Hey guys,

As I write this, I’m at the Glazer Kennedy Information Marketing Summit in Atlanta, GA, far removed from the confines of where I usually work.

Traveling is, admittedly, a pain for me but I make it a point to come to these events every year.  Why?

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Is it to see the speakers?  Some of them, yes, but that’s not my main reason.

Is it to hang out with friends?  Part of it, yes, but that’s not my main reason.

Is it to network and meet new people?  Again, partly yes, but that’s not the main reason.

The main reason I come is to put myself in an environment where I am surrounded by bright, fun, smart, motivated people who face the same business challenges I do.  It is a refreshing, energetic environment, and being around people like that always recharges my batteries, gets me tackling the challenges of business again.

Changing your environment, even temporarily, is an important thing to do.  Attraction is all about mystery, intrigue, and newness, and if you don’t change your environment on occasion, you tend to get stale and dull.

Men who are stale, dull, and boring are not attractive, and if you don’t make it a point to refresh yourself with new environments, you too will become that way.  And while you or your male friends may not notice it, women certainly will—and will be turned off.

So, while it may not be the most exciting attraction secret in the world, constantly refreshing your environment can make a huge difference in how women perceive you. 

Make it a point to do it often.

On with the fun….

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

PS  What’s the one big secret to success with desirable women?  Go to:

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…right now to discover this amazing secret.

PPS   Questions? Comments?  Email them to:  questions@johnalanis.com

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Tonight is the last night to claim the free “mind control attraction secret’ CD I recorded just for you.

While I do want to share this secret with you guys on my list, I do NOT want everyone to get their hands on it.

It’s just too darn powerful.

So, tonight, Friday, November 6, 2009 at 11:59 PM Central, it will come down.  And you will miss out.

SO… if you want to discover this secret, fast action is necessary on your part.

You can claim this free cd right now by going to:

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Time is of the essence.  This brand new attraction secret will disappear tinight, and I will never release it again.

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On with the fun….

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

PS  This really is one of the coolest attraction secrets I’ve ever discovered, as well as the most bizarre.  To put it to work for you, go to:

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…before it’s too late.

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Hey guys,

I don’t remember when I first heard this saying, but I do remember that when I did I finally understood attraction, why some men attract women and others don’t.

Here it is:  there’s no such thing as a good girl gone wrong, only a bad girl found out.

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Think about that for a second.  Let that sink it.  Most men don’t understand it.  But if you do, you’ll understand how to finally attract women.

Many men, conditioned by the girlie men in the media and social programming want to believe in the “nice girl.”  That’s the fragile, asexual view of a woman, subservient to the man in her life who has no sexual desires of her own.

They take this view of the world, and apply it to women they meet, interacting with them on that basis.  They’ll say things like, “oh, she’s a nice girl, she’d never want to do anything like that.”

And then they wonder why they are friends to all women, and lovers to none.

Understand this:  there are two sides to every woman.  There’s the public, guarded side, and the private, naughty side they let out for the right man.  All women have both sides.  All women want to let out their bad girl side.  Your job is to make it OK to let it out around you.

Many men just don’t want to accept this, and that’s why women are so guarded.  They don’t want to be judged, demeaned, or put down by know-nothing losers who have no appreciation for how women really are.

They want a man who understands, appreciates, and encourages that side of a woman—and when you know how to do that, women will respond to you in droves.

So, keep that saying in mind, and make sure that when you meet an attractive woman, you make it a point to find out about her bad girl side.  It’s there for you, if you make it OK for her to let it out.

On with the fun….

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

PS  What’s the one big secret to success with desirable women?  Go to:

http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm

…right now to discover this amazing secret.

PPS   Questions? Comments?  Email them to:  questions@johnalanis.com

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Would you like to rejection proof yourself?

You would?  Good.  Then just go on over to:

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and you’ll discover the secret that prevents women from ever rejecting you again.

On with the fun….

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

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Hey Guys,

When many men get rejected, stood up, flaked on, or blown off by a woman, it really gets to them.

They start to question themselves, wonder what they did wrong, and focus on the fact that one woman just wasn’t interested in them.

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Rejection absolutely destroys them, inhibiting them from talking to women, or doing other things that may lead to rejection.

I’ll tell you something interesting, though:  the guys who are the most successful with women are also the most rejected.  Why?  Because the only thing rejection means to them is that it’s time to look elsewhere.

These guys have made friends with rejection because they realize a definite “no” is much better than an unending maybe.  They also recognize that any “rejection” is simply one woman’s opinion, and has no bearing on how other women see them.

Does that mean they actually like rejection?  No, of course not.  No one does.  What it does mean, however, is that they are able to function and keep taking action when they are rejected.

This is one of the primary success skills you should develop- the ability to function under negative emotion.  What you discover is, the more action you take, the less intense the feeling, and the faster it disappears.

Rejection is a stern taskmaster—but it can be your friend if you recognize it for what it is:  a signal to spend your time on another opportunity more likely to pay off.

On with the fun…

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

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Mind control.

Sounds like BS, doesn’t it?

