http://www.johnalanis.com/ Copyright 2008 Tue, 24 Jun 2008 15:05:00 +0000 http://www.movabletype.org/?v=3.11 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Hey Guys First off, in case you missed it yesterday, I've set up a special "cut in line list" for those of you who've been hanging out with me since the beginning. When you get on this list, you'll be... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/06/the_truth_about_3.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/06/the_truth_about_3.html Tue, 24 Jun 2008 15:05:00 +0000 Hey guys, One thing I can't abide is people who are tied to their cell phones, PDA's, and lap tops. Instead of increasing productivity, people misuse and abuse them, killing their productivity. When one beeps, their "owner" comes running like... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/06/misuse_abuse_is_1.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/06/misuse_abuse_is_1.html Tue, 03 Jun 2008 00:43:33 +0000 Hey guys, Although I do get a lot of email and a lot of letters mailed to me, I do sit down and read my correspondence. Not all of it by a long shot mind you, but a good enough... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/06/it_vs_i_awhy_on.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/06/it_vs_i_awhy_on.html Mon, 02 Jun 2008 15:27:35 +0000 Hey guys, Just about every financially successful person has read Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, and for good reason--it lays out the behaviors that allow you to succeed, and those that cause you to fail. When someone first reads... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/06/accurate_thinki_1.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/06/accurate_thinki_1.html Sun, 01 Jun 2008 21:34:11 +0000 Hey guys, One of the biggest reasons men get into a bad relationship with the wrong women is because they have no other options. They meet a woman, are ecstatic that she simply likes them, then get into a relationship... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/all_it_takes_is.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/all_it_takes_is.html Fri, 30 May 2008 21:30:01 +0000 Hey guys, One of the most valuable ways to learn about creating and sustaining attraction is to pay attention to what a woman has to say about a man she's been attracted to over the long run. Sustaining attraction is... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/how_to_sustain.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/how_to_sustain.html Thu, 29 May 2008 14:27:38 +0000 Hey guys, What I want to talk about today is an attraction killing habit many men engage in without even knowing it. What is this habit? Constantly questioning yourself. Now, I don't mean questioning yourself in a good way such... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/the_one_attract.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/the_one_attract.html Wed, 28 May 2008 04:18:06 +0000 Hey guys, In the last 20 years, society has changed a lot. Women are starting to be more aggressive in business, and in romance, and I for one think that's a very good thing. However, some guys are either frightened... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/strong_women_st.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/strong_women_st.html Tue, 27 May 2008 04:12:10 +0000 Hey guys, I am on my way to Cleveland, OH for two reasons. One is for a mastermind meeting, where a group of us "information marketers" gets together to brainstorm ideas for our respective businesses. The other reason is a... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/can_i_eat_a_3_p.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/can_i_eat_a_3_p.html Mon, 26 May 2008 01:54:01 +0000 Hey guys, "Inside out." A statement with multiple meanings. It could be a really cool song by a band called XYZ (it is). Or it could be a very useful attraction philosophy (it is as well). You can check out... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/the_inside_out.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/the_inside_out.html Sun, 25 May 2008 19:35:13 +0000 Hey guys, When I started this womenapproachyou business exactly four years ago, it was mostly about building "automatic attraction systems"--autopilot systems that put you in a position where women were forced to come to you due to the environment. Now,... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/how_to_broadcas.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/how_to_broadcas.html Sat, 24 May 2008 19:32:32 +0000 Hey guys, Ah, what a great song that is--Rhythm of Love by the Scorpions, back when rock -n roll ruled the scene, not this gawd-awful whiney alternative trash. While it is a great song, there is a lesson the title--"rhythm."... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/the_rhythm_of_l.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/the_rhythm_of_l.html Fri, 23 May 2008 19:30:23 +0000 Hey guys, Yesterday afternoon I went into a local BBQ joint to get something to eat. As I walked in, I noticed a guy walking toward me, and an odd thought popped into my mind: "Wow, that guy is short."... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/walking_tall.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/walking_tall.html Thu, 22 May 2008 19:27:39 +0000 Hey guys, I love to watch old movies--movies from the 40's, 50's and 60's (even some from the 70's), back when men acted like men, not scared little boys. You can learn a lot from those movies, just paying attention... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/the_lost_art_of.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/the_lost_art_of.html Wed, 21 May 2008 19:22:04 +0000 Hey guys, A while back I was at an event talking with a group of guys who know what I do for a living. Invariably they all want to see me use a "magic line" that somehow gets women to... http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/what_attractive.html http://www.johnalanis.com/archives/2008/05/what_attractive.html Tue, 20 May 2008 16:45:48 +0000