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February 04, 2006

Proof women really will approach you first

Dear friend and subscriber,

Here's a fantastic email I recently received from a man who invested in my materials and took fast action:


Bought your system last week, and I was a bit skeptical. I'm not now! I recognized myself when reading your "sales pitch" about how men screw up when dealing with women and thought I could do for a confidence booster. Since I'll be soon giving sales presentations for my company, I thought "What the heck, if this builds my confidence around people, and more specifically, women, then it's worth the money". John, it's been a week and IT'S ALREADY WORKING!! Let me tell you a short story:

This morning I went to a coffee shop with one of my buddies. I was there for coffee, not meeting women. While in line, I made eye contact with a pretty girl who was studying. She smiled. I smiled your "naughty boy" smile back and she smiled more. Then I got my coffee. Unfortunately there were no chairs. I was about to go outside when she CAME OVER TO ME and said "Hey, there's a couple extra chairs, you can sit at my table if you don't mind my studying". So I did. I proceeded to ignore her completely and talked with my buddy.

Suddenly, she broke in with "Say, I couldn't help but overhear" and started to ignore her studies (and my buddy) in favor of talking to me. Seems she loved that topic too. So what did I do? I told her "Sounds like you feel very passionately about that. Why is that?". MAN!!! PURE MAGIC! After that I just let her talk. Everything you mentioned in your system happened almost exactly as you said it would. The great part was at NO TIME did I approach her for anything. She invited me to her table. She invited herself into my conversation. And it was clear that she was attracted. I didn't get another meeting with her because I didn't want one. She was fun to talk with, but I found myself thinking "Wow, if it's this easy, I can be picky". We parted ways with an "intimate handshake" and one of those "looks". What a great way to start the day.



JA: Congratulations on your success, Dave! You're quite correct--when you know how to get women to approach you first, YOU get to be the one who chooses whether or not to pursue the relationship. In other words, you never get rejected by women because you're the one making the "rejection decision."

Yes, getting women to approach you first no matter your looks, age or income really is that easy. To succeed like Dave, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Imagine, no more heartbreak or rejection by women ever again-- see http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm for details.

Posted by john at 04:43 PM

Is the naughty boy the same as the jerk?

Hey guys,

I'm getting closer and closer to releasing my latest product, an unusual "resource" you can use to find the answer to any question you have about attraction within seconds, no matter the situation. I call it the King's Keys, and I'll keep you updated on my progress. But I'm happy to say I'm getting very close to releasing it on a limited basis... stay tuned.

I got a very good question from a subscriber that I want to address today. It has to do with the difference between what I call the "naughty boy" and the out and out jerk. The differences are crucial, and if you cross the line between the two, you can get in trouble with women.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Hi John,

I just got through reading this article and I remember you saying something about women liking naughty boys. My idea of a Naughty boy/Thug is somebody who's a bully, troublemaker that gets in trouble with the law, loots, shoots, stabs and grabs. Does this apply to all Naughty boys/Thugs? Help me understand why a woman wants a guy that's has law breaking potential or that has a criminal record a mile long. I knew a guy that was a bad boy/Thug that was a high school drop out and had a reputation throughout the town. He was a big fish in a little pond and pretty much he's just a notch below the Anti-Christ. Explain to me why smart and intelligent women are attracted to these kind of guys.

David from Los Angeles

JA: Thanks for the email, David--I was just out in LA, taking part in an infomercial shoot for a friend of mine. Anyways, you bring up a great question. A naughty boy is NOT a thug or a jerk. Women are attracted to elements of thugs and jerks because they have a sense of authority about them (however warped it is), and they can be exciting in the moment. But their behaviors lead to long term chaos and destruction, and they eventually kill the attraction they create.

The naughty boy takes the attractive elements of a jerk/bad boy out of the destructive behavior. Think back to when you were in grade school. Remember the class clown, the guy who loved to make everyone laugh? He was always doing things he shouldn't, but he did so in the spirit of fun. He didn't have a mean bone in his body. Even though the teacher had to discipline him, he or she did so while holding back a grin. The naughty boy is free spirited, and in the moment, but his goal is to make everyone (including himself) laugh and have a good time.

NOW... that being said, there is one thing you need to know about being the "naughty boy." Women are initially attracted to naughty boys, but they really want MEN. The whole trick is to be a man with a naughty boy side that you take out when at the appropriate time, but that you also know when to put away and become serious. That's the whole key, switching between the two. And as far as the jerk goes, you want to get rid of all destructive behavior. There's no place in attraction for that.

Thanks for the great question, David!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS What does a sexy woman have to say about attraction? It's all revealed in the Ultimate Attraction Roadmap Teleseminar! Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_attraction.htm for details...

Posted by john at 10:39 AM