At last! The truth about dating, seduction, and getting sexy women to approach you first for a date, no matter your looks, age or income!

John Alanis shares his dating secrets and tips on how to meet and pick up hot babes,
sexy women thru online personals, and his unusual take on seduction and NLP.

"You're about to discover dating secrets most men will never know-- how sexy women will approach you first"

"The King of Let 'Em Come to You"

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"Who Else Wants Desirable, Beautiful, Sexy Women to Approach YOU First For a Date, No Matter Your Looks, Age or Income?"

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John Alanis

John Alanis, "The King of Let 'em Come to You," and author, Secrets of Natural Attraction: How to Get Beautiful, Desirable Women to Chase You.
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"These secrets really opened my eyes. After a bitter divorce I moved to Denver to get away from my ex-wife and basically start over. I knew no one in Denver and had no way to meet anyone. I was burned out on women, and skeptical about ever meeting one who I could just enjoy spending time with. But, I gave John's secrets a try, and to my utter surprise I "hooked up" with a cute Emergency Room Doctor! She really likes being my "adventure partner" (just like John taught me she would), and our "relationship" is completely stress free. This is how it's supposed to be!

-S. Daniel, Real Estate Broker
Denver, CO
"Wow, I wish I'd had this book in college, when I was 21! Better late than never, though. I'm 37 years old, balding, and kind of gruff looking. I never believed these secrets would work for me. But I decided I had nothing to lose, so I recently tried them in a popular local bar. Sure enough, a cute blonde named Amy came up and started talking to me... she even gave me her number. I was so stunned these secrets worked that I didn't call her back. I couldn't believe this was actually happening just like John said it would. She finally called me, and we decided to go bowling... funny thing though, we never made it to the bowling alley!"

-J. Turner, Webmaster
Austin, TX
"These secrets are fantastic. I travel a lot in my business so I don't have time for a steady relationship right now. John's secrets have allowed me to meet women in every city I travel to. I spend time in New York, Philadelphia, Phoenix, Baltimore, as well as here in Toronto. A few days before I arrive, I put John's secrets to work for me online, and always have a date, no matter where I am in the world. If I ever decide to "settle down" I know I can use them to meet that one special lady, but for right now, I'm having way too much fun! Thanks, John!"

-Robert O., Marketing Consultant
Toronto, Canada
"Dear John,
I had purchased your E-book a couple of months ago, and let me tell you, it's truly a God-send! What I love about your instructions is they are very open-ended in how one can implement your techniques. One doesn't have to worry about "Oh shit, am I doing what such and such page instructed me to do correctly?!" - it beautifully managed to conjure up a bigger, practical "what to do" picture by the time I was finished reading it that, frankly, I doubt few other e-books on the matter will be able to pull off in their readers' minds. Needless to say, my results with women have been pretty amazing! The "smile your way through" technique alone is incredibly effective. Definitely smacks of the good ol' "small hinges turn big doors" maxim, and does so beautifully! It amazing how it's small things like this most of us men take for granted, instead trying desperately to put up some fake Al Pacinoesque or Johnny Depp look to attract women (and for the record, two gorgeous ladies I know of like neither of these actors :)! Most importantly, what I REALLY appreciate about your ebook is that the methods you implement can cater for men coming from ALL backgrounds - whether they are your average "free spirited" schmoe in the street, or even religious, spiritually inclined types such as myself. You may find this funny, but to be perfectly honest, before purchasing your product, I went through some trepidation before buying it, thinking it was wholly based on "best ways to flirt with women" in bars and so on - a practice that's strongly shunned by the culture I was brought up in. But upon finishing your book, I realized there are some fundamental truths about male / female dynamics that NO one in their right state of mind can deny... and us "religious" freaks have this thing for "truism" :) haha Once again, thank you very much for this awesome e-book. Two more semesters, and I'll be done with college - so, no more tuition fees! Which means you'll be looking forward to having at least ONE person purchase your Deluxe offer from my neck of the woods ;)"

Previous Entries:

The amazing "women approach you" secrets of a desperate nerd from Texas!

The power of language

Are you a man who's good with women? Would you like to be?

Why I hate challenges and you should too

What matters with women

Are you on the inside looking out?

Women will chase you when you put these forbidden attraction secrets to work

Body language that turns women off-- are you guilty?

I want YOU... for the Doer's Only Insider's Club

Are you too focused on feelings?

Who dares, wins

The importance of reliable information

The successes keep coming-- when will yours be next?

Is this why today's men are such wusses?

A textbook application of creating attraction

Why I refuse to eat at Sonic

Are you frustrated with women?

Exciting success stories-- will yours be next?

How do you view your world?

Did you let a great one slip away?

Is the naughty boy the same as the jerk?

Is attraction just luck? Or is it really a learnable skill?

