First off, in case you missed it yesterday, I've set up a special "cut in line list" for those of you who've been hanging out with me since the beginning. When you get on this list, you'll be one of the few guys to get the "live link" to the Women Approach You Formula two minutes before every one else.
This is important because 365 men will be in the initial test group, and I anticipate a fast sell out. After all, there are now over 89,000 people on this list.
But when you're on the cut in line list, you will gain almost an unfair advantage over every other man on my main list because you'll get a special link emailed to you two minutes before the Women Approach You Formula link goes live, allowing you to invest in the DVD's before everyone else.
To register for the cut in line list, and join the 4,876 men already on it, just go to
http://www.johnalanis.com/cutinline.htm
Onward. The next item of business is to let you know that...
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I'VE ADDED AN AMAZING FREE BONUS TO THE
WOMEN APPROACH YOU DVD'S
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This bonus concerns a very important topic: women and money. When it comes to desirable women, lots of guys worry they don't have enough moneyto attract and keep a woman, or they worry a woman will "bleed them dry."
Look, here's the truth: you don't need money to attract desirable women. And, if you follow what I say in the Qualifying Part of the Women Approach You Formula, you'll be able to easily avoid women who are after you for your money.
However, there IS an important link between women and money, and that's this: the more you have of it, the more fun you can have with the woman or women in your life.
Look, if you live life on a paycheck to paycheck budget, with little room for entertainment, there aren't too many things you can do night in and night out with a great woman. After all, a night at McDonald's gets old fast, especially for her.
So, when have money, when you know how to make it, instead of going to Burger King on a date, you can go wherever the hell you please. You can go to the beach... or on a ski vacation... or to the wine country... or to a Broadway Show in New York. The point is, you can live a much more exciting life when you do have "the green stuff," AND include the women who approach you.
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THAT'S WHEN LIFE STARTS TO GET REALLY FUN
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Plus, any *real man* wants to improve his lot in life, and wants to be able to provide for his woman and his family. As men, we take pride in "bringing home the bacon," and feel ashamed when another man does it better than we do.
We also feel immense pride when we know we can do it better than any other man, and what I'm about to reveal to you can allow you to do just that.
Now, I happen to know a thing or two about the getting of money since I run a successful direct marketing business, and that's very, very good news for all the men who are selected to receive the Women Approach You Formula.
Why?
Because the day before I conducted the Ultimate Attraction Immersion Event, I conducted a very unusual "money-attraction day" where I revealed (on a step to step basis) how to start with no fungolas whatsoever, and put over $40,000 per month in your pocket constantly and consistently 8 months after starting out, then $100,000 per month 11 months after that.
Sounds almost unbelievable, huh? However, you don't have to take it from me.
Why? Because I'm going to allow you decide for yourself, without you having to fork over any funds whatsoever.
See, everyone who gets the Women Approach You Formula, also gets the DVD's of the one day Money Attraction Seminar, where I reveal...
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THE MONEY APPROACHES YOU FORMULA... FREE!
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The fee to attend this one day event was $1,500 but I'm going to include the 8 hours worth of DVD's of this event (along with the audio CD's and HUGE Money Gettting Manual) at zero cost to you whatsoever.
See, the Women Approach You Formula is not just about attracting the women you desire. It's about living life on your terms, and having power and control over every area of your life, including the financial part. It's about having the freedom to get everything you want out of life, and to do that, you need the "green stuff"--preferably piles of it.
That's why I'm including the Money Approaches You Formula DVD's FREE when you're one of the 365 in the test group selected to receive the Women Approach You Formula. Not only will it make you deliriously happy (imagine telling your lame brain boss to shove it), it will make the women who came to you via the Women Approach You Formula very, very happy as well.
Trust me on this one!
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
PS I know money-getting isn't the primary reason why you're here, but it's been my experience in the past that men who are interested in getting desirable women to approach them are also interested in making more of "the green"... it's a "manly" thing to do.
The girlie men in the media do their best to portray men who attract money as bad and evil (probably because the girlie men can't make any themselves), and this is another way for me to break it off in their you-know-whats. Nothing will make me happier than to hear a ton of success stories from men who got the Women Approach You Formula, had a great woman approach them, then attracted the money to live life on their terms.
That's why I'm including the Money Approaches You Formula FREE.
