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January 16, 2006

Do you make these mistakes with women?

Dear friend,

1. Hoping and praying she'll "like you" because of "who you are?"

2. Just "being yourself."

3. Buying a woman gifts, candy, flowers or jewelry to impress her?

4. Being a kind, sensitive, caring guy who caters to her every whim and desire.

5. Thinking that just because she's "with you" she won't dump you in a heartbeat for another guy.

6. Thinking that just because you have money, a fancy car or a big house she'll be attracted to you.

7. Going on "dates."

8. Hoping she'll "let you kiss her" at the end of a "date."

9. Buying her drinks, hoping she'll "go home with you."

10. Believing her when she says, "I just wish I could meet a nice guy."

If you'd like to put an end to all this nonsense and have beautiful, desirable women approach you first, literally begging for a date, why then simply go to www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm right now. Stop doing what doesn't work, and start doing what does!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Want even more "information that works?" Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to take advantage of this "turbo charged" attraction on demand system.

Posted by john at 04:41 PM

Should you have "friends without benefits?"

Hey guys,

Usually when a man signs up for my episodes, he's doing so because he wants to attract women for dating and relationships. But what about women in general you have no interest in romantically--how do my attraction strategies apply to them?

I bring this up because a doer who has gotten my materials, taken action and gotten results, brings up that topic in a recent email to me. Here it is:

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to
http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Dear John,

I purchased your system and made small adjustments to my behaviour around women. I am now successful and confident and have a very nice girlfriend and 18 other female friends without benefits... My roommate was watching the "revolving door" at our apartment for a while in disbelief. And he is still stuck in his old ways of being "very nice" with obvious results: no women in his life for many years, even though he is an attractive 26 year old massage therapist with a college degree. If you could, please sign him up for your daily emails and ads about your products.


Michael Z.

JA: Michael, congratulations on taking action and getting results. While obviously, your primary success is in getting and keeping a nice girlfriend, your almost as important secondary success is having lots of women as friends.

That's one thing a lot of guys who discover attraction is nothing more than a formula, a skill, seem to miss: you can use these skills to bring women into your life you are NOT interested in pursuing romantically. Why is this important? Because women like this can bring you opportunity (contacts, better jobs, financial opportunities, etc.), can introduce you to others you'd never meet, and put you in touch with women you may be romantically interested in.

In your day to day life, you have to deal with women in different kinds of environments. Knowing how to create attraction, even for an instant, can get you all kinds of things the average man has no access to. You get better seating at restaurants, faster check out at banks, grocery stores, etc., and invaluable contacts at airlines, the phone company, etc that you can use as a "back door" to bypass the usual service BS. In other words, having lots of female friends you don't sleep with, but who find you attractive, makes it much easier for you to succeed in other aspects of your life.

Attraction isn't just for dating, sex, and relationships--its for EVERY interaction with women. The more attractive you are, the better your outcome, plain and simple. That's the real power of being able to create attraction at will.

And, I will definitely make sure you friend gets signed up. Thanks for bringing up this topic, Michael!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PPS Are you finally ready to master every part of your dating and relationship life? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

PPPS Discover how to unleash the naturally attractive man inside-- go to www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm right now!

Posted by john at 10:31 AM