Real World Success Stories From Men Who Know the Women Approach
You Formula

Listen to What These Men Have to Say About Their Success Using the Women Approach You Formula

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AJ Success Story

Keith Success Story

Lee Success Story

He’s Only 5’ 5” tall—and He Uses These Secrets to Get Stunning Women to Approach Him Instead of His Better Looking Friends!

Hey John,


Here’s a success story for you.  I am not very good

5'5" Nick used the Women Approach You Formula to Attract this sexy woman-- that his 6'2" "tough" friend was afraid of!

looking, but she is.  I met her while I was on vacation, and while every guy in the club was staring and drooling, my little 5'5" ass walked up to her and told her that my soldier friend was back from his tour in Iraq for just one week, and this would be her only chance to see him, so she needed to dance with us immediately. 


I brought her over, and he was still too shy to do anything, so I ended up dancing with her the rest of the night...and things happened from there.


BTW, my friend is 6'3" 220+ pounds.   I'm just a lot bigger on the inside than him.


Thanks for your invaluable advice John—the results I got with your formula speak for themselves.




PS I took the picture myself


He’s Old and Ugly—And Used These Secrets to Attract TWO Hot Young

He's 47 years old, overweight, and balding... and he used the Formula to attract these two young women!




Hi John…


  Here's a story for you. I used your system to attract these two young ladies. At first I thought they'd be unapproachable. They're best friends but they actually ended up getting in a cat fight over me. The blonde (Kat, 19) actually bit the brunette (Vicky, 20). They've made up but only after Kat won my affection. We ended up moving in together. Why two beautiful young ladies would fight over a 47 year old balding man is a testament to

your formula.


David E.





















He Used The Women Approach You Formula… And Got Hit Wife Back!




I became interested in your work due to your many hidden references to Napoleon Hill.  Even

He used the Formula-- and rescued his relationship!

 though you did not mention his name, being familiar with his work, I recognized many of the concepts.  I figured if his concepts worked in other areas of life why not try them in the relationship area.


When I bought your materials, my plan was to find new women, leave my wife and start a new life.  While we were still friends and got along well, there was no attraction between us.  We kept up a good family appearance for the sake of our children but we both longed for something more.


After studying your materials, I began to practice with her and some of her friends.   I soon realized that while I thought I was still a man and defined authority, I had, in reality become a wuss. I had become passive and submissive in many aspects of life and had let things get way out of control.  Little by little I began to take control of my life. 


I began to make little decisions like where to eat to Sunday after church instead of the usual polling of every one in the family until no one was satisfied. 


I set up a web site to show off my racing success.  Not really trying to sell anything but just to let myself be proud of my accomplishments. 


My wife soon began to share the web site with her friends and even

decided to go to some races with me. 


I offered to teach a class at church.  It was amazing to see how different people reacted to me after that first lesson.


I started letting my “naughty side” show more and more, and expressed my opinions more and more in a proper and polite manner when called for.  I began to flirt with waitresses everywhere even when having family meals.  I have been amazed at how service has improved.  I now look forward to something happening so that the waitress has to say "I'm sorry" so that I can quickly say "Just don't let it happen again."


Well, I still flirt with women everywhere but I am not actively looking for a new wife as the woman I was attracted to years ago has returned. She has even joined the Y to try to get back into shape.


Things are going great for us now and I only expect them to get better. I am doing my best to train my boys in the proper ways to be a man and to be the kind of man that people - especially women - are attracted to.  


Thanks for sharing your knowledge.


Mike S.


Here's the Creator of the Women Approach You Formula, John Alanis using his own secrets to attract sexy women

Hey guys,


I just wanted to share a few pictures of me with some of the sexy women I've attracted using the Women Approach You Formula on my own.


Unlike some other guys who teach "how to attract women" stuff, I actually use it on my own to attract sexy women, and as you can see from all the success stories, so do other men I've taught it to.


Hopefully I can teach it to you next!


Keep reading for even more exciting success stories...


On with the fun,


-John Alanis

The KING of Let's em Come to You!






He's Dating a Woman 22 years younger than he is!


Hi John


I sent you an e-mail about six weeks ago relating to my first date after learning the Women Approach You Formula.


I am still seeing the same girl (22 years my junior) and we have now reached the stage whereby because I followed your advice of chopping and changing between "naughty schoolboy" and "mr sincere" she now calls me by two different names, John my christian name when I'm being sincere and James my middle name when i'm in naughty schoolboy mode !


More evidence that your advice is spot on when creating attraction


Thanks again


John or James !!!


She thinks he's "special"... and she only met him three hours ago!


Hi John,


This is David from near London, England. Thanks for all your advice but I just want to say that your “naughty boy” idea works AMAZINGLY well. I met a girl in a bar only last Saturday night and we arranged to meet up last night.


To be honest I would NEVER have guessed that making SO much fun of this girl would turn her on SO much. I'm still astonished now. I naturally have a cheeky edge but purposely curb my making fun of girls when I go on dates because I'm worried I'll end up offending her. THIS IS DEFINITELY THE WRONG  THING TO DO!!!! I made so much fun of her that she hit me at least 10 TIMES throughout the evening. THAT is how cheeky I was!! I frequently said 'you're so cute when you're angry' or 'you're so cute when you smile' as well - These phrases WORK because they freak her out BIG TIME. It's as simple as that. To say she was putty in my hands just does not tell the whole story.