Do you have to change "who you are" to attract desirable women?

What's the ultimate attraction secret?

Re: real men in this town

What do women really want?

Why skepticism leads to success

Like a punch in the gut

Are there any real men left in this town?

With so much to offer a woman, why are you so lonely?

A little know secret to attracting desirable women (you have not heard this one)

What men who succeed with women know that others don't

Revenge of the jelly bellies

What will your friends think when...?

Why discretion really is the better part of valor

How to choose your own relationships with women

Should you care what others think?

Don't chase, attract-- here's how...

If it can happen to this guy...

Frustrated by women?

Halloween Havoc

Imagine, no more heartbreak with women ever....

Just make a decision

Why this woman tells it like it is... and why you should listen

The truth about women and compliments

It's back for one more day

Lots to choose from

Puts an end to rejection by women forever

What's the best way to learn attraction?

Are you missing out?

I need your input!

Do you make these mistakes with women?

Is it really just all about "who you know?"

It closes tonight

Another BIG benefit of attending events

Today is the day you finally started making your fortune

How I raised myself from failure to success with women- a secret any man can use

Here's an unusual free gift from John Alanis

Be careful not to succeed too much with women

The email that shocked me

May you live an interesting life

You're about to miss out on a deal

Are YOU having fun yet?

They're almost gone

Player or commentator-- which one are you?

Big savings scratch 'n dent sale starts today

The more you do it, the better you get

Important, special announcement from John Alanis

What to do about interfering friends-- YOUR friends

Where will you be three months from now?

Why the most beautiful women are usually the loneliest

Auto-pilot attraction

Do these two things and good stuff will happen

Puts an end to loneliness forever

Why attraction is NOT a numbers game

What will you do when she suddenly leaves you for another, lesser man?

Is she real-- or just a fignment of your imagination?

Are you missing out on these unusual secrets too?

Run, runaway

You, a smashing success with women?

What my most successful students have in common

The lazy man's way to success with women

What turns women off

Why I hate magic and you should too

It's not just for attracting women anymore...

I want YOU... for the Doer's Only Insider's Club

Don't be a sucker, be a learner

Why I never worry about women

Why "it" will never "work for you"

Have you been brainwashed?

Is excitement overwhelming you?

The King receives a complaint letter

*Important* Be careful what you write-- others are watching and waiting

What the BIG SECRET to attraction?

What should you tell her when she asks...?

Fast action, faster results

Why unsuccessful people believe what they want to believe

The broken link

Why common sense ain't so common

You might have missed this

Why it all starts with you

Important announcement from John Alanis

Should you talk to women like you talk to men?

How to easily and effortlessly start conversations with women

Too many reporters, not enough stories-- why you should beware

Always the loser, never the hero with women?

Does technology help or hurt attraction?

Warning: don't talk to another woman until you read this

The twin killers of attraction

A very short success story

A frustrated man...

Lost in a world of fantasy...

The King answers your questions

Chase or attract, which do you prefer?

The flavor of the weak

Banishes rejection by women... forever!

It's much easier to attract women when...

Who else wants to attract that one, special woman?

More dating BS from the web

An amazing success story-- will yours be next?

The awesome, scary power of attraction

Now she's gone-- will she ever come back?

Announcing a new contest (with BIG prizes) from the King!

Do you know the one thing that brings you unlimited success with women?

How to spot a "bad investment" immediately

How to automatically attract desirable women

A little known "source" for beautiful women

Are you lonely and missing out?

The true meaning of words with women

The one big secret to attraction

What women are saying...

He asked her out... one day too late

It's NOT about dating...

Say goodbye and good riddance to rejection forever

Have you ever been "used" by a woman?

A woman speaks out on authority

Why men fail with women

Who else is ready to step up to the Big Leagues?

What not to do

Imagine, no more heartbreak ever....

Do you listen to WIIFM? She does…

How I was shamed into succeeding with women!

It's the most wonderful time of the year!

He's 53 years old... has a pot belly... and attracts hundreds of women with the push of a button

Who's afraid of smart women?

The shocking, controversial truth about "natural attraction"

Science vs random chance

Tired of worrying about women?

Re: name calling and butt-smacking

Here she comes-- are you ready for her?

If this surprises you, you're in big trouble

Gets rid of embarrassing rejection forever

Confess your feelings... or keep 'em guessing?

The strangest attraction secret

There's this one special girl...

Have you been brainwashed?

Do you know the rest of the story?

Proof women really will approach you first

"It" vs "I"-- why one succeeds and the other fails

Can you really learn anything about women from women?

Do you have the "testing mindset?"

Women will chase you when you put these forbidden attraction secrets to work

The one picture you should never send

Attention all ladies on the King's list!

How do you see yourself?

