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March 09, 2006

What you do NOT have to do to attract desirable women

Dear friends and subscribers,

Did you know there is a brand new way (an unusual way) to get women to approach you first, and ask you on a date? It's true, and you can put it to use quickly and easily to attract as many women as you want, any time you want.

However, before I tell you what this "new way is all about," you should know what you do NOT have to do to get desirable women to approach you first:

You do NOT have to... learn, complex, memorized "language patterns" that take forever to "get down." These rarely work for most guys, and only serve to embarrass you in front of the woman you want to attract.

You do NOT have to... have lots of money, a fancy car, or a big house (in fact these "natural attraction" secrets work even better if you're dead butt broke!)

You do NOT have to... take advice from your women friends on how to meet women--this is a HUGE trap many guys fall into. Your women friends will tell you what they THINK women want in a man, NOT what they really respond to.

You do NOT have to... be tall, handsome, famous, rich or even fashionable (heck, I'm 5'7" , an admittedly bad dresser, drive a beat up 1992 red Buick Regal, and my hair is falling out!)

You do NOT have to... "hypnotize" women, be "sneaky" or manipulative, or learn weird, far-out new age "energy secrets."

So what are these secrets, secrets that literally compel women to seek you out, and chase you down, begging you for "just one date?"
Go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm to discover them for yourself.

On with the fun...


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't delay, go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm right now before it's too late.

Posted by john at 04:52 PM

The vital element of attraction almost every guy misses

Hey guys,

When a guy first discovers that attraction is actually a learnable skill, and not a talent reserved for those born with it, he usually gets very excited... and falls flat on his face with the first woman he tries his new skill with.

Why? It's not because what he's learned is wrong, it's not because the woman doesn't want him to be attractive, and it's not because his intent is wrong or bad. It's because he leaves out one simple (but crucial) step.

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What's that step? It's making the woman feel comfortable before creating and enhancing the attraction. Most men kill attraction before it even starts because they leave out this crucial step.

Before a woman feels attraction for you, she must be comfortable in your presence. And when you first meet or talk to her (regardless of who does the approaching), she's probably going to be a bit nervous, a bit uncomfortable.

It's your job to make her feel comfortable around you as fast as possible. The first (and biggest step) in this process is simply being aware that, after you first meet her, you have to actively make her feel comfortable.

This usually involves some light humor, or fun talk about a neutral subject, something she and you are both interested in. It's usually a good idea to avoid any touching at this point until you "feel" her becoming comfortable with you.

When you start to pay attention to a woman's comfort level, you'll get to the point where you recognize the exact moment when she became comfortable with you. It can take anywhere from a few minutes to a few hour depending on the woman, but as you master the skill of making women comfortable before increasing the attraction, it won't take you long.

If you've had issues in the past creating attraction with women, go back over your last few interactions and see if you left out the comfort creating part. Odds are you did, and when you add this vital step in, your success rate will skyrocket.

On with the fun--

-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You

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Posted by john at 10:39 AM