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June 24, 2008

The *TRUTH* about women and money (and a remarkable free gift)

Hey Guys

First off, in case you missed it yesterday, I've set up a special "cut in line list" for those of you who've been hanging out with me since the beginning. When you get on this list, you'll be one of the few guys to get the "live link" to the Women Approach You Formula two minutes before every one else.

This is important because 365 men will be in the initial test group, and I anticipate a fast sell out. After all, there are now over 89,000 people on this list.

But when you're on the cut in line list, you will gain almost an unfair advantage over every other man on my main list because you'll get a special link emailed to you two minutes before the Women Approach You Formula link goes live, allowing you to invest in the DVD's before everyone else.

To register for the cut in line list, and join the 4,876 men already on it, just go to


Onward. The next item of business is to let you know that...


This bonus concerns a very important topic: women and money. When it comes to desirable women, lots of guys worry they don't have enough moneyto attract and keep a woman, or they worry a woman will "bleed them dry."

Look, here's the truth: you don't need money to attract desirable women. And, if you follow what I say in the Qualifying Part of the Women Approach You Formula, you'll be able to easily avoid women who are after you for your money.

However, there IS an important link between women and money, and that's this: the more you have of it, the more fun you can have with the woman or women in your life.

Look, if you live life on a paycheck to paycheck budget, with little room for entertainment, there aren't too many things you can do night in and night out with a great woman. After all, a night at McDonald's gets old fast, especially for her.

So, when have money, when you know how to make it, instead of going to Burger King on a date, you can go wherever the hell you please. You can go to the beach... or on a ski vacation... or to the wine country... or to a Broadway Show in New York. The point is, you can live a much more exciting life when you do have "the green stuff," AND include the women who approach you.


Plus, any *real man* wants to improve his lot in life, and wants to be able to provide for his woman and his family. As men, we take pride in "bringing home the bacon," and feel ashamed when another man does it better than we do.

We also feel immense pride when we know we can do it better than any other man, and what I'm about to reveal to you can allow you to do just that.

Now, I happen to know a thing or two about the getting of money since I run a successful direct marketing business, and that's very, very good news for all the men who are selected to receive the Women Approach You Formula.


Because the day before I conducted the Ultimate Attraction Immersion Event, I conducted a very unusual "money-attraction day" where I revealed (on a step to step basis) how to start with no fungolas whatsoever, and put over $40,000 per month in your pocket constantly and consistently 8 months after starting out, then $100,000 per month 11 months after that.

Sounds almost unbelievable, huh? However, you don't have to take it from me.

Why? Because I'm going to allow you decide for yourself, without you having to fork over any funds whatsoever.

See, everyone who gets the Women Approach You Formula, also gets the DVD's of the one day Money Attraction Seminar, where I reveal...


The fee to attend this one day event was $1,500 but I'm going to include the 8 hours worth of DVD's of this event (along with the audio CD's and HUGE Money Gettting Manual) at zero cost to you whatsoever.

See, the Women Approach You Formula is not just about attracting the women you desire. It's about living life on your terms, and having power and control over every area of your life, including the financial part. It's about having the freedom to get everything you want out of life, and to do that, you need the "green stuff"--preferably piles of it.

That's why I'm including the Money Approaches You Formula DVD's FREE when you're one of the 365 in the test group selected to receive the Women Approach You Formula. Not only will it make you deliriously happy (imagine telling your lame brain boss to shove it), it will make the women who came to you via the Women Approach You Formula very, very happy as well.

Trust me on this one!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS I know money-getting isn't the primary reason why you're here, but it's been my experience in the past that men who are interested in getting desirable women to approach them are also interested in making more of "the green"... it's a "manly" thing to do.

The girlie men in the media do their best to portray men who attract money as bad and evil (probably because the girlie men can't make any themselves), and this is another way for me to break it off in their you-know-whats. Nothing will make me happier than to hear a ton of success stories from men who got the Women Approach You Formula, had a great woman approach them, then attracted the money to live life on their terms.

That's why I'm including the Money Approaches You Formula FREE.

PPS If you've missed any of the free Women Approach You PDF reports... the interview with Dr.Z of Pent-haus... the interview with the two female hosts of Pl-yboy radio... or the videos of me demonstrating attraction with real, live women, you can catch up on
everything by going to:


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June 03, 2008

Misuse & abuse- Is this killing you?

Hey guys,

One thing I can't abide is people who are tied to their cell phones, PDA's, and lap tops. Instead of increasing productivity, people misuse and abuse them, killing their productivity. When one beeps, their "owner" comes running like a trained pig, eager to see what or who is causing the beeping.

There was a great article on the time magazine website a few weeks ago talking about how interruptions were destroying productivity, that interruptions had actually taken the place of work. In other words, the purpose of the workday was to be interrupted!

Like all technology, cell phones, PDA's, beepers, etc. are all "morally neutral." And, used correctly, they can help you be more productive. But they are rarely used correctly.

