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April 06, 2006

What men who succeed with women know that others don't

Dear friends and subscribers,

There is something the most successful men know about attracting women that others don't. It's not looks, it's not age, and it's not income, although they want others to believe this is the case. In fact, it's one, simple secret that any man can put to work for himself to attract (and keep) the women he truly desires.

To discover this controversial, forbidden attraction secret, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm Others will be pissed I revealed this, but that's their problem.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Hurry, before it's too late. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm to discover this attraction secret other men do not want you to know.

Posted by john at 04:36 PM

Are you playing head games with yourself?

Hey guys,

Over the past few days, I've been noticing a disturbing trend in the correspondence I'm getting from readers. I'm hearing a lot of things like:

"I suck at getting women"

"They tell me I have no chance"

"It may work for others, but not for me."

At last the real truth about women, dating, and relationships--why you have been held back by society from attracting the women you truly desire. For a whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover how to lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women.

Stop. Enough of this silliness. If you read the above statements carefully, you'll notice they're all internal statements, representative of a weak, unattractive self image. If you're a guy who believes any or all of those statements about yourself, you'll never attract women, no matter how much you learn.

See, what women are turned off by the most is a guy who truly believes he's unattractive. Doesn't matter if he's a 6'2" GQ looking guy, or a truly ugly slob--if he believes he's unattractive, than he is. Women can smell a guy who believes he's unattractive miles away (I know this because I used to believe it about myself--thank God I changed that).

But when you switch these beliefs to more useful ones (like "I'm learning the skill to create attraction with all women"), that's when your results begin to change. That's why a 700 lb slob (like I wrote about a few weeks ago) can have women falling all over him to go back to his place, why I guy like that can have them speaking in hushed tones about him. It's because he believes he can make women feel attraction.

Changing your beliefs is simple. It's simply a process of recognizing that creating attraction is a learnable skill, starting the process of learning that skill (while recognizing you're going to have some butt-kickings along the way), then getting a few successes which build your self image. However, before you do this, you HAVE to get rid of old, manufactured useless beliefs like the ones I started this episode with. Those will KILL attraction all the time--so you better kill them first.

On with the fun--

-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS In addition to belief, you also need the right information to build your skills. For the right information, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now before it's too late!

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Posted by john at 10:33 AM