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February 23, 2006

What if you knew what she was thinking?

Dear friends and subscribers,

If you ask most women what they want in a man, they won't tell you the truth. They'll tell you what they think they want, not what they respond to. You may hear things like, "I just want to meet a nice guy, I'm tired of dating jerks," right before she runs off with the next jerk. Or, even better, "I want to meet a guy who's sensitive to my needs,"--and then she runs off with "el-jerko" who is sensitive to only HIS needs.

However, you will occasionally meet a woman who is truly honest with herself when it comes to men, and will tell you what she really responds to. And, I have discovered such a women, one who is honest enough to tell you what desirable women really respond to, and how you can put it to use to attract any woman you desire, no matter your looks, age, or income.

For details, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_attraction.htm

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to live the life with women you truly deserve?
Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm at once.

Posted by john at 04:14 PM

Q and A with the King

Hey guys,

With all the stuff I've had going on lately (such as my upcoming King's Keys and my Conversations With Women audio cd set), I've had a lot of questions pile up, so I thought today would be a good day to answer them.

Feel free to send in any question you like--I obviously can't answer them all, but I will do my best to answer the best, most relevant. Here we go...

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

hi john

howz it going
I've been recieving your newsletters for a while and im really learning alot. I was writing to ask you for some examples of how you can define authority especially from the get go and sustain that authority throuhout a relationship

yours sincerely jaz

JA: Thanks for the question, Jaz--it's a common one. The best way to learn to define authority (which was the number one thing women said they were attracted to in a man during my phone conversations) is to pick an authority figure in your life, and emulate them, using your own style. Maybe you have a teacher or coach who you know has substantial personal authority, or maybe you know a guy who's good with women. Model their behavior, testing out certain aspects of it until you hit on what works for you. Don't mimic them or try to copy them exactly--that never works. Just model the aspects of their behavior you think fit you, calibrate the results, and go from there.

Oh, and don't forget to get your hands on my Secrets of Personal Authority Course where I lay out step by step how to build your own personal authority. See www.johnalanis.com/authority for details.

Hey John Alanis:

The ideas you put together on how to attract women hit home. I put these ideas to work for me and already I have some of the women in my
circle bringing me food, money, and cooking for me with no reason whatsoever.

Thank you John. You did a great job.

Don L.

JA: Isn't it great when they take you to dinner, call you on the phone, buy you presents for no reason... and are happier than they've been with any other man? What can I say, if you take action and implement my secrets, they just plain work.

i have a quick question if you have time but should i give up on a girl that says she wants to be friends and nothing more?


JA: Thanks for the email, Nik. Usually when a woman says "let's just be friends" either there was no attraction in the first place, or you did something to kill it. It's hard to overcome this, but not impossible. The way to get around this is to attract multiple women- that way if one decides she doesn't want to spend time with you, then another, better one can take her slot. Also, when women you know you are attractive to all women, they tend not to "friend" you.

Thanks for all the questions, guys--we'll do it again soon!

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

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Posted by john at 11:07 AM