Just yesterday I was in the gym, enjoying a quiet workout, when the woman beside me started cursing loudly. At first I thought she'd dropped a weight on her foot, but, no she was using the swiss ball with no weights in sight.

After I determined she did not drop a weight on her foot, I thought she might have been cursing at me--but then she had another outburst that was directed at no one. Just as I was about to reach the conclusion that she was a crazy loon, I noticed she had a cell phone plugged into her ear.

Not only that, but she was working out while cursing an employee (or one of her kids), and she continued to do so for the next 30 minutes, moving from exercise to exercise, getting more and more animated. I walked out of the gym refreshed and relaxed, she walked out frazzled and pissed off. This is obviously not the correct use of technology.

Most people think that when a device beeps they are obligated to answer it. They are not--I learned that a long time ago, and it's been one of the smartest mindsets I've adopted. Others find it annoying, but I could care less.

I unplug my home phone, turn off my email, and give my cell phone # to only a few select people. Business phone calls are handled by appointment, and I only take personal calls when I feel like it. Rarely do I answer the phone when it rings, unless of course, I'm taking a scheduled call.

The result? My time is my own. People respect it and know that if they want to talk to me, it's on a scheduled basis. If someone calls me or emails me, I'm under no obligation to return that call or email--it's a very freeing feeling.

Here's an interesting side effect of this philosophy: it's very attractive to women. Why? First off, I have uninterrupted time to spend with them--the first thing I do is turn off my phone when I'm spending time with one. This is very unusual in this day and age.

Secondly, because I'm inaccessible, I obviously have an interesting life--unlike most guys I'm not calling them all the time. I end phone conversations quickly--better to spend that time in person than jawing on the phone. I am a scarce resource.

Most people let other people and devices run their life. But when you get control of your time and dictate to others how they will interact with you, your whole life instantly gets better--you have something very few people have, and that's time to enjoy your life on your terms.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS What better way to spend your newfound time than with a great woman? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover how.

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June 02, 2008

'It' vs 'I' —why one succeeds and the other fails

Hey guys,

Although I do get a lot of email and a lot of letters mailed to me, I do sit down and read my correspondence. Not all of it by a long shot mind you, but a good enough sample to keep an eye on what's going on in my business.

The most interesting part of reading the "white mail" is seeing the commonalities between different groups of people- those who take action and get results with my material, and those who sit on the sidelines and do nothing.

Every success story I've ever received is filled with the word "I." I got your system, I listened to it, I took action, and I got this result.

Every failure story I've ever received is filled with the word "it." "It" didn't work for me. Do you see the difference between the two just based on language?

One takes responsibility for outcomes, the other lays the blame elsewhere. Now, keep in mind, both are writing me about the exact same material. One succeeds wildly with it "the I guy" and the other does nothing with it, "the it guy."

Successful people refer to themselves and their outcomes in terms of "I." They take responsibility for their outcomes, and realize they are in control of them. They welcome the fact that everything is their fault, because they realize they have control over what happens in their lives.

The "it" guys blame everyone and every thing but themselves. They have no control over their lives, always chasing the magical "it" that will change their lives forever, not realizing the only "it" is high. Some of these guys do learn, but some never do. That's why I ban guys like this from my business whenever I hear from them--I have no use for them whatsoever, and they take away valuable learning time from all my "I" guys.

So, be sure you think in terms of "I" not in terms of "it"--when you take responsibility for all your outcomes in life, that's when success comes your way.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to choose your own relationships and lead a lifetime of power and success with women? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 03:27 PM | Comments (0)

June 01, 2008

Accurate thinking

Hey guys,

Just about every financially successful person has read Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, and for good reason--it lays out the behaviors that allow you to succeed, and those that cause you to fail.

When someone first reads Think and Grow Rich, they make the mistake of picking and choosing the success behaviors they like, and disregarding those they don't. They love auto-suggestion, and goal setting, and the concept of the mastermind, but the one most people resist the most is accurate thinking.

Accurate thinking means seeing the world as it really is, not as you--or society--wish it to be. This is painful to many people because it involves letting go of long held beliefs and principles, admitting they were just plain wrong about many things. Yet it is this procedure that leads to massive success.

You see, if you want to become successful you must do EVERYTHING that allows you to be successful, not just the things you like. You must become an accurate thinker, and by extension an accurate doer.

Nowhere is there more inaccurate thinking than when it comes to dating, women and relationships. Many guys think, "oh, I'm a kind, sweet, nice guy and I just want to meet a nice girl who doesn't like all the naughty boy stuff you teach. I want a woman who's above that, who will like me for who I am."

That is inaccurate thinking at its worst. Women simply do not respond to a man with that mindset any more than a penny will suddenly fly away instead of falling to the ground when you drop it.

If you want to succeed wildly with women, you must become an accurate thinker, understanding the world of women, dating and relationships as it is, not as you would like it to be. But once you do that, you'll have something few guys ever do--choice with women, and I'm here to tell you it's a fine thing to have.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Discover how to be an accurate thinker with women and lead the lifetime of power, success and choice with the women you desire-- go to: http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm.

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