She ended up inviting me back to hers and we did everything except full sex. She exclaimed that I was 'special' after only 3 hours of meeting up with her when we were back at hers. If I hadn't had work this morning she wanted me to stay the night with her!!


All of your followers HAVE to believe everything you say because I for one can say that your tips and techniques WORK AMAZINGLY WELL.


Thank you mate (buddy)



London, England


He's 75, ugly and broke-- she's 35, beautiful and totally attracted to him


Hi John,


OK I took your word for it. Tried out your naughty little scheme on of all people - one of the most beautiful cashiers I have seen in many a year.  I already knew one of the cashiers and always joked around with her but this cute little darling had a tag on her blouse that read "Ask Me About Anything - and insurance was in small letters under the tag".


So I looked her square in the eye and smiled, said "And when does this happen???". Of course - right away she snapped back "When does what happen?" Then I motioned to the tag on her blouse and smiled again and I hate to say it she blushed like a new born babe. I said right away before she had a chance to collect herself, "I know you are busy and have to work for a few more hours but why don't we go for an ice-cream soda after work???" Without a bit of hesitation she said "where shall I meet you - in the parking lot???"  "No why don't I escort you to my horse and carriage from the lobby here".


Needless to say when I seen her coming to meet me I was wrong when I said she was beautiful - she was radiant!!! I really never knew ice cream soda would ever taste so good. Now, we have a trip to Bullhead AZ planned, on my pontoon boat in two weeks. Beginning to believe the buying of that boat was

a good investment.  


Bob W. 


PS I am over 75 and she must be every bit of 35 or less - what a beauty. Yea I am approaching ugly and working on broke!!!


They've been dating for three months...



    It has been a really confusing life for me, until I decided to listen to someone’s advice (your advice).  I quickly wrote it down in my mind, and the next day, I tried some of your methods.  The girl I met was although not pretty, she still had a great personality, which is what I was looking for.  The first time she called me, we had not seen each other yet, so it was literally a blind date. 


We have been dating for 3 months now, and have had our share of fun.  The only reason she decided to give me a chance, was because I didn't act like a complete moron the first time I met her, but I was myself, and that’s what she fell in love with, the "true" me.  Thanks for that little tip it was a big help.


            As you would say "On with the fun..."





He now has to turn hot women away because he now attracts too many, after years of attracting none



I just want to start off by saying that I've been using your system for about the past 8 months or so. And I've had more women in those 8 months than the past 15 years combined. I mean I am having to literally turn women down left n right, because I can't keep up.


However I digress, what's killing me is, after talking to alot of women all they want is a real man. By that I don't mean some dude who is head to toe with tattoos, rides a Harley drinks like a fish and fights like Bruce Lee.


It's just like you said, make them feel good keep them laughing, smiling and feeling good about themselves and they're hooked. I didn't realize until you opened my eyes that I was acting the other waldos, sharing my feelings trying to make em like me and wondering if I was good enough. I was a total loser that was behaving like a waldo.


Society has softened us men king, I mean just listen to the radio and watch T.V. We have all these jerkies singing these pussified love songs, thinking that's what women want. I was watching some older movies and saw how those men acted. They loved women and treated them good, but to steal a line from 40 yr old virgin, didn't put the “cat” on a pedestal.


Well to make a long story short, since reading your material and putting it to good use. I've stopped acting like a waldo, quit putting the “cat” on a pedestal and started acting like the man women truly desire. Lemme tell you King, its worked wonders and I'M the one being put on a pedestal.


Your products have changed my life, If only I had this knowledge when I was 18..


Your loyal Apprentice,




Results in only one week...




Started using your formula last week, and I was a bit skeptical. I'm not now! I recognized myself when reading your "sales pitch" about how men screw up when dealing with women and thought I could do for a confidence booster. Since I'll be soon giving sales presentations for my company, I thought "What the heck, if this builds my confidence around people, and more specifically, women, then it's worth the money". John, it's been a week and IT'S ALREADY WORKING!! Let me tell you a short story:


This morning I went to a coffee shop with one of my buddies. I was there for coffee, not meeting women. While in line, I made eye contact with a pretty girl who was studying. She smiled. I smiled your "naughty boy" smile back and she smiled more. Then I got my coffee. Unfortunately there were no chairs. I was about to go outside when she CAME OVER TO ME and said "Hey, there's a couple extra chairs, you can sit at my table if you don't mind my studying". So I did. I proceeded to ignore her completely and talked with my buddy.


Suddenly, she broke in with "Say, I couldn't help but overhear" and started to ignore her studies (and my buddy) in favor of talking to me. Seems she loved that topic too. So what did I do? I told her "Sounds like you feel very passionately about that. Why is that?". MAN!!! PURE MAGIC! After that I just let her talk. Everything you mentioned in your system happened almost exactly as you said it would. The great part was at NO TIME did I approach her for anything. She invited me to her table. She invited herself into my conversation. And it was clear that she was attracted. I didn't get another meeting with her because I didn't want one. She was fun to talk with, but I found myself thinking "Wow, if it's this easy, I can be picky". We parted ways with an "intimate handshake" and one of those "looks". What a great way to start the day.







