I used to have a friend who would concoct business idea after business idea, get incredibly excited at the prospect of quick riches, then quit and move onto something else as soon as the excitement faded. He was an excitement junkie.

Excitement and fear both stem from anticipation of unknown or never before experienced results. If the result to you is common and expected, you won't be particularly excited or fearful. The way to get to this point is to take action and build your self image to the point where success in any endeavor is normal. When it's normal, you're not going to get over-excited.

For example, if the prospect of attracting a stunning woman gets you over excited, your excitement will fade into the background when you make it your business to be around stunning women on a regular basis--you'll find they're pretty much like any other woman, just wanting to meet a guy who makes them feel attraction.

It's the same thing with making money. When you focus on the process, and get into the hard work of doing it, the excitement fades. When you do it again and again successfully, it becomes your normal reality to you, and the butterflies cease to flutther.

So, the real key to overcoming paralyzing excitement is to simply take action over and over in the area that excites you until it becomes your normal reality. That's how the mind works--fear and excitement come from the unknown, not the normal.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

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May 02, 2008

A fast review of my most powerful attraction secrets

Hey guys,

When it comes down to it, attraction really is a simple thing. All you have to do is avoid attraction killing behavior, and engage in attraction creating behavior--that's it.

So, keeping that in mind, here's a brief "bullet by bullet review" of some of my most powerful attraction secrets.

A ready smile (naughty boy works best)

A quick wit

A great sense of humor

Colorful language

Personal Authority

A purpose in life

Confident body language

Physical fitness

Like and appreciate women

Pride in yourself in your abilities

Abundance mentality, not a scarcity mentality

Keep all these in mind, and you can't help but attract desirable women. And you thought attraction was complicated...!

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 01:51 PM | Comments (0)

May 01, 2008

Get your Official Man Card today!

Hey guys,

A few days ago one of my longtime customers, Cliff W. sent me a hilarious item in the mail--an official "man card." Not only that, it also came with a "revocation card," to be handed to any male who was acting like a wuss.

Hilarious stuff--and a good thing to keep in your wallet to present to any woman to reassure her you're not like all those wusses out there she keeps meeting.

Anyways, you can get your Official Man Card at www.officialmancard.com and I do believe you can get it at no charge whatsoever.

So, thanks Cliff for sending that in--and glad to know you're alive (Cliff once showed up as "dead" on a deceased suppression report I USED to run on my list until he assured me the rumors of his demise were greatly exaggerated).

Things like the "official man card" are great reminders about how important it is to have a sense of humor when it comes to attracting women. Many times a great sense of humor is all it takes to create attraction with women, and when you add it in to all the other attraction creating behavior, you tend to get 'round you lots of sexy women.

Sometimes the simplest things work the best.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Discover how to get sexy women to want to do what you want them to do. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm.

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