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March 28, 2006

Warning: don't talk to another woman until you read this

Dear friends and subscribers,

Did you know what you say in your everyday conversations with women could be killing any chance you have of creating attraction with the one you desire?

It's true... you can never tell when the tiniest thing (like asking for a phone number) can obliterate a newly formed attraction. See, what is "everyday" and "natural" to us as men, is confusing and unattractive to women. So, if you talk to a woman like you talk to your guy friends (and most of us do), you may be killing any attraction she had for you.

Luckily there's a new resource available that will allow you to "turn the tables," and use what you say to now create attraction while avoiding the things that destroy it. How great would it be to talk to a woman, knowing you can "flip" her attraction for you on or off, just like you'd flick a light switch? Would you like to know how to do that, at will? Why then go to www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm to discover how to just that, plus many other secrets to creating attraction.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't lose another relationship with a great woman because you said something that killed the attraction... and didn't even know it. Go to www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm right now.

PPS Tired of rejection and heartbreak with women? Are you ready to put all that nonsense behind you, step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power and success with women? If so, then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 04:23 PM

Q and A with the King

Hey guys,

My inbox is filled to the brim with questions, comments, and, as you'll see, a bit of craziness, so I thought we'd do a little Q and A today.

Let's get started...

At last the real truth about women, dating, and relationships--why you have been held back by society from attracting the women you truly desire. For a whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover how to lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women.


I do believe one of the reasons a beautiful woman is with an ugly man, is because everyone always comments and wonders why a woman sooo attractive is with a man who's not. Have seen it a lot myself - a woman listening to people commenting within earshot about her relationship 'What does she see in him? As pretty as she is , she could find someone better looking.' A bit of an ego stroke for the woman if you really give it some thought. Of course, a woman who enjoys this kind of attention is a bit shy of a full deck.


JA: Thanks for the email, Robin. Most of the time I would say this is not the case. If she's not attracted to him, she's not going to be with him. Women who are looking for ego strokes generally go for a guy who makes their friends jealous, i.e. one with looks and income. But when she meets a man who makes her feel attraction, the guy she kept around to show off is gone.

The reason a woman is with a man is because her makes her feel attraction, plain and simple. If it's there, she's there, if not, she's not.

I sometimes can't believe us "desirable" women are that scary for men to approach... or your trying to point out tips for us women come to you.... Way too much "mental" either way.

Sometimes I would like to go back to being 15 years old... Seemed so much more natural then.
-Cathy O.

JA: Thanks for the email, Cathy. I, too, wish it wasn't scary for me to approach women, but all that wishing doesn't change reality--that's just how it is. If you want results in the real world, you have to embrace reality, plain and simple. You bring up a good point--it WAS, in many ways, more "natural" at a younger age. That's because you didn't have near as much social programming as you do now. Really, what I do with guys is more of "de-programming" than programming.


I remember It was the early 80's I was starting in a Rock N Roll band My Drummer: John had a Friend I don't remember Her name I think It was Cheryl I was not Interested In Her anyway for one thing She had a bad habit just as another Woman I knew name Cheryl that had the same bad habit, anyway Cheryl was working at the Mayol hotel where the Rock band the Cars was staying and the Cars asked Cheryl to come over and visit with Them

I have already read one of Gary Brodsky's books and all it is, is stuff they taught In first grade as don't pick Your nose don't eat with Your mouth open, they don't teach, "It's not ..Can.. I go to the restroom it's ..May.. I go to the restroom and no You may not go to the restroom! until You get In false high school. Actually I would rather beat women up they are dam job stealers that make more money than they are worth so they can live in nice home and drive nice cars but I can tell You one thing You can do Is tell women they are going to hell for being a homosexual, Because King James version Holy Bible Teaches It's not good for Man to be alone and God Jesus made the Woman for the Man to be a help Mate and If the woman refuses to be a help Mate then she is defiling the Nature. I bet You never heard that from one of these lying television preaches.


JA: Uhh, did you forget to take your medicine?

Thanks for the questions, comments and craziness, guys- -we'll do it again soon.

On with the fun--

-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Want to get ALL your questions answered about attracting women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now before this website is removed.

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Posted by john at 10:10 AM