At last! The truth about dating, seduction, and getting sexy women to approach you first for a date, no matter your looks, age or income!

John Alanis shares his dating secrets and tips on how to meet and pick up hot babes,
sexy women thru online personals, and his unusual take on seduction and NLP.

"You're about to discover dating secrets most men will never know-- how sexy women will approach you first"

"The King of Let 'Em Come to You"

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"Who Else Wants Desirable, Beautiful, Sexy Women to Approach YOU First For a Date, No Matter Your Looks, Age or Income?"

No weird far out "nlp" or "hypnosis" that's hard to learn and doesn't work for most guys anyways. Only tested, proven secrets that literally force beautiful sexy women to boldly walk up and talk to you first. No more "meeting beautiful sexy women." Now they meet YOU!

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John Alanis, "The King of Let 'em Come to You," and author, Secrets of Natural Attraction: How to Get Beautiful, Desirable Women to Chase You.
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"These secrets really opened my eyes. After a bitter divorce I moved to Denver to get away from my ex-wife and basically start over. I knew no one in Denver and had no way to meet anyone. I was burned out on women, and skeptical about ever meeting one who I could just enjoy spending time with. But, I gave John's secrets a try, and to my utter surprise I "hooked up" with a cute Emergency Room Doctor! She really likes being my "adventure partner" (just like John taught me she would), and our "relationship" is completely stress free. This is how it's supposed to be!

-S. Daniel, Real Estate Broker
Denver, CO
"Wow, I wish I'd had this book in college, when I was 21! Better late than never, though. I'm 37 years old, balding, and kind of gruff looking. I never believed these secrets would work for me. But I decided I had nothing to lose, so I recently tried them in a popular local bar. Sure enough, a cute blonde named Amy came up and started talking to me... she even gave me her number. I was so stunned these secrets worked that I didn't call her back. I couldn't believe this was actually happening just like John said it would. She finally called me, and we decided to go bowling... funny thing though, we never made it to the bowling alley!"

-J. Turner, Webmaster
Austin, TX
"These secrets are fantastic. I travel a lot in my business so I don't have time for a steady relationship right now. John's secrets have allowed me to meet women in every city I travel to. I spend time in New York, Philadelphia, Phoenix, Baltimore, as well as here in Toronto. A few days before I arrive, I put John's secrets to work for me online, and always have a date, no matter where I am in the world. If I ever decide to "settle down" I know I can use them to meet that one special lady, but for right now, I'm having way too much fun! Thanks, John!"

-Robert O., Marketing Consultant
Toronto, Canada
"Dear John,
I had purchased your E-book a couple of months ago, and let me tell you, it's truly a God-send! What I love about your instructions is they are very open-ended in how one can implement your techniques. One doesn't have to worry about "Oh shit, am I doing what such and such page instructed me to do correctly?!" - it beautifully managed to conjure up a bigger, practical "what to do" picture by the time I was finished reading it that, frankly, I doubt few other e-books on the matter will be able to pull off in their readers' minds. Needless to say, my results with women have been pretty amazing! The "smile your way through" technique alone is incredibly effective. Definitely smacks of the good ol' "small hinges turn big doors" maxim, and does so beautifully! It amazing how it's small things like this most of us men take for granted, instead trying desperately to put up some fake Al Pacinoesque or Johnny Depp look to attract women (and for the record, two gorgeous ladies I know of like neither of these actors :)! Most importantly, what I REALLY appreciate about your ebook is that the methods you implement can cater for men coming from ALL backgrounds - whether they are your average "free spirited" schmoe in the street, or even religious, spiritually inclined types such as myself. You may find this funny, but to be perfectly honest, before purchasing your product, I went through some trepidation before buying it, thinking it was wholly based on "best ways to flirt with women" in bars and so on - a practice that's strongly shunned by the culture I was brought up in. But upon finishing your book, I realized there are some fundamental truths about male / female dynamics that NO one in their right state of mind can deny... and us "religious" freaks have this thing for "truism" :) haha Once again, thank you very much for this awesome e-book. Two more semesters, and I'll be done with college - so, no more tuition fees! Which means you'll be looking forward to having at least ONE person purchase your Deluxe offer from my neck of the woods ;)"

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Get rid of the unknown- and get your desired result

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Can you "see" what others miss?

How to be the jerk women love... without being a jerk!

