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January 14, 2006

What will you do when she suddenly leaves you for another, lesser, man?

Dear friend,

Chris thought he had it all. He was rich. He was in great shape. He had friends. He had connections. And above all, he had a beautiful woman. He bought her gifts, lavished her with compliments, and above all treated him with respect.

So why did she dump him for a slob of a jerk who could barely hold a job?

Because the jerk knew how to do what Chris didn't: create attraction. And if you know how to create attraction, what happened to Chris will never happen to you... you're the guy who always gets the girl.

There's only one problem. No where is the SKILL of attraction taught. You can't learn it in college, or high school. There's no "academy of attraction." In fact, there's no where to learn the most prized skill of all--until now. To discover how you too can easily master this rare skill, go to
http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before it's too late.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PPS Ready to step up to the Big Leagues and live a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

Posted by john at 04:05 PM

Why do women love "naughty boys?"

Hey guys,

One of the biggest secrets I ever learned about creating attraction in women was the power of the "naughty boy." Not the bad boy or the jerk, but the "naughty boy." Why are women so attracted to "naughty boys," and just what is a "naughty boy?"

These are questions I get all time, so I thought I'd take a bit of time to answer them today, plus explain just what a naughty boy is. Some guys intuitively get this concept, but others have a difficult time grasping it, at least when they read about it. Every man gets it when they see it demonstrated, but it can be kind of hard to describe in print.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To iscover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

So what I'm thinking about doing is, shooting a video with me, and an attractive woman, where I demonstrate just what a "naughty boy" is. That way you can see my "naughty boy smile," plus see and hear what I say to her, when I say it to her, and how I say it to her. You'll also see what I specifically avoid saying to her, which is just as important as what you say. If you guys like the idea of me shooting a video like this, just send me an email letting me know, and I'll get to work on it in the next few weeks, providing enough guys are interested.

OK, so just what is a "naughty boy?" Think back to grade school.
Remember the class clown who, for whatever reason, just couldn't quit saying things he wasn't supposed to? No matter how hard he tried to be good, he just couldn't help himself when the opportunity to bring the house down with laughter presented itself. He was spontaneous, and even he didn't know what he was going to say or do until he did it. He was never mean, always fun loving, even if he did push the envelope. He was also wildly popular because he made every body laugh.

That's the best way to describe the "naughty boy." Women love being around the naughty boy because he's smiling a smile full of mischief, he's unpredictable, he makes them laugh, and he says things he knows he shouldn't say, but does anyways. He pushes the envelope as much as he can, but never in a mean or hurtful way. Everyone is always wondering what he's going to say or do next, a subtle--yet powerful way--of defining authority. He creates tension with what he says, ut releases it with laughter in what he says next. Everything he does is in the spirit of fun. Everywhere he goes is the place to be.

Now, there's something very important you need to know about being the "naughty boy." It CANNOT be who you are, it's only a side you let out. First and foremost, women love MEN. If all you are is a naughty boy, the attraction will soon fade. Why? Because there's no mystery... that's all you are. But if you're a man who has a naughty boy side, along with a sincere side, a serious side, and an intellectual side, women find that almost irresistible. The switching between these sides, with a lot of the naughty boy thrown in, is what creates incredible states of attraction. Just when she thinks she has you figured out, you show her another side, adding to the mystery.

How do you develop your naughty boy side? Practice--whenever you see a woman, just say whatever comes into your mind in a playful sort of way. Do NOT have any "canned openers." Women can smell these a mile away. Once you know how to get response to your naughty boy side you can come up with a few themes that work for you, but stay away from memorized "lines."

Remember, the naughty boy doesn't know what he's going to say until he says it, and he's often just as surprised with what comes out. BUT, no matter what he says, he knows it will be funny, and he expects her to laugh. It's this expectation that gives the naughty boy his power. So, my friends, go forth and be "naughty" to all the women you meet... you'll be amazed at how many are suddenly attracted to you... for whatever mysterious reason!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PPS Are you finally ready to master every part of your dating and relationship life? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

PPPS Discover how to unleash the naughty boy inside-- go to www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm -- before I come to my senses and decide to remove this website for good.

Posted by john at 10:52 AM