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June 02, 2008
'It' vs 'I' —why one succeeds and the other fails
Hey guys,
Although I do get a lot of email and a lot of letters mailed to me, I do sit down and read my correspondence. Not all of it by a long shot mind you, but a good enough sample to keep an eye on what's going on in my business.
The most interesting part of reading the "white mail" is seeing the commonalities between different groups of people- those who take action and get results with my material, and those who sit on the sidelines and do nothing.
Every success story I've ever received is filled with the word "I." I got your system, I listened to it, I took action, and I got this result.
Every failure story I've ever received is filled with the word "it." "It" didn't work for me. Do you see the difference between the two just based on language?
One takes responsibility for outcomes, the other lays the blame elsewhere. Now, keep in mind, both are writing me about the exact same material. One succeeds wildly with it "the I guy" and the other does nothing with it, "the it guy."
Successful people refer to themselves and their outcomes in terms of "I." They take responsibility for their outcomes, and realize they are in control of them. They welcome the fact that everything is their fault, because they realize they have control over what happens in their lives.
The "it" guys blame everyone and every thing but themselves. They have no control over their lives, always chasing the magical "it" that will change their lives forever, not realizing the only "it" is high. Some of these guys do learn, but some never do. That's why I ban guys like this from my business whenever I hear from them--I have no use for them whatsoever, and they take away valuable learning time from all my "I" guys.
So, be sure you think in terms of "I" not in terms of "it"--when you take responsibility for all your outcomes in life, that's when success comes your way.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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