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Denver, CO
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Austin, TX
-Robert O., Marketing Consultant
Toronto, Canada
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May 29, 2008
How to sustain attraction
Hey guys,
One of the most valuable ways to learn about creating and sustaining attraction is to pay attention to what a woman has to say about a man she's been attracted to over the long run.
Sustaining attraction is just as important as creating it in the first place, and it is a learnable skill. Pay close attention to the email from a female reader below, describing how her boyfriend has mastered the skill of sustaining attraction.
Dear John,
I can't say enough about reading some of your material that you teach men about women and how to act around them. Thank you. Please allow me to explain why I said that. I am an attractive female with more then enough male suitors. The standing joke at my work is that I have 6 boyfriends.
All these men are tall, attractive, would do anything for me. My current boyfriend is NOTHING like any of the men I have dated before. He isn't about 6 foot, he is average in looks, he isn't a momma's boy and he isn't like his dad. He is confident but not arrogant and egotistical and thinks that he knows everything. He was confident in himself to ask me out totally sober. (I told him that the reason I said yes was because he was sober). Women should never feel that they are pretty through the bottom of a beer glass. I refuse to go out with someone if they have been drinking to get up the courage.
Rob smokes. I don't care if he does. It's because how he handles the smoking issue. Most of the time if a man smokes I would say "Don't waste my time." Rob just says "Ok honey I will chew gum before I kiss you." What has baffled family and friends is why I am so attracted to this guy and want to be around him.
When I got the link to your web site from Mimi Tanner I was delighted as I kept reading. Many of the things that you talk about I see Rob doing. So refreshing! Rob doesn't have a wussy personality and he is never overbearing or rude. Instead of giving into me all the time
because I am a woman and he doesn't want to get dumped.. if necessary he will tell me "no".
Rob knows how to act like a man. it's like he has silent authority. Kind of cool actually. The teenage kids totally dig him. They think he is cool and they don't set out to make him miserable. (If the kids don't like the guy they make him miserable) He has the kids' respect. He treats me with respect and he doesn't diss important things about me. Like my job. If I am being a goofball and silly he joins in the fun. He is man enough to let me be me and him be him and the mutual respect adoration and attraction just keeps getting stronger.
Since Rob makes me feel important, special and most importantly like a woman, I want to do little things for him. I want him around for a long long time. Since we are both work-aholics our time is special and precious. We have learned to make the most of it. Oh yes one more thing. I make more in my job then Rob; and that is ok with us. He is happy doing what he loves and I am happy doing what I love.
Money looks and job don't count... its what type of man he is.
Thank you so much. I have learned a bit about men too from reading you stuff.
Sincerely,
Kim
Washington State
JA: Kim, thanks for the great email, I couldn't have said it any better myself. Guys, if you can make a woman feel like a woman (i.e. feel a powerful sense of attraction for you even when you're not around), then you can choose your own outcomes even with women who are deluged with offers from guys who may be better looking or make more money. Women make decisions about men based on how they feel around them, and how women feel is due to controllable male behavior.
Thanks for the great story, Kim!
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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