His marriage is stronger than ever before..



I’ve wanted to email you for some time now to give you my thanks and let others know your system truly does work.  I am married and got your formula to keep my relationship with my wife going strong…and it has done that as advertised.  We remain loving, naughty and playful as ever.  My thanks to you for that! 


I haven’t used your methods on another woman but I know with 100% certainty that they would work there as well.  How do I know?  When I first read your material, I looked back at my past relationships with women, seeing what I did wrong with the ones that went nowhere and what I did right with others that were great at the time.  I didn’t have to look far to know you were right on the money…I just compared two women I wanted a relationship with before meeting my wife and the proverbial light bulb in my head went off..


With one woman I wanted, I tried using the approach of being her friend to get her to want me.  I ended up showering her with praise, buying her stuff, being at her beckoned call to help her fix things around her house, and confessing my feelings for her desperately thinking this was the way to her heart.  You know what it got me?  Nothing but heartache.  She repeatedly spurned me to go sleep with waldos, eventually coming to me for a shoulder to cry on when she realized they were jerks.  We ended up parting ways in an ugly, nasty way and I wasted a lot of my life for nothing.


Then there was another woman I met after the disaster above.  She was a bit older than me, very attractive, successful…someone who I thought was way “out of my league” and would never be interested in me.  Boy was I wrong.  One day an email she sent me had a little suggestive tone to it.  I would normally have discounted it, but I decided to take the ball and run with it.  I started being funny, cocky, naughty and authoritative with her, but always respectful and never a jerk.  Next thing you know we were incredibly hot, steamy adventure partners.  She was amazing and the time we had together was incredible.  Although our adventure partnership ended, we remain good friends to this day and she still tells me I will always be someone special to her even though we are both in committed relationships with someone else.


What a difference my attitude and approach made!   I really didn’t realize why the first one failed miserably and why the second one was so amazing until reading your material.  Then it became so painfully obvious.  Thank you for showing me the light and the error in my past ways.  I will never make those mistakes again!  Keep up the great work!






He used "The Formula"... and got a higher paying job!

Dear John-


Quick note this time.  As a result of applying your teachings, I have landed a much more lucrative litigation job here in South Florida.  I do owe you a complete story on that.  I am also a fellow veteran (USMC 1995-2003) and recognized the subject line immediately.  The phrase "Who Dares Wins" is also the motto of the British Special Air Service (SAS).  They are one unseen force who will act extremely bold to root out the radicals who so cowardly set off the transit bombs in London last week.


To all the not-yet-doers...get your hands on the King's products. ACT!  You will develop "BOLD" quickly afterward.  Best regards and thanks again for the awesome products.



A. J.  Esq.  (FL)




He attracted two beautiful women at once

Hi John,


I thought I'd share a small success story with YOU and your devoted fans (MYSELF included!). From your informative emails newsletters, seminar transcripts etc., there was one area that really captivated my attention, what you called "Charismatic Male Energy", by way of proper energy management. This along with my own "Personal Authority", created an interesting occurrence yet a very successful one.


On with the story.....


This past weekend, I went to Reno to visit a close friend of mine. Several others (mostly lady friends) and I made the special trip together for my friend's big B-Day party. The party was GREAT! Of course my friend got a lot of attention, but so did I! I turned on my 'male authority' and was constantly receiving attention from our lady friends throughout the night. I had established myself as an authoritative figure and a group leader. But that isn't the interesting part of the story.


A small group of us went out walking the shops and restaurants of the adjoining Hotels & Casino's. It was my decision to do so and everyone followed my lead! As we were walking through (me in the lead, of course, with a lady friend in arm), I noticed 2 VERY attractive women just sitting at the slot machines, as if waiting for someone or something to happen! As I came near them along the walkway (mind you there was a crowd of people walking to & from), the 2 women gazed at me, our eyes were inter-locked, they whispered something to each other and then one of them approached me!! She politely asked me if "I had the time?" As I responded, "Why, of course I do.", glancing down at my watch,..... I noticed her holding a cell phone IN HER HAND!!!! She thanked me for the time and walked back to her friend.


Guys,.... I realized that because I established a male authority within my surroundings, I produced a charismatic energy about me that attracted these 2 BEAUTIFUL WOMEN to ME!!!!! More success to follow! Thanks John!




He got six replies to his online profile in one night... after not getting a single one, ever

King John,


   I am amazed to what you have done to me by me just taking action, I signed on one of those dating web site, before I READ YOUR AMAZING PRODUCT, I has still not gotten a hit on that site, just clowning around I thought that I would sign on to another after reading your material, now I signed on late last night I looked at my e-mail just a few minutes ago and there is 6 hit in less than 24 hrs, your the thank you, my whole outlook on life has changed, I am truly in control now of my life and the principles work on all aspects of life ,

Thank You once again


King John II




SHE Kissed HIM first... an hour into their date!

