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January 28, 2006

How to automatically attract the women you desire

Dear friend and subscriber,

Why do some men automatically attract women wherever they go while others can't get a date to save their life, even if they have looks, money and social status?

The answer is simple: some men have learned to "turn on" the natural attraction that exists in side every man, while most men have been conditioned by society to be naturally un-attractive.

Here's the good news: any man can learn to make himself naturally attractive to women, quickly and easily. Most men don't because they just don't know how. To discover how to turn on your natural attraction, and attract the women you desire, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Imagine, no more heartbreak or rejection by women ever again-- see http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm for details.

Posted by john at 04:00 PM

Your thoughts on long term relationships

Hey guys,

Yesterday I sent out an episode entitled "the truth about long term relationships" and I got some really good feedback I want to share with you.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to
http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Hi John,

This is one of the most important mails you have sent. Youngsters out there - pay attention!

For the success of an LTR, the absolute criteria are as you say: shared values, a similar outlook on life, mutual respect, genuine friendship, trust, similar habits. Forget the looks (well almost) - these things are what make for long-term happiness and contentment. Hammer them into that brain which sits on top of your neck, ignore the other one. Listen to the wisdom of experience.

The sadness is that most of us are so sure of ourselves in our 20's that no-one can tell us what to do. We know best. I wonder what the stats are regarding divorce in arranged marriages where the partners have been matched and guided by older, more dispassionate parties.

Good one. Keep it up.

Jeremy (South Africa)

JA Thanks for the email, Jeremy. Long term relationships really are a logical choice, and most younger people make the decision to get in one based on short term emotional reasons, a recipe for disaster.


This e-mail is worth a million bucks- I know, because I paid that much and more because I didn't "get it" Keep up the good work!

Charlie S.

JA: Ouch, that's a tough way to learn a lesson. But it's a great point, Charlie--every one gets so caught up in the feeling going in, they don't think of the consequences if you have to get out. Also, if guys learn how to create and sustain attraction, they don't have to worry about getting out, and they know what to look for before getting in. Ought to be a course on that, huh..... (http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm )?

Hey King,

Oh man. You are sooo right. I am 4 months out of a broken engagement that began with a whirlwind "romance."

King, you have really great insights. Thanks again.


JA: Thanks for bringing up "whirlwind romances," Otto. They're a lot of fun if you recognize them for what they are--emotions in the moment that have little bearing on the success of a long term relationship. Initial attraction fades quickly, but are replaced with long term friendship, comfort and familiarity IF you're truly compatible with your partner. Otherwise, like all whirlwinds (and hurricanes), it takes a long time to clean up the mess.

Thanks for your contributions, guys!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PPS Would you like to attract that "one special woman?" Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:51 AM