It does—at least until you experience it.  Recently I’ve discovered something that is just about the same as mind control, and I’m going to share it with you for free.

It takes about 30 minutes to explain (and 3 minutes to put to use) so I’ve recorded it onto an audio CD that is yours free for the asking.  To claim it, all you have to do is go to:

http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/magneticforce.htm

However, access to this CD is strictly limited.  In fact, this secret is so powerful, I’d like to keep it to myself.  So, on Friday, November 6, 2009 at 11:59 PM Central I’m going to be removing this website, and you will miss out on this amazing secret.

To claim your copy, go to:

http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/magneticforce.htm

On with the fun….

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

PS  This really is one of the coolest attraction secrets I’ve ever discovered, as well as the most bizarre.  To put it to work for you, go to:

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…before it’s too late.

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Hey guys,

I received a rather shocking email today, from a man who wants to know a way to get his cousin’s wife into bed.

The only thing I can say is, you’ve got to read the email and my answer, below:

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My question is will this secrets work on married woman or not, because the truth is that my friend is a jerk that has a beautiful woman and i hate the way he acts with her, i just want her even if its just for an adventure you know and my question is with the secrets can i achieve that? even if she said she loves him more than anything… or is there a different approach i should take?…  

Fernando

PS. he is more like my cousin but will it still work?… don’t think wrong of me..

JA:  And just how should I think of you?  Lookit, I’m pretty much a live and let live guy, but trying to sleep with any man’s wife, let alone a relative’s is just plain wrong.  So, even if there was a secret, I certainly wouldn’t share it with you.

However, your email does bring up some points I want to address.  First off, when you say he “acts like a jerk” you are trying to impose your view of what a woman should respond to her onto her.  From her point of view, he may be acting exactly how she wants a man to act, and that’s why she married him.

Secondly, if you are spending your time trying to find schemes to get married women into bed, you have a scarcity mentality when it comes to women, and this is an attraction killer.  There are plenty of great, single women out there who’d love to meet a man who can make them feel attraction.

So, my advice to you is to concentrate on learning the skill of attraction, get all thoughts of married women out of your head, and go out and attract some great single ones.   And quit asking other people to excuse or justify what you know is wrong and bad behavior.

On with the fun….

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

PS  What’s the one big secret to success with desirable women?  Go to:

http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm

…right now to discover this amazing secret.

PPS   Questions? Comments?  Email them to:  questions@johnalanis.com

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What’s stopping you from being as successful as you want with women?

The right knowledge, plain and simple.  Some might call this knowledge “forbidden.”  But that’s because they’re scared of its power, and the don’t want you to have it.

But luckily, you can get that knowledge by going to:

 http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

…right now. 

On with the fun….

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

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Hey guys,

One of my favorite sayings has always been this:  “One ‘aw shit’ equals 100 ‘atta boys’.” What that means is, you can do everything right, and just one thing wrong, and that one thing done wrong undoes all your good work.

Nowhere is this more true than in attraction.  You can do and say everything right, but make one mistake and it’s over.  Bad habits not handled can bite you in the ass time and time again—but they can be overcome.  I just received an excellent question from Brandon C. regarding this subject, and my answer is below.

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Hey John,

Let me tell you this is some really good stuff, i not only am talking to 4 hot girls they cant resist me. The naughty boy side and then being able to change back and be serious is what gets them every time.

Well here is my question, I understand everything that i have to do and what you say i need to do but it’s hard to break old habits. It is hard to apply your steps cause it doesn’t come naturally to me while i am constantly finding myself doing some of the attraction killers i hold back n i think that’s what is pulling them in. In your opinion should i be feeling this way and will the steps eventually come natural to me?

Thanks John

Brandon C.

Michigan

JA:  Thanks for the great email, Brandon, and congratulations on putting my “switching” technique to work.  This is one of the most powerful attraction techniques there is because it lets a woman know she’s talking to a man with a naughty boy side, not just a boy. 

Onto your question.  You are correct, it is hard to break old habits, and to be truthful, even I find myself occasionally falling back into them.  But, the more you work on them, the better you get, and the less and less you fall back into them.

Take a lesson from Ben Franklin on this one:  choose one attraction killing habit each day that’s holding you back, and focus on fixing that habit and that habit only.  Then pick another one the next day, and so forth.  Eventually, you’ll find these habits afflict you less and less and your results will get better and better—things will come naturally to you.  BUT, you will always have to work on them—that’s the price you pay for being an attractive man.

The good news is, few men will ever do this, and even modest progress on your part really stands out to women. 

On with the fun….

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

PS  What’s the one big secret to success with desirable women?  Go to:

http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm

…right now to discover this amazing secret.

PPS   Questions? Comments?  Email them to:  questions@johnalanis.com

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Did you know there is just one big secret to attraction?

There is.

If you know it, you will control all your outcomes with women.  If you don’t, you won’t.  It’s that simple.

Luckily, if you go here:

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…you too can put the one big secret to attraction to work for you.

On with the fun….

-John Alanis

“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”

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