Is there one controversianl, forbidden attraction secret? Yes, it's...

Why discretion really is the better part of valor

What will you do when she suddenly leaves you for another, lesser man?

Here's a unique automatic attraction system...

Can you trust her?

Do you need to be physically fit to attract women?

You, the jerk women love?

You only get one shot

They laughed when I said she was going to approach me first...

What to do about phone numbers

Why you should be scared to death when "it's going so good"

Why how you view the world determins how you succeed with women

Last chance

Training yourself to act

They're almost gone

The race to 89 is on-- will you be a winner?

How to create attraction by teasing women

It happens tomorrow

Why expectation of attraction creates success

Chase or attract, which do you prefer?

Should you be naughty forever?

Where's the love?

Young and wreck-less

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It's not your fault-- but you're always there

A free, "sneak preview" of the King's Real Conversations with Real Women Eavesdrop CD's

What women really mean when they say they want a "nice guy"

How to automatically attract desirable women anywhere you go

Attract... by not attracting!

Are you finally ready for the Big Leagues?

Where to practice4 "basic naughtiness"

Why are women suddenly approaching this man?

How to prevent the impending destruction of your relationship

The shocking truth about "natural attraction"

Why your own beliefs can kill attraction (and a free gift from John!)

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You should have seen the guy's face... his jaw nearly hit the ground. He never, ever would have believed this stunning, sculpted beauty would approach me first! And this wasn't an isolated event. Fact is, I haven't approached a girl in years.

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A Special Message from the King about money...

Do You Need Money to Attract Women?I get this question a lot from guys. Everyone wants to know if "having money" is important when it comes to meeting women. The answer is... yes AND no! Look, you don't have to have money to get women to approach you. In fact, whenever I first talk with a woman, I hide the fact that I do OK for myself, moneywise. I show up in my beat up 1992 Buick Regal (a car fit for The King - Not!) and make jokes about it.

HOWEVER... having money makes things better all the way around. When you have money you can do things people who don't have money can't. And used properly, money can be a great attraction system.

I've been broke and I've had money, and I'm here to tell you, it's better to have money. Much better. Money isn't everything, but money can buy you freedom and freedom is everything.

Most people have hang ups about money, or think making money is "hard" or "mysterious." The truth is, it is embarrassingly easy, IF you know what you're doing. If you don't, then it can be very discouraging.

Quite frankly, there are very few people I have any respect for when it comes to dispensing money-making advice. Most spend their time talking about things they'd wished done, not anything they could ever do. I hate people like that. I hate talkers. I hate bullshit artists-- you guys know that. I like doers. Listed below are three top-notch doers, people who I know and spend time with personally, both in public and behind closed doors.

They are the same, regardless of the situation, and I can assure you all of them do what they say, and more. Much more. I have great respect for them. And if you know me personally, you know it's tough to earn my respect, not to mention my great respect.

Are these the only people I recommend? No. There are others, and I will put links to their websites up as time and circumstance permit. But for now, I highly recommend you have a look at, and invest in, in what these guys have to offer. Their information can literally make you "life-changing" money.

'Nuff said.

- John Alanis, "The King of Let MONEY Come to You"

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What Will You Do When You and the Woman of Your Dreams Are Suddenly and Brutally Attacked By a Vicious, Knife (Even Gun)-Wielding Criminal?

Will you run away, leaving her to her fate? Will you be killed trying to defend her because you simply don't know what to do? Or will you choose to quickly, easily, and coldly destroy this evil intruder before he even knows what hit him? Many people are faced with this nightmare scenario every day, and most fail, paying with their lives or worse yet the lives of their loved ones. Few, very few, choose the option to destroy the criminal because they just don't know how. Yet that knowledge is easily obtainable, knowledge that will allow even the smallest woman to quickly "take apart" a strong, powerful man, hell-bent on attacking her. To discover more about this "ultimate survival tool," click here now… before it really is too late.

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Do You Make These Mistakes With Sexy Women?

1. Hoping and praying she'll "like you" because of "who you are?"

2. "Just being yourself." around sexy women.

3. Buying sexy women gifts, candy, flowers or jewelry to impress them?

4. Being a kind, sensitive, caring guy who caters to her every whim and desire.

5. Thinking that just because she's "with you" she won't dump you in a heartbeat for another guy.

6. Thinking that just because you have money, a fancy car or a big house sexy women will be attracted to you.

7. Going on "dates." with sexy women.

8. Hoping she'll "let you kiss her" at the end of a "date."

9. Buying sexy women drinks, hoping they'll "go home with you."

10. Believing sexy women when they say, "I just wish I could meet a nice guy."

If you'd like to put an end to all this nonsense and have beautiful, desirable sexy women approach you first, literally begging for a date,
Click here to discover how to NEVER be rejected by sexy women again.

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