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March 12, 2006

What women really want-- and why it will surprise you

Dear friends and subscribers,

What if I were to tell you there was one BIG SECRET to creating attraction with any woman you want? Further, what if I were to tell you that any can put this secret to use immediately, regardless of your looks, age or income to attract the women--or woman--you truly desire? How interested would you be?

Here's the truth: there IS one big secret to attraction, and it's called "personal authority." Most men are confused by this, having been deliberately been trained to be wusses and nice guys by society, been trained to think that authority is a bad thing.

It's not... IF you use it correctly. Most men don't because they don't know how. But women crave a man with personal authority, they dream about such a man. And you can be that man, if you understand a few simple secrets, things society at large does not want you to know. But I do--and I have condensed these secrets into an easy to use system you can put to work for you immediately. For details, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm right now, before I decide to remove this website for good.


On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Personal authority in a man is like a narcotic to women... they can't resist. That's the good news. The bad news is, if you don't give it to them, they'll leave and find a man who will. Don't be the man they're leaving, be the man they run to. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm right now.

Posted by john at 04:39 PM

If this surprises you, you're in BIG trouble

Hey guys,

A get a lot of correspondence from guys that goes something like this: "I met this woman, we hit it off so I asked her out- and I was surprised when she said yes!"

What usually follows this is a story about the woman flaking, or a question as to why there wasn't a second meeting after the first one.

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Here's why this happens: because you were "surprised she said yes," you doubt your ability to create attraction with her. You believe you're going to fail. And when you believe you're going to fail you will.

This applies doubly so to creating attraction with women. Why?
Because women instantly pick up on what you're feeling inside. If you're feeling naughty, playful, and confident, she feels that and it creates attraction. But if it shifts to doubt, even for a second, she picks up on it, and you're done--the attraction is gone, which leads to flaking and failure.

Women don't consciously do this. They make decisions on what they're feeling inside, and act according to that feeling. If you want her to spend time with you, you need to make her feel attraction based on your own emotional state.

The same thing applies when you start thinking, "I wonder if she likes me..." Again, that's self doubt and it kills attraction before it ever has a chance.

You need to develop the expectation, the belief that women are attracted to you. If you give her the opportunity to spend time with you, you must expect her to seize that opportunity. She'll pick up on this belief, translate it to confidence, and feel attraction for you.

The only time you should be surprised is if a woman doesn't accept the opportunity to spend more time with you. But, don't worry, it doesn't mean you doubted yourself if this happens, all it means is she had bad taste--and who wants to spend time with a woman who has bad taste, anyways?

What you expect to happen, will happen. So, expect success!

On with the fun--

-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS When you're competent in your chosen field, you will always expect success. To become competent in every area with women, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now before this website is removed.


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Posted by john at 10:01 AM