PPS If you've missed any of the free Women Approach You PDF reports... the interview with Dr.Z of Pent-haus... the interview with the two female hosts of Pl-yboy radio... or the videos of me demonstrating attraction with real, live women, you can catch up on
everything by going to:
One thing I can't abide is people who are tied to their cell phones, PDA's, and lap tops. Instead of increasing productivity, people misuse and abuse them, killing their productivity. When one beeps, their "owner" comes running like a trained pig, eager to see what or who is causing the beeping.
There was a great article on the time magazine website a few weeks ago talking about how interruptions were destroying productivity, that interruptions had actually taken the place of work. In other words, the purpose of the workday was to be interrupted!
Like all technology, cell phones, PDA's, beepers, etc. are all "morally neutral." And, used correctly, they can help you be more productive. But they are rarely used correctly.
Just yesterday I was in the gym, enjoying a quiet workout, when the woman beside me started cursing loudly. At first I thought she'd dropped a weight on her foot, but, no she was using the swiss ball with no weights in sight.
After I determined she did not drop a weight on her foot, I thought she might have been cursing at me--but then she had another outburst that was directed at no one. Just as I was about to reach the conclusion that she was a crazy loon, I noticed she had a cell phone plugged into her ear.
Not only that, but she was working out while cursing an employee (or one of her kids), and she continued to do so for the next 30 minutes, moving from exercise to exercise, getting more and more animated. I walked out of the gym refreshed and relaxed, she walked out frazzled and pissed off. This is obviously not the correct use of technology.
Most people think that when a device beeps they are obligated to answer it. They are not--I learned that a long time ago, and it's been one of the smartest mindsets I've adopted. Others find it annoying, but I could care less.
I unplug my home phone, turn off my email, and give my cell phone # to only a few select people. Business phone calls are handled by appointment, and I only take personal calls when I feel like it. Rarely do I answer the phone when it rings, unless of course, I'm taking a scheduled call.
The result? My time is my own. People respect it and know that if they want to talk to me, it's on a scheduled basis. If someone calls me or emails me, I'm under no obligation to return that call or email--it's a very freeing feeling.
Here's an interesting side effect of this philosophy: it's very attractive to women. Why? First off, I have uninterrupted time to spend with them--the first thing I do is turn off my phone when I'm spending time with one. This is very unusual in this day and age.
Secondly, because I'm inaccessible, I obviously have an interesting life--unlike most guys I'm not calling them all the time. I end phone conversations quickly--better to spend that time in person than jawing on the phone. I am a scarce resource.
Most people let other people and devices run their life. But when you get control of your time and dictate to others how they will interact with you, your whole life instantly gets better--you have something very few people have, and that's time to enjoy your life on your terms.
On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
PS What better way to spend your newfound time than with a great woman? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover how.
Although I do get a lot of email and a lot of letters mailed to me, I do sit down and read my correspondence. Not all of it by a long shot mind you, but a good enough sample to keep an eye on what's going on in my business.
The most interesting part of reading the "white mail" is seeing the commonalities between different groups of people- those who take action and get results with my material, and those who sit on the sidelines and do nothing.
Every success story I've ever received is filled with the word "I." I got your system, I listened to it, I took action, and I got this result.
Every failure story I've ever received is filled with the word "it." "It" didn't work for me. Do you see the difference between the two just based on language?
One takes responsibility for outcomes, the other lays the blame elsewhere. Now, keep in mind, both are writing me about the exact same material. One succeeds wildly with it "the I guy" and the other does nothing with it, "the it guy."
Successful people refer to themselves and their outcomes in terms of "I." They take responsibility for their outcomes, and realize they are in control of them. They welcome the fact that everything is their fault, because they realize they have control over what happens in their lives.
The "it" guys blame everyone and every thing but themselves. They have no control over their lives, always chasing the magical "it" that will change their lives forever, not realizing the only "it" is high. Some of these guys do learn, but some never do. That's why I ban guys like this from my business whenever I hear from them--I have no use for them whatsoever, and they take away valuable learning time from all my "I" guys.
So, be sure you think in terms of "I" not in terms of "it"--when you take responsibility for all your outcomes in life, that's when success comes your way.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
PS Are you ready to choose your own relationships and lead a lifetime of power and success with women? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.
]]>Just about every financially successful person has read Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, and for good reason--it lays out the behaviors that allow you to succeed, and those that cause you to fail.
When someone first reads Think and Grow Rich, they make the mistake of picking and choosing the success behaviors they like, and disregarding those they don't. They love auto-suggestion, and goal setting, and the concept of the mastermind, but the one most people resist the most is accurate thinking.
