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February 05, 2006

Gets rid of rejection by women forever...

Dear friend and subscriber,

If you've ever been rejected by a woman who you know should be attracted to you, you know what a horrible, gut wrenching feeling it is. It makes you question yourself, makes you wonder if you're really attractive to women.

Luckily, there is a new way to get rid of rejection forever, and it works no matter your looks, age, or income. What is this "rejection removal secret?" Simply this: for her to approach you first! Think about it--when she approaches you, you're the one who gets to make the "rejection decision," not her!

To discover how to get rid of rejection forever, go to:
www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm

On with the fun...


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Already, a proud owner of "Secrets of Natural Attraction?" To step up to the big leagues and create a lifetime of power and success with women, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 04:52 PM

She wants to, but you can't-- what do you do?

Hey guys,

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Where a lot of relationships go wrong is that men and women don't understand that the communication styles of the sexes differ dramatically. Women tend to view events through a more emotional lens, men through a more logical one. Where the friction starts is when the other party presumes that you communicate the way they do.

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The specific subject I want to talk about today is this: when she wants to "get physical" and you can't at the moment (you've got to go somewhere, you're tired, etc.). What happens is, if you don't handle it the right way, she takes it as a rejection of her personally. As time passes these perceived "rejections" add up, and the attraction starts to die.

Here's how to handle it. All you have to do is make sure she doesn't feel rejected, and that your not being able to do it then and there has nothing to do with her, but with an extraneous situation... but that at a later date, you'll show her what a man you really are, making the wait worth it.

Here's the proper language: "You tempt me with your offer, you naughty girl... almost to the point where I'm willing to show up late for work (or whatever the situation). I can't do that though, since others are counting on me. However, here's what we're going to do. When I get back, I'm going to make you feel all kinds of wonderful things in your mind and body, and I want you to think about nothing but that all day long. Get ready, because when I get back I'm going to make you truly feel like a woman... if you think you can still handle me!"

Then when you get back, do what you said you're going to do. She won't feel rejected, she'll feel wanted, and she'll know in the future that when you have to delay gratification, it's worth the wait. Instead of perceived rejections adding up over time, she stays attracted to you because you communicated with her on an EMOTIONAL level, instead of the usual logical one most men use.

Oh, yeah, you'll also have a hell of time yourself because by the time you get home, she's been building up the anticipation all... day... long...!


On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power and success with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

PPS The "King's Keys" is getting closer...

Posted by john at 10:48 AM