Good Morning John,


I had a few minutes to share a success story today.  I just went on a date with a woman off of, and I had a wonderful experience.  I utilized your principals in your system and I got the results!  I put myself into an authoritative position from the get go and by doing that the woman really respected me and even decided to spend the evening and not to mention, the next day with me! 

We had gone out to dinner and realized how many things in common we really had.  After that, we had gone to a bar, and we shot some darts, had some drinks, laughed and had a great time.  Not just a great time, but a FUN time!!!  Within an hour at the bar, she came in and kissed me and after that, the ball was in my court. 

What I also noticed was that beautiful girls were coming up to me later that evening when I would go off to get more drinks and asking me to dance.  The investment I made in your information was probably! the best thing I've ever made and my confidence has sky rocketed!  I will continue to sharpen up my skills and be a doer as you would say.  I am a sales rep and I am looking forward to utilizing your information in my own profession as well to get the business results I wants. 

Thanks King!






He saved his marriage using the system... and it's now stronger than ever



Yes, and we have been married now for 19 years!  I bought your program to save and enhance our marriage and it is working great!  I almost lost her last year to a man she worked with, until I started using your program!  We are having the time of our lives!







From "nice guy" to bad boy... all in a few short weeks

John, ooops, I should say king, My Name is Alan, from the UK, proud owner of your Secrets of Natural Attraction System, which I have read many times, and still find more value each time !

Ok, John, so how did I get on with your system, which I studied every day for a week as I went about my work as a landscape gardener ?

The first thing that happened to me, was that I really enjoyed reading what you said, you changed frames and maps, but also had a profound effect on my self esteem, which was very low !

That following weekend, I went to a singles evening where you drink, chat and dance, but I had a mission, that I would do these things in the company of women, rather than standing with all the blokes around the bar !

No fantastic chat up lines, just a confident smile and starting conversations, however, applying some of your techniques about frames and cocky and anchors etc. found myself listening to a girl talking about herself and her friends, how they judge each others interaction with men, but the real bombshell, was when she told me what she was reading, a book about Micheal Hutchins dead popsinger and Bob Geldofs ex wife who is also dead..but they had a passionate time this time the girl ( Carol )  was very tactile ,touching me to highlight important statements in her conversation, ( She was in a great frame set, which allowed me to explore her map as you say ! )and also remarked several times that i was BAD BOY!   YES>>>I AM A BAD BOY !!...Thanks john !

( ps, i never prompted that term or used it in conversation, but 2  unrelated girls said it in one night, only because i was cheeky/naughty )

Well this was 3 weeks ago, we have been adventure partners, we have no complicated  agreements..well none at all, i appear to do no wrong in her eyes, even when dragged off  by other women who want to talk to me, its just incredible.

Summary...well i have been the nice guy, with a broken will and no confidence, for years, but, have i learned anything from you?..... YOU BET !

I will still treat women with respect...but not be a wuss !

I could tell you more, but, i want to practice these new skills and update you later, after i have proved that this will keep working, and after i scale up to better and more women, in my new confident search for someone very special.

John, its so great to be called a bad boy...thanks so very much !

Alan N
Sunny UK




He was 6 feet tall... extremely fit... and damn good looking-- yet he was a failure with women! Then he put the system to work....




I have got to say your system really does work. I only could afford the starter system you sold last month for 39 dollars. I figured I did not need much since I am 22 years old, 6 foot tall, Anglo-Saxon, extremely fit, and dam good looking. I just did not know how to create this initial attraction with females. It was pathetic. I had no confidence and no women.


My dad never taught me how to attract females because he is a nerdy wimp and my mom died when I was 17 before she could teach me anything. Just a little of your knowledge changed my life. I feel like nothing can stop me with getting the ladies. Now the ladies at my church say I am a good listener and a ladies man. Also females all around me are looking at me with this look that says, take me away please!!!! I love it. I finally control my success with females. Just thought I say thanks!!! I promote you to all my friends. Sometimes I don’t want to because I want the secrets to myself but I like helping others.




Ben C.



Well John,


I found your stuff at a good time in my life.  I am 47 and tomorrow my marriage of almost 20 years will end.  My wife asked me to leave on 2/22 so she could find someone to "connect" with.  She filed on 3/28 and my father passed away on 4/13 of prostate cancer.  Been a hell of a year so far.  I've been out of the dating game for 20 years and frankly, my esteem is in the toilet.  I purchased your materials and they make a heck of a lot of sense to me.  I have already been testing some of your ideas and it's pretty funny the responses I get… there are several women I work with from 25 - 45 that seem very open to my minor advances.  Anyway, you've given me some hope...!


Thanks very much,


-Brad, Network/Desktop Manager


Hi “King, “


Since receiving your material I have made substantial progress in relationships with all members of the opposite sex. But it's not just confined to that area alone, as the hints and tips have other applications as well, to work, sports and life in general, as your material enhances personal self esteem and emphasizes a methodical and systematic approach to challenges; a peek inside a woman's mind and internal circuitry, if you will.  Also, I've started to make quicker and more accurate appraisals of women, seeing right through the screen they all employ. If anything, my attractiveness to them has increased all the more. I can quickly perceive how I am viewed by others and present myself appropriately. Your materials eliminate the irrational thoughts I otherwise would've gotten in dealing with females. You've just trained another “sharpshooter.” Where credit is due...