Accurate thinking means seeing the world as it really is, not as you--or society--wish it to be. This is painful to many people because it involves letting go of long held beliefs and principles, admitting they were just plain wrong about many things. Yet it is this procedure that leads to massive success.
You see, if you want to become successful you must do EVERYTHING that allows you to be successful, not just the things you like. You must become an accurate thinker, and by extension an accurate doer.
Nowhere is there more inaccurate thinking than when it comes to dating, women and relationships. Many guys think, "oh, I'm a kind, sweet, nice guy and I just want to meet a nice girl who doesn't like all the naughty boy stuff you teach. I want a woman who's above that, who will like me for who I am."
That is inaccurate thinking at its worst. Women simply do not respond to a man with that mindset any more than a penny will suddenly fly away instead of falling to the ground when you drop it.
If you want to succeed wildly with women, you must become an accurate thinker, understanding the world of women, dating and relationships as it is, not as you would like it to be. But once you do that, you'll have something few guys ever do--choice with women, and I'm here to tell you it's a fine thing to have.
On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
PS Discover how to be an accurate thinker with women and lead the lifetime of power, success and choice with the women you desire-- go to: http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm.
]]>One of the biggest reasons men get into a bad relationship with the wrong women is because they have no other options. They meet a woman, are ecstatic that she simply likes them, then get into a relationship that is doomed from the beginning.
What's the best way to prevent this? By having lots of "deal flow"--the more options you have, the better choices you tend to make. But most men have no idea how to increase their deal flow. Read the below email to discover how one man is using my secrets to dramatically increase his choices with women.
John,
I'm testing an online dating site technique that I thought of which is posting a profile with the headline "Whats in it for you" without a picture on it. Over the last 20 days I have had 14 women check out my profile 10 of which have actually contacted me. I have no desire to play these women but they all seem like quality girls and I can only imagine what the response would be like if I had my picture posted 'cause I'm a handsome guy amongst other things. But I want to say you are teaching a truth in understanding how to create attraction and I'm getting results like never before. After getting to know these women and deciding who should be friend zoned I'm pretty sure I will wind up with that quality lady after all thats all I need just one but having options is great until I'm ready to enter into something deeper with one of them. Being in this position of authority is cool I feel like I'm finally on the right track to that special lady all us "monogs" crave.
Thanx A BUNCH YOU ARE A CREDIT,
Brian G.
JA: Thanks for the email, Brian, and congratulations on your increased "deal flow." When you know you have more women interested in you than you could ever have time to even meet, it does several great things. First off, it does put you in the position of authority (that women love) because you're the one doing the choosing. Secondly, it gives you the time to make a good choice because you're under no pressure. The more you have to choose from, the better choice you will makes. Thirdly, and most importantly, it does wonders for your self image--when you have 10 women after you, you quickly realize you're an attractive guy, desirable to women. All the fear, doubt and frustration disappear, replaced by certainty, confidence and authority, all three of which are highly attractive to women. That's why I love "deal flow!" Thanks for the great email, Brian.
To quickly and dramatically increase your deal flow with desirable women, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.
On with the fun...
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
PS Are you finally ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.
]]>One of the most valuable ways to learn about creating and sustaining attraction is to pay attention to what a woman has to say about a man she's been attracted to over the long run.
Sustaining attraction is just as important as creating it in the first place, and it is a learnable skill. Pay close attention to the email from a female reader below, describing how her boyfriend has mastered the skill of sustaining attraction.
Dear John,
I can't say enough about reading some of your material that you teach men about women and how to act around them. Thank you. Please allow me to explain why I said that. I am an attractive female with more then enough male suitors. The standing joke at my work is that I have 6 boyfriends.
All these men are tall, attractive, would do anything for me. My current boyfriend is NOTHING like any of the men I have dated before. He isn't about 6 foot, he is average in looks, he isn't a momma's boy and he isn't like his dad. He is confident but not arrogant and egotistical and thinks that he knows everything. He was confident in himself to ask me out totally sober. (I told him that the reason I said yes was because he was sober). Women should never feel that they are pretty through the bottom of a beer glass. I refuse to go out with someone if they have been drinking to get up the courage.
Rob smokes. I don't care if he does. It's because how he handles the smoking issue. Most of the time if a man smokes I would say "Don't waste my time." Rob just says "Ok honey I will chew gum before I kiss you." What has baffled family and friends is why I am so attracted to this guy and want to be around him.
