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January 12, 2006

It's my birthday-- but I'm giving YOU a gift!

Dear friend,

Happy Birthday to the King! Yes, today is indeed my birthday, and I am now 35 years old, a fine age to be.

Anyways, since it's my birthday, I figured I'd give everyone who reads this email today a free gift. Many of you have been asking, how you can get your hands on my latest report, "Magic Touch Secrets: How To Create Immediate, Irresistible Attraction In Stunningly Beautiful Women With a Simple Gesture."

In the near future I'm going to be selling this report (along with another one on how to meet that "one special woman" and have a great long term relationship) as part of a "Platinum Package" that will go along with my current Gold Package and Secrets of Natural Attraction e-Book. I am also going to be revising these two products next week, so if you don't have them, I'd suggest getting your hands on them at www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm

But for today, you can get your hands on this report by simply going to http://www.johnalanis.com/magictouchreport.htm It's not downloadable, so you'll either have to read it on the web, or print it out and read it. But, it does have some amazing secrets when it comes to touching women, and touch is a huge part of attraction most guys mess up.

Well, that's it for today--enjoy your "King's Birthday Gift"... I'm going to go celebrate my 35 years on this earth!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to master every part of your dating and relationship life? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 04:23 PM

What do you do if another guy tries to steal her?

Hey guys,

I used to have a friend I just couldn't bring any women around. Even though he was very good with women, he just couldn't stand it if a friend was with one, and he'd try to hit on her. I finally got to the point where I just wouldn't bring any women around him--it was that bad.

That brings up the question- what should you do if another guy starts trying to steal the woman you're with?

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There are several ways to deal with this. First off, this usually occurs in what I call an "initial attraction situation." You meet a woman, perhaps in a bar, club, classroom, or organized group, you start talking to her, and another guy, thinking you're taking her away from him, starts horning in. He may never have paid attention to her before, but now he's interested.

The first thing to do is to engineer the situation so that you're meeting women "in a vacuum" i.e. in an environment where there's no competition. Bookstores, coffee shops, online, etc. are good places. If there's no competition in the environment, you don't have to worry about other guys.

This is not always the case, however. There are times when you will meet a woman in an environment lousy with other guys, and as soon as they see you take action, they're out to kill it. The best thing to do, if possible, is to simply whisper in her ear, "hey, let's go someplace else more fun" and then get her out of that environment.

Sometimes though, the attraction process is not far enough along to do that. In that case, one thing to do is simply make friends with the other guy, subtly letting him (and her) know that, you're just not worried about him, that you know he'll blow it because he doesn't know how to create attraction.

Now, if you're dealing with a guy who's just plain obnoxious (or drunk) and just will not go away, then the thing to do is simply tell him in an authoritative voice, "Hey, I'm trying to have a private conversation here, and would prefer not to be disturbed. We can talk later when I'm done." Then just turn your back to him. I've done this several times with great results--she's usually glad you told him to take a hike, and happy to see a display of authority.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success and choice with women? If so, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 12:02 PM