As well, by utilizing concepts like "complex equivalence", "mental maps," etc., your points are lucid and easily understood rather than vague, meandering, cookie cutter descriptions.  At work, or even in any negotiation or discussion, I now put my point across succinctly, smoothly, and persuasively even on sensitive topics.  Anyways, there are some upcoming weddings and parties where fine young ladies will abound. This standout sharpshooter will be picking them off.

Ok mate. Rock hard...ride free.


-Sailosi W., Economist
Suva, Fiji Islands

Hey John,

I have enjoyed your material and been able to apply your secrets along with my own understanding of how women work. You see, I can relate well to your understanding because I was a psych major in college and, like you, along with the book knowledge have experienced the ups, downs, joys, and turmoils that relationships can bring forth.  I am probably a bit older than most of your clients and customers, so I have gained a lot in wisdom over the years through trial and error.

I have actually put your material to work, along with my own perspectives, and I am now dating a beautiful woman, a woman that most men, who live in my neck of the woods, could only dream of ever dating.  She works in a career field where exposure to the public dominates (i.e., television).  I had the opportunity to meet her through a friend, who just happen to know her brother.  What’s funny is, my friend actually said he would have loved to have met her, but he stated he was too intimidated to meet her because, according to him, "She was out of his league."  He said that he preferred "less challenging" women.

Anyway, my friend knew her brother and told me he’d said she had experienced bad luck with men in the past, and was now looking to meet a really nice guy.  What "nice guy" meant to her, I don't know, but I wasn't going to take that route, so to speak!  My thoughts were centered on how was I going to meet her in a way that would be different than all the other HUNDRED men that had tried before me(?)

Before I actually met her, I read over your material, combined it with what I know about human behavior, and found a solution.  Here is a list of the things I

kept in mind as I approached and met her:


-Tested the “handshake secret”… which I did! She and I shook hands for longer than a usual handshake should have lasted.  Just from the handshake alone I knew she was interested!

-Looked for attraction signals...the smile and gleam in her eye were all there!  I remembered to stay focused just on her when we met and chatted...paying attention to her body language and speech… something I hadn’t really focused on in the past.

-Got her talking about herself… which I did by asking her “open-ended questions”...this worked great!

-Never once did I compliment her on her looks or how she looked on television!  Every man in the world would have made this un-original!

-We both had a common bond with the environment where we met...I used this to my advantage by establishing a relationship between us.

-Finally, the “email question” worked great because she never expected it!  In fact, the first email I sent her she replied back with her cell phone number!!


Your advice worked great because what I said and did was unique and different than what she was accustomed to hearing from most men.  I firmly believe your materials helped me to stand out from the rest!

I wish I could give more details about our meeting, but I don't dare disclose because of respect for her and her profession. However, thanks again for your material!


-Joe C. (profession and location withheld by request)

Hey “King,”  


My life has been changed by your material. Before, I was too shy and afraid to deal with women. I'm not ugly-- I'm actually told I'm handsome by women but before I got your materials I would just freeze. Some women would approach me and start talking, but I would just smile and walk away; hell, sometimes I would just ignore them completely. How rude is that? And some of these women weren't even pretty to me…. they were just trying to be nice.


It didn't matter. Old women, young women, even baby girls would freak me out.. YES baby girls!. So I finally decided to do some thing about it. I have a friend who is good with women; they just seem to walk right up to him. Finally I got the courage to ask how he did it. Well, first he laughed at me, and after about an hour of that he let me have a look at your materials. As I read them, it was like I had a moment of enlightenment… I almost cried. When I left his house I quickly started putting to practice what you teach. And my life has changed. The huge fear I had of women has started to fade. I am more sociable, I can talk to women casually, or I can let them come to me. Not too long ago ago a beautiful women asked me to be her boyfriend. But I refused. Why?  Because the girl I really want has started talking to me, now. Before it was just, “good morning” or “excuse me,” but now we have full on conversations. My self-esteem, confidence, life, everything has gotten better.

So thank you for showing me how to get women, and for also giving me the right to choose which one I get. You truly are a king in more ways than one !  


Your Pal,


-Jose C.,  (Profession withheld by request)


Your materials, along with all your inspiring emails, have helped to ignite a force inside me that will not be stopped. After recently becoming a yoga instructor, I can strongly confirm what you say about creating an ‘automatic attraction system.’ Women of all ages suddenly respond so favorably to whatever I choose to say. It’s like magic, really! They’re smiling, willing to carry on conversations, and open up to me mainly because I have taken up the authority of Yoga Instructor. It makes it so easy, I can’t help laughing sometimes. This takes some getting used to, you know!

Many years of mediocre relationships, mostly brought about by chance, and many hours of longing for-- and confusion about-- women have made me ripe for the kind of quality information you put out. You get right to the core, emphasizing the most important points to work on,. No B.S., gotta love it.  It’s been a few months since I’ve “closed the deal” but now, with the steady flow of cute girls approaching me and all the information you provide in your materials, I can tell you, the tides are turnin’ fast and there ain’t no stoppin’ it.