When I got the link to your web site from Mimi Tanner I was delighted as I kept reading. Many of the things that you talk about I see Rob doing. So refreshing! Rob doesn't have a wussy personality and he is never overbearing or rude. Instead of giving into me all the time
because I am a woman and he doesn't want to get dumped.. if necessary he will tell me "no".
Rob knows how to act like a man. it's like he has silent authority. Kind of cool actually. The teenage kids totally dig him. They think he is cool and they don't set out to make him miserable. (If the kids don't like the guy they make him miserable) He has the kids' respect. He treats me with respect and he doesn't diss important things about me. Like my job. If I am being a goofball and silly he joins in the fun. He is man enough to let me be me and him be him and the mutual respect adoration and attraction just keeps getting stronger.
Since Rob makes me feel important, special and most importantly like a woman, I want to do little things for him. I want him around for a long long time. Since we are both work-aholics our time is special and precious. We have learned to make the most of it. Oh yes one more thing. I make more in my job then Rob; and that is ok with us. He is happy doing what he loves and I am happy doing what I love.
Money looks and job don't count... its what type of man he is.
Thank you so much. I have learned a bit about men too from reading you stuff.
Sincerely,
Kim
Washington State
JA: Kim, thanks for the great email, I couldn't have said it any better myself. Guys, if you can make a woman feel like a woman (i.e. feel a powerful sense of attraction for you even when you're not around), then you can choose your own outcomes even with women who are deluged with offers from guys who may be better looking or make more money. Women make decisions about men based on how they feel around them, and how women feel is due to controllable male behavior.
Thanks for the great story, Kim!
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
PS Are you finally ready to step up to the Big Leagues and claim the success with women you deserve? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now...
What I want to talk about today is an attraction killing habit many men engage in without even knowing it.
What is this habit? Constantly questioning yourself. Now, I don't mean questioning yourself in a good way such as asking "how can I do this better?" What I'm talking about is constantly questioning your "worthiness" to attract desirable women.
Some men question whether they're too short. Others feel they're too tall. Some think they're too fat. Some worry about being too skinny.
The list goes on and on. Men who are balding or graying constantly worry that the state of their hair will turn women off. Some think they have too much hair on their body. Other men think they don't make enough money. Others worry that they make too much.
Lookit, the only thing this constant questioning does is breed self doubt. And doubt is a prime attraction killer. Women don't want a man who doubts himself, women want a man who's confident in himself DESPITE any perceived shortcomings.
If I wanted to, I could constantly worry that I'm too short, too bald, too fat, have a business that turns women off (it doesn't--quite the opposite actually) and so on and so forth until I couldn't attract a woman to save my soul.
But I don't. Why? Because I know if I can make a woman feel attraction that none of that matters, and in fact, becomes endearing. When they feel attraction, they love my balding head, want to hear stories about my business, pay no attention to my lack of height (they say it's "just perfect" at 5' 6"), and tell me what great shape I'm in.
Why? Because I give perceived shortcomings no thought whatsoever, and concentrate on making a woman feel attraction. And they do!
If you do the same thing, you'll get the same results. Stop questioning yourself, and start creating attraction--it really is that simple!
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
PS Confused about just how to create attraction? Never fear, I've got all this handled for you! Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now to quickly and easily turn yourself into an automatic, attraction creating machine.
In the last 20 years, society has changed a lot. Women are starting to be more aggressive in business, and in romance, and I for one think that's a very good thing.
However, some guys are either frightened by this or confused, and don't know how to respond to such women. In fact, men, as a whole have responded absolutely the wrong way.
Unfortunately many men think that just because a woman is strong and successful, she desires a meek and submissive man. They think women want nice guys and wusses, tender-hearted fools who cry at the drop of a hanky.
The truth, however, is the opposite: women want stronger men, and they want men who act like men are supposed to.
You see, the response of men to the rise of women in power has been to get weaker, instead of to get stronger.
Understand this: no matter how successful a woman is, she still wants the man in her life to provide emotional strength, comfort and security. That is very important to women, and always will be. In fact, the stronger the woman, the more important it is, because there are so few places for her to find it, especially if she spends all day in that role.
So, when you meet a strong, smart, intelligent woman, be happy--it's your opportunity to be a strong man, and attract a woman all the wusses dream about, but never get.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You
PS Yes, I will take pictures and post them... a real, live blog is coming soon...
PPS Discover even more amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.
]]>I am on my way to Cleveland, OH for two reasons. One is for a mastermind meeting, where a group of us "information marketers" gets together to brainstorm ideas for our respective businesses.
