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February 15, 2006

Attention all women on the King's List!

Dear friends and subscribers,

This is a message for all the women on my list. It will, eventually, concern all the guys as well, but right now this is just for the women.

I am in the process of putting together an exciting new product with the working title of "Conversations with Women." As the title cleverly implies, it's going to be a product with me talking to women.

You see, most guys simply don't know how to have a conversation with a woman, especially on the phone. They're nervous, scared, don't know what to say, and as a result any initial attraction is killed. So, this product is going to teach guys how to talk to women, and the best way to learn is by example. You'll get to hear the "naughty boy" in action, and hear how real, live women respond to me.

Sooo... I'm looking for women who I don't know, and have never met to talk to on the phone. All we're going to do is have a 30-40 minute phone conversation where we get to know each other. That's it.

Now, I'm going to record each conversation, making about a 6 to 8 CD set with me just talking to women. So, when we talk, I'll refer to you by first name only so you'll remain completely anonymous.

In exchange for you simply talking to me, I'll trade you a 30 minute phone consultation coupon where I'll answer any question you might have about how men think, making money or any other topic you want advice on. It will be the most valuable 30 minutes of your life, that I can assure you.

So, if you'd like to talk to me on the phone, simply email me at helpme@womenapproachyou.com Tell me your first name, a bit about yourself, where you live, and how old you are. I'd like to talk to women of all different age ranges, being that the guys on my list are interested in women of all ages.

You can send a picture if you like-- it's not necessary, but is appreciated, and will make the conversation flow smoother. Also, don't tell me too much about yourself, just a little bit. I want it to be as close as possible to me calling a woman I just met.

Like I said, I'm going to make 6 to 8 CD's, so I only need to talk to 6 to 8 women. It's first come, first serve plus who I think would be the best "fit" for me to talk to. Again, these calls will be recorded, but I will refer to you by first name only so you can remain completely anonymous. If, at the end of the call you'd like to give out your email address for some of the doers who will be listening to the CD to contact you, you may do that as well. One of them might just turn out to be the man you're looking for...!

It'll be a lot of fun, you'll learn some neat things, plus you may just meet a man from my list (at your option) who knows how to act like a man.

Again, send an email to helpme@womenapproachyou.com I'd like to get these calls rolling as fast as possible.

The race is on....


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS I can't send an email without making an offer--it's against my very nature. If you're not a member of my Doer's Only Insider's Club, you should be. You can claim a free trial to this exclusive group by going to http://www.johnalanis.com/doers_insiders_club.htm

Posted by john at 04:46 PM

Should you ask a woman to "think" about your relationship?

Hey guys,

Before we get started, I'd like to remind all the ladies on the list to pay close attention to today's afternoon email. I have an unusual opportunity just for you, and it doesn't cost you one thin dime. Be on the lookout for it!

Today I want to answer a question from one of the members of my Doer's Only Insider's Club.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to
http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Hello King,

I have a Question and you may be the only one that can give Me a straight answer! I have had a friend that I have had for about 4 years now and she has a little girl from a previous relationship. After reading and studying your book Secrets of Natural Attraction, I realized that She was interested in Me in a big way! See she had been avoiding Me for about 2 months, I mean literally walking around Me very nerves like.

So I decided to make her come to Me, 2 weeks later she did and she apologized for the way she was acting. She said that she was acting that way because she was afraid of how she felt about Me and didn't know how to handle it. I told her that it was OK and excepted her apology, I also told her that I valued our friendship as much as she did.

We talked on the phone a couple of times after that and the conversation moved toward relationships and she wanted to know if I was interested in anyone, after she drug it out of Me I told her that I was Interested in her and getting to know her. I never divulged my UNDIEING LOVE for her I know where that would have gone! Shortly before she told Me of this mystery guy that I know is only a Fantasy of hers, I know that some women will keep a Fantasy of a guy because that Fantasy will never really hurt them except for being lonely.

I didn't tell her that but I did tell her that she would have to make up her mind as to what she wanted, I also told her that if she told Me that she didn't want an Intimate relationship that I would remain her friend and that I wouldn't pursue her in the Future! About a week later she told Me through another person that she didn't want anything to do with Me and that I was to leave her alone.

So I said OK if that is what she wants I will leave her alone, I mean she didn't even have the guts to tell Me herself! A month has passed since then and she! has been trying to get my attention in different ways I mean putting her self with in 5 ft in front of Me listening to my conversations watching Me but we have only said hello one time to each other since. I guess my Question to you is: Am I responsible for Destroying Our Friendship? Is she testing Me, or do I owe her some type of apology? And would I be a Wuss if I did apologize to her.

Thanks John a breakdown of this with your Insight would be helpful.

NEMO, Doer's Club Member

JA: Thanks for the email, Nemo. First off, congratulations on taking action and implementing the material you got your hands on, getting her to come to you. Here's where it started to unwind: when you told her to make up her mind about having an intimate relationship. You let the authority pass to her, AND tried to get her to make a conscious decision about an unconscious process.

You never want to ask a woman to "think" about what type of relationship she wants with you. When you do that she knows you like her (there's no mystery left) and the attraction starts to die. What you want to do is to continue to create attraction with her, letting her wonder if YOU like her. Eventually she will come to YOU for "the talk" and you can decided then and there if you want a long term relationship with her.

In this case the thing to do is to slowly start creating attraction again when you see her in addition to seeing other women. You want to get to a point where you have choice in your life and she knows it. You do not owe her any sort of apology--forget about the past and concentrate on the future. That does include expanding your range and seeing other women--you might just meet someone you like better than this one, you'll improve your attraction skills, and when she sees you're attractive to all women, she'll think of you in a different light.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS What's all the buzz about the Doer's Only Insider's Club, and is it really true you can claim your free trial membership? To find out, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/doers_insiders_club.htm

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Posted by john at 10:40 AM