Thanks for doing what you do. A lot of healing is taking place on many levels as a result.


-Marcos M., Yoga Instructor

Miami, FL


Hey John! 

Here is a little about me... I’m 23 years old, and have been studying psychology, dating, attraction, all that jazz since I was 16!  I was pretty much the nerd in school,  and had that whole “nerdy self image” going on... I first realized how some of it all worked when I was in grade 10.  I wore glasses, and then one day switched to contacts.  From that point on, all the girls treated me differently.


I've been defining myself for the past couple years, and everything you have to say is TRUE!  GUYS, BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS YOU CAN HAVE GIRLS APPROACH YOU.  I discovered this in high school, but a few personal difficulties that happened later on in my life threw my game totally off.  I've been trying to get my "game" back, and it was your materials that helped me.  A lot of your teachings changed my perspective on a lot of things.  I'm a graphic/web design instructor, and I know from experience that beautiful girls will approach you if you appear as some sort of authority figure.  It is truly powerful stuff, and John Alanis gives you the attitudes and mentality that you need to build attraction in a woman.  It’s amazing how women will chase you like you were the hottest item since sliced bread.  The only problem is that women may become obsessive with  you, and John also teaches you how to get rid of girls you don't want.  We don't live in scarcity, there are thousands of women around us everyday, and he has helped me to see that I can have my pick of the litter, so to speak.  IF you want this kind of success, and want to get this area of your life handled, then you must get his information!  You have to!  IF knowledge is power, then with John’s information, you'll be truly unstoppable in the dating scene!


Anyways, I have a success story that will make you proud!  I teach graphic/web design, I'm 5'5" small build, but I know how to create a strong presence and command respect when I'm teaching.  There was this really gorgeous girl in my class… I mean,  she was smoking.  As soon as I saw her my heart started pumping rapidly, that’s how hot she was.


After class, she came up to me and asked if I could help her out with some questions she had... so I did. Now, the whole class had left and here she was still hanging out, literally standing around trying to talk to me, while I cleaned up the classroom.  Finally I finished, and she straight out asked me if she could call me!  Guys, it is an amazing feeling when you have a girl asking you "if" its ok for her to call you!  Powerful!  Of course I said "sure, just don't call me 10 times a day!  9 is ok, but not 10!"  Again affirming my "status" in her mind as a powerful man!


For a couple of weeks we had lunch together, because her work was close to where I was teaching, and about twice a week went out for drinks.  I would tease her about stuff, make her laugh, etc, kiss her and pull back, etc, just playing with her in general.   She would love to ask me these little "test" questions out of the blue, but because of my attitude I aced them all.


One day she asked me to come over and she'd cook me dinner.  I already knew there was a huge possibility I would score.  My philosophy is, I like to wait for sex, and hold back till the breaking point.  You'll see why.


I came to her house, we had dinner, she said her neck was sore, so I whipped out the oils and gave her neck a massage... then off came her shirt so I could do her back, then off came the bra, and she flipped over on her back, and I have her upper body a massage, etc, meanwhile she's getting so turned on that she rips off my shirt (tore off my buttons... oh yea!) and then my pants came off, and so did hers, then at one point were both naked, and I’m playing with her (trying to keep this email PG) and boys, she literally pushed me on my back, and jumped right on my manhood, like she was a crazed animal and couldn’t hold back anymore.


That’s why I like to postpone sex for as long as possible and tease the crap out of the girl in the meantime, because there is no better sex than when you both are dying for it and just can't control yourself anymore!




I get more girls than I could have ever imagined possible.  Powerful stuff!  Thanks again, John! You're the man!


-David V. Instructor 

Toronto, Canada



I used your method once in the past before I even heard of you.  I’ll explain.


I had whipped myself into shape, learned to county-western dance and joined a dance team, all what you call “automatic attraction systems”… my mood went way up and I became that confident, funny, outgoing guy.  Needless to say, I was not hurting for female companionship.


One evening I spotted this incredible girl – young (27), tall (5’11”), and beautiful.  I danced with her a couple of times and asked her out for the next night.  Her mother didn’t appreciate me much because I was closer to her age than her daughter’s, and she appreciated me even less when her daughter called to ask if she could feed her cats because we didn’t make it home that night.


-Tommy D., Programmer

Alexandria, Va.


I'm cheap and cautious when it comes to Internet purchasing.  I was interested in your "Women Approach You" system, but wary of buying anything. 

I'm constantly told by female friends that I'm going to be a great catch because I'm "such a nice guy" and "so cute."  Suffice it to say that your system caught my eye because, despite my apparent value to women I have had little success in attracting the right kind of woman. 

I received your materials, and I have to admit, I was surprised.  You write informative, witty comments on relationships between men and women, all the while being realistic about men's desires and emotions, without being sleazy.  You yourself suggest that your techniques are best applied to finding the "right woman" just as I desired -- stressing quality over quantity. 

From your materials, I have gathered lots of great information.  I recently began chatting with a woman I met from an online dating service.  Using the techniques you reveal, I had this woman choosing to drive back from North Carolina to spend the night with me, even though we had never met!