The other reason is a little less noble. I am going to meet up with my brother, and we're going to drive over to a place in Clearfield, PA called Denny's Beer Barrel Pub.
Why are we going there? The answer is simple: to see if we can handle one of their huge burgers-- 2lbs, 3 lbs, or 6 lbs. It will be a feat of manly excess--the only question is, can I eat 2 or 3 pounds?
One thing I do know for certain--I cannot consume 6 pounds, and in fact, only two people in the world have done that... both skinny women.
What on God's Green Earth possessed me to do such a thing? A TV show. You see, a few weeks ago I was watching the Travel Channel and they had a special on places where they served huge portions of food... and lo and behold Denny's Beer Barrel Pub came up.
Now, while I am very big into health, fitness, and diet, like most "fitness guys," I have a love for food, especially huge portions. I'll pay the price in the gym and with my diet after all is said and done, but one thing I love to do is eat huge portions of good.
See, I have a list of places I want to visit before I die, and one thing I make it a point to do is actually cross things off that list. When I saw the show with Denny's, I immediately checked to see how far it was from my normal travel path, and found it to be only a three hour drive. No problem--I'll be there on Tuesday, probably around 1 PM.
What does all this have to do with attraction? Simply this: most men lead dull, boring, uninteresting lives, never taking action to do what they want, only talking about it, even apologizing for it.
I don't. If I want to do something, I do it, and this is no exception. And that behavior right there, the behavior of no regrets, no apologies, is very attractive to women indeed.
And the ability to eat a 3 pound burger? Probably not--but it's attractive to ME.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You
PS Yes, I will take pictures and post them... a real, live blog is coming soon...
PPS Discover even more amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.
"Inside out." A statement with multiple meanings. It could be a really cool song by a band called XYZ (it is). Or it could be a very useful attraction philosophy (it is as well).
You can check out the song on YouTube. But keep it right here for the philosophy--it might just allow you to attract the woman of your dreams.
When most men see an attractive woman, they think from the outside in. They see her, feel lust, attraction, desire, etc., then base their behavior on that emotion that was created when they saw her. In other words, they're not in control of the situation.
The attractive man thinks from the inside out. He sees an attractive woman, and immediately starts focusing on both is and her internal processes. Lust and beauty can wait- he must first create attraction via behavior.
See, the first thing you want to do when you see an attractive woman is avoid what most other men do, and that requires internal focus on your part. You don't want to slobber all over he because she's hot, compliment her just so she'll like you, beg for her phone number or any other thing you're immediately compelled to do.
Focusing internally prevents you from killing attraction so you can focus on creating it, and focus on her external responses, both verbal and non verbal.
By coming from the "inside out," you can control and direct the interaction to where you both want it to go--and that's usually a place most "outside in" guys never get to.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You
PS Discover even more amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.
]]>When I started this womenapproachyou business exactly four years ago, it was mostly about building "automatic attraction systems"--autopilot systems that put you in a position where women were forced to come to you due to the environment.
Now, I still love automatic attraction systems, and I always will. But lately, I've discovered that women have started approaching me absent any attraction system whatsoever, in public settings with other men present.
Why is this? I think it has to do with the fact that I've reinforced my self image to the point where I really do expect women to walk right up to me, and I'm broadcasting "something" that compels them to do so.
Now, a lot of it has to do with the way I carry myself, and my facial expressions, but there's more too it than that--women have told me they can "sense" when an extremely attractive man enters a room, even if it's noisy and crowded.
I attribute this to me simply spending a lot of time talking with women via different media, with the expectation they will be attracted to me. The more you do it, the more you subconsciously broadcast CME (Charismatic Male Energy) to women, something few men do.
The more time I spend with women the more "mischief I have in my heart," for lack of a better term. I feel attractive, fun, playful, and women pick up on it--and approach me.
Now, I'm not saying all this to brag. Not at all. In fact, I think this applies to every man regardless of looks, age, or income. The more time you spend talking with women, the more time you spend on the nuances of attraction, the more you will broadcast a "tractor beam" that literally compels women to walk up to you, regardless of whether or not you're using an automatic attraction system.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You
PS Discover even more amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.
]]>Ah, what a great song that is--Rhythm of Love by the Scorpions, back when rock -n roll ruled the scene, not this gawd-awful whiney alternative trash.
While it is a great song, there is a lesson the title--"rhythm." Attraction really does have a rhythm to it, and when you start mastering this skill, that's one of the things you notice.