Why you must never hold onto the past

Do you live in the land of "should be" when it comes to women?

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Yes, they are out to BS you

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Why a younger woman says today's older men are so attractive

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How to finally attract that one, special woman

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Where you can find everything there is to know about women

The truth about attracting women in bars and clubs

Can you trust her?

Why breaking all the rules of attraction often leads to amazing success

How to automatically attract desirable women

Love, hate and curiosity

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What value do you place on success?

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The one big secret to "attraction on demand"

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The power of language

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"My Friend Bet Me I Couldn't Get a Date With the Hottest Chick in the Gym. But When He Watched Her Turn Around and Walk Right Up to Me First ..."

You should have seen the guy's face... his jaw nearly hit the ground. He never, ever would have believed this stunning, sculpted beauty would approach me first! And this wasn't an isolated event. Fact is, I haven't approached a girl in years.

Why should I, when I know how to make them come to me first? You can make them come to you, too - click here now to discover why she came to me, and how you can do the same.

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A Special Message from the King about money...

Do You Need Money to Attract Women?I get this question a lot from guys. Everyone wants to know if "having money" is important when it comes to meeting women. The answer is... yes AND no! Look, you don't have to have money to get women to approach you. In fact, whenever I first talk with a woman, I hide the fact that I do OK for myself, moneywise. I show up in my beat up 1992 Buick Regal (a car fit for The King - Not!) and make jokes about it.

HOWEVER... having money makes things better all the way around. When you have money you can do things people who don't have money can't. And used properly, money can be a great attraction system.

I've been broke and I've had money, and I'm here to tell you, it's better to have money. Much better. Money isn't everything, but money can buy you freedom and freedom is everything.

Most people have hang ups about money, or think making money is "hard" or "mysterious." The truth is, it is embarrassingly easy, IF you know what you're doing. If you don't, then it can be very discouraging.

Quite frankly, there are very few people I have any respect for when it comes to dispensing money-making advice. Most spend their time talking about things they'd wished done, not anything they could ever do. I hate people like that. I hate talkers. I hate bullshit artists-- you guys know that. I like doers. Listed below are three top-notch doers, people who I know and spend time with personally, both in public and behind closed doors.

They are the same, regardless of the situation, and I can assure you all of them do what they say, and more. Much more. I have great respect for them. And if you know me personally, you know it's tough to earn my respect, not to mention my great respect.

Are these the only people I recommend? No. There are others, and I will put links to their websites up as time and circumstance permit. But for now, I highly recommend you have a look at, and invest in, in what these guys have to offer. Their information can literally make you "life-changing" money.

'Nuff said.

- John Alanis, "The King of Let MONEY Come to You"

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What Will You Do When You and the Woman of Your Dreams Are Suddenly and Brutally Attacked By a Vicious, Knife (Even Gun)-Wielding Criminal?

Will you run away, leaving her to her fate? Will you be killed trying to defend her because you simply don't know what to do? Or will you choose to quickly, easily, and coldly destroy this evil intruder before he even knows what hit him? Many people are faced with this nightmare scenario every day, and most fail, paying with their lives or worse yet the lives of their loved ones. Few, very few, choose the option to destroy the criminal because they just don't know how. Yet that knowledge is easily obtainable, knowledge that will allow even the smallest woman to quickly "take apart" a strong, powerful man, hell-bent on attacking her. To discover more about this "ultimate survival tool," click here now… before it really is too late.

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Do You Make These Mistakes With Sexy Women?

1. Hoping and praying she'll "like you" because of "who you are?"

2. "Just being yourself." around sexy women.

3. Buying sexy women gifts, candy, flowers or jewelry to impress them?

4. Being a kind, sensitive, caring guy who caters to her every whim and desire.

5. Thinking that just because she's "with you" she won't dump you in a heartbeat for another guy.

6. Thinking that just because you have money, a fancy car or a big house sexy women will be attracted to you.

7. Going on "dates." with sexy women.

8. Hoping she'll "let you kiss her" at the end of a "date."

9. Buying sexy women drinks, hoping they'll "go home with you."

10. Believing sexy women when they say, "I just wish I could meet a nice guy."

If you'd like to put an end to all this nonsense and have beautiful, desirable sexy women approach you first, literally begging for a date,
Click here to discover how to NEVER be rejected by sexy women again.
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