Thanks John and looking forward to your additional material!


-Bryan T., Systems Engineer

Hi “King”,


I purchased your system with an eye to getting a little extra knowledge and information to give me an edge with women, as I have always sought to gain a edge over the competition in whatever I'm doing.


The first time I used your techniques, I was astonished by the amazing results… my success rate rocketed.


I left my house on a Friday night and went to the local night club, As I stood at the bar talking to a friend, a beautiful lady approached me and just started to talk casually to me. I nearly passed out with astonishment!. I have had some very good looking girlfriends in the past but not one of my ex-girlfriends or achievements has ever approached me, it has always been me who has to approach the woman to get anywhere.


So to the King, thanks for developing a system whereby the woman has to do the work!.


-Lee C. (Profession withheld by request)
London, England




As before, I told you I'd contribute as much as possible, but unfortunately since buying your system I've been in a very unusable environment (a US NAVY warship!).  I've used your advice to "flirt" as much as possible when we have females on the nets, & I say hi to all the guys when I pass by-- it has helped make things easier to get when I need them. I can't give you a big testimonial though, as I’ve been too busy… just wait until I take some extended shore leave.




United State Navy

Hey “King,”


Well, I must say I haven’t had the same amount of time to use and apply ALL the material I received from you, but I'll give you what I have  gotten from you so far, as well as my successes. I have recently graduated from high school. I figured getting advice from the King would help me when I end up going to college, so I began reading your system.

However, before I received your system, I started with just what I know. I must say I have grown up a little bit differently then most people. I live in Colorado with my 3 sisters and my mother. That’s all I got more or less. My father lives quite a distance from us, so getting advice from him about girls is a little bit difficult. Well, since I have been growing up here my life with girls has been a bit of a mind trip.

Basically, I have had “hug crushes,” and each one has come close to success, however they all crashed harder than a B-52 with a full pay load of bombs. With the first girl, Sabrina, I had my chances to hook up with her, but with my lack of knowledge of how to go about a relationship doomed me. I basically became heart broken and was a puddle of remorse for sometime.  This same episode repeated itself my senior year with a freshman girl named Racheal. She was mine for the taking, but I believed I was going to be an honorable man and “take it slow,” based on my view of women imposed on me by my sisters. I was so destroyed by the matter for the whole school year. These experiences ended up changing my life for the better. Basically, these experiences that have driven me to the brink of self-destruction, in reality, opened my eyes to finding a better answer.

They drove me to the point to seek answers about how to solve these problems. I turned to your wisdom. So far it has paid off more then anything I have ever learned about women. To bring my story more to the present, I have recently attended my college orientation and there I felt like my relationships with women have forever changed. I was able to attract 4 girls while I was there for 2 days and I managed to hook up with 2 of them that night. I don't mean to brag about this, but I managed to out play the competition.

So many wolves (guys) were all licking their chops for these girls, and I managed to turn them into puppies in the eyes of these women. I believe one of these girls actually may have relationship potential. It was probably one of the most liberating experiences I have ever had. Besides proving that I am no longer a loser, it made me feel like a man. I know if I stay underneath your guidance, I will no longer fear rejection again.


Well, thank you King, I owe it all to you.


-Jeffrey S., College Student

Vail, CO

Hi John,


Here’s what I really like about your material: Not only is it “smart,” it  does a lot of the thinking for you. For the price it is worth the money-- I can go to a club or bar and easily spend that money in a night or two. Here I learn a skill and I end up saving money because I meet women anywhere now.


It makes it a lot easier using your methods. Thank you, John and keep up the good work.


-James M. (Profession and location withheld by request)

Dear Mr. Alanis,

Thanks for the great material… it did benefit me a lot. I will give you my before and after story in brief.


             I was not confident about myself even though I am good looking.

             I used to think that giving a girl the attention they want will make them want you.

             Being too much of being of a nice guy.

             Waiting for the other side to decide.

             Afraid of rejection.

             Tongue tied.

             Lack of  initiative.



                     Confident, because  I feel attractive from “the inside” which does attract women.

                     I give just the required attention and let them pursue me while  I choose if

                     she is for me or  not.

                     I stopped being a nice guy and I am now being taken seriously even by

                     the guys.

                     I don’t wait for them to decide. I choose.

                     I am not afraid of rejection because I am the one who chooses, my way of 

                     approach has changed.

                      I am not tongue tied anymore because I am confident in everything I do.

                     It is easy for me to start  a conversation.


                  You have been a great help  I would have loved to write a detailed report but I

                  don’t have much time.

                  KEEP UP YOUR GREAT WORK AND THANX A LOT!       

                  thanking u


                  -Sabih M, Certified Fitness Instructor



Mr. Alanis,


I purchased your materials just over a week ago.  Since it's been such a short time, I don't have any great testimonials… yet. 


One thing I have noticed though, is my confidence has risen.  During the past week I've been applying a few of the things you write about, and I will be applying more.  What you wrote really helped me to better understand what women want in a relationship and that knowledge itself will help a lot.  My confidence is still nowhere near where I want it to be, but it will get better as I keep learning and applying what I learn.