Think about the opposite of rhythm--starting and stopping, awkwardness, choppiness, and no defined climax. Yet, that's how most guys approach attraction.
When you start interacting with women on a fun, naughty, mischievous level, you start getting into a back and forth rhythm. She says one thing, you say something related that tops it, and so and so forth.
You and she start to get into a rhythm. You can feel an "energy flow" between the two of you, and the interaction is very smooth.
Not only that, it's moving towards a "climax"--you meeting her again, getting physical, etc. There's a buildup of anticipation within the rhythm, a slow turning up of the volume that drives women wild.
Women have a name for this. They call it "chemistry," and it's incredibly important to them. Read any online profile and you'll see most women are looking for "chemistry."
When you start getting into a rhythm with women (and it's a skill you'll unconsciously learn as you talk to more women), you'll be able to create that elusive thing they all desire, and you'll be able to do so, literally on demand.
That's when you'll have achieved true power and control over your relationships, and let me tell you, that's a great skill to have.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You
PS Discover even more amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.
]]>Yesterday afternoon I went into a local BBQ joint to get something to eat. As I walked in, I noticed a guy walking toward me, and an odd thought popped into my mind:
"Wow, that guy is short."
What was odd about that thought was this: as he walked by me, I noticed he was actually physically taller than me--but I still thought he was shorter.
Understand this: according to my US Navy physical, I'm 5' 6 ¼" in flat feet, about 5' 7" in shoes. So, technically I'm short, shorter than this guy was.
Why then, would I think he was short? It was all in the way he carried himself. For whatever reason, he projected a feeling of "smallness," and it was kind of creepy.
Guys like this repel women, no matter their height. When a woman says she wants a tall man, what she really means is a man who "feels" taller.
I've met plenty of women in person who said they only liked men taller than a certain height, who were floored when I told them my actually height. In fact some of them don't believe it saying they thought I was 5'8", even 5' 9".
I've never been mistaken for 6' 2" and I never will be. But because I walk tall, and project an image of "tallness," women are attracted to me. It's not your physical height that matters, it's what you project.
"Tallness" attracts, "smallness" repels, no matter your actual height.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You
PS Discover amazing attraction secrets that allow you to control all your outcomes with women: go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.
I love to watch old movies--movies from the 40's, 50's and 60's (even some from the 70's), back when men acted like men, not scared little boys. You can learn a lot from those movies, just paying attention to the mannerisms of some of the all time great leading men.
If you want to see the contrast between those men (who were devastatingly attractive to women) and today's wimp, watch a few of those movies, then watch a few movies (or better yet TV shows) of today.
Who should you pay attention to in the older classics? Here are a few names that will definitely get you on the right track:
David Niven
Steve McQueen
Sean Connery
James Dean
Clint Eastwood
John Wayne
Robert Mitchum
William Shatner (young, old, or middle aged--ol Bill's never lost it)
There are others, of course, but if you pay attention to these men, you'll get the idea. Watch out for what they have in common. Better yet, watch them with a woman, then watch a few of todays wusses with her and note the difference in her reactions.
What works is what works is what works and that will never change.
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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]]>A while back I was at an event talking with a group of guys who know what I do for a living. Invariably they all want to see me use a "magic line" that somehow gets women to be attracted to me, and they always want to see a "demo."
Usually I politely decline, but occasionally an opportunity will present itself that lends itself to the true demonstration of attraction.
Out of the corner of my eye, I saw a guy walk up to an attractive woman (also attending that conference) and make a dumbass comment about the way she was dressed. What was dumb about it was not the comment itself, it was the way he said it, and his body language.
So after he walked away (and she was happy to see him go) I walked up and said exactly the same thing--with a naughty grin on my face, and a mischievous look in my eye. All I can say is, her response to me was different from the choad she just ran off.
Why? Because I acknowledge the sexual dynamic that's always present between men and women, no matter the situation. He didn't- he tried to pretend it wasn't there, and that he wasn't attracted to her, which she knew was BS.
She classified him as a liar from the get-go, whereas she knows I'm acknowledging the truth of the interaction, that I'm a man, she's a woman, and there's a spark there. Does that mean that I act on it? No, not at all. But because I acknowledge it, it makes her comfortable with me.
That's one of the underground secrets men who are attractive to women know that men who are unattractive or downright creepy don't. Unattractive guys pretend there's no sexual tension--attractive guys acknowledge and embrace it, but also transmit to her they're in control of their actions.
Powerful stuff, fellas--put it to work and enjoy the results!
On with the fun....
-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You
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