To give you more of an idea of what I'm talking about...whenever I'm talking to a good looking girl, I get nervous and don't really know what to say or what to talk about (especially if I don't know her or hardly do know her).  I've been a little more sure of myself over the past week though, when talking to women, and have felt more confident while talking.


Like I said, I don't have any testimonials to speak of yet but I thought I'd share with you that I've seen improvements in my confidence over the last week.  Thank you for sharing your knowledge in system (and the free gifts) and for the tips you put in your daily emails.


Have a good day,

-Adam S., Banker


Hey John- 

“These secrets are fantastic.  I travel a lot in my business so I don’t have time for a steady relationship right now.  John’s secrets have allowed me to meet women in every city I travel to.  I spend time in New York, Philadelphia, Phoenix, Baltimore, as well as here in Toronto.  A few days before I arrive, I put John’s secrets to work for me online, and always have a date, no matter where I am in the world.  If I ever decide to ‘settle down’ I know I can use them to meet that one special lady, but for right now, I’m having way too much fun!  Thanks, John!”

-Robert O., Marketing Consultant
Toronto, Canada

“Hey King- 

The information in your system is incredibly effective. And for anyone who has researched the female psyche, it's right on the money. I've read all kinds of information out there on meeting and wooing women, especially the guides with a big presence online. If it's popular and effective, you can bet I've invested in it. 

John, your product blows ALL OF THEM out of the water. What is more important to me though than just the results, that is, getting women to literally "threaten" they'll cross states just to see me, is that these principles changed my perspective about myself. That I do deserve to have the better things in life, and that it's okay to take charge and live life on my terms. 

The same night that I ordered your system, I used some of the tips to write an online personal in a service I subscribe to. At 8:00 A.M. the next morning, I found in my inbox five gorgeous girls calling me a "total hottie" and wanting to get with me. That's less than 24 hours since the moment I received your system, and already I had FIVE girls in line to meet me. This stuff is no joke! Thanks for being the genuine article John.” 

-James Q.
Lafayette, CA



“A few years ago I went through a stressful divorce with a woman I’d dated since high school.  Some guys like to chase lots of women, but that’s not me.  I like being in a relationship, but only with the right woman—and I’m incredibly picky.  After wasting time with a dating service (that took $1,500.00 from me) I decided to give John’s secrets a try.  It took a little while, but I finally met a woman who truly is the love of my life.  She makes every day brighter… a dream come true.  Last October I finally married my “dream” and now I’m in the relationship I’ve always wanted to be in.  I highly recommend John’s secrets, no matter if you want to meet lots of women, or just one special one, like I did.” 

-Michael K., Business owner
Austin, TX

Hey John…


“I’ve been a successful Securities Broker  for over 12 years, and I know what works and doesn’t work when it comes to getting people to call you first instead of you approaching them.  These secrets are similar to what I use in my business to put over $200,000.00 a year in my pocket without “cold calling.”  But, until I got John’s system it never occurred to me to apply them to my love life. Quite frankly, they work better than I expected.  I’m a busy professional so I don’t have time to chase women.  Luckily, these secrets get them to chase me-my love life has never been better.  I recently met a new girlfriend, using the "referral system" John teaches...


-Eric M., Securities Broker

Washington, DC


Hey King...

“These secrets really opened my eyes.  After a bitter divorce I moved to Denver to get away from my ex-wife and basically ‘start over.’  I knew no one in Denver and had no way to meet anyone. I was burned out on women, and skeptical about ever meeting one who I could just enjoy spending time with.  But, I gave John’s secrets a try, and to my utter surprise I “hooked up” with a cute Emergency Room Doctor!  She really likes being my “adventure partner” (just like John taught me she would), and our “relationship” is completely stress free. This is how it’s supposed to be! 

-S. Daniel, Real Estate Broker
Denver, CO

Hi King...

“Wow, I wish I’d had this system in college, when I was 21!  Better late than never, though.  I’m 37 years old, balding, and kind of gruff looking—I never believed these secrets would work for me.  But I decided I had nothing to lose, so I recently tried them in a popular local bar.  Sure enough, a cute blonde named Amy came up and started talking to me… she even gave me her number.  I was so stunned these secrets worked that I didn’t call her back.  I couldn’t believe this was actually happening just like John said it would.  She finally called me, and we decided to go bowling… funny thing though, we never made it to the bowling alley!”

-J. Turner, Webmaster
Austin, TX

Hi John,


I just wanted to let u know how great my life has been after receiving your material. It contains the best insight into how female attraction works that I've seen. Not only does it benefit men; women should be glad that men are reading it. At the moment I've got me three “fly-ass ladies” on campus, at the university of the free state in Lebanon, And to be honest, through the techniques I've learned from you, it's all easy now… I can tell you I'll be getting more butt than an ash-tray. Besides, I also didn't think I would ever have such a beautiful and fun girlfriend! I do now, and I feel on top of the world! I'm so much a better person and more fulfilled. You really do know an incredible amount about women and how they think. I just wanted to write and say thanks to you, my whole game has evolved.




-Edgar, Student


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