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April 28, 2006

Chase or attract, which do you prefer?

Dear friends and subscribers,

There's nothing more frustrating than wondering if a woman "likes you," then pursuing her, trying to get her to notice you, even date you. How does it usually end? By her going off with a guy who she was "attracted to," a guy who never showed any interest in her at all.

Why would she do this? Because the guy who supposedly "showed no interest" actually knew how to create attraction, and she came to him, instead of him chasing her. Trust me, that's a much better way to go, for both men and women--if you'd like to discover how to "stop chasing" and start attracting, then simply go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm and discover how to get women to approach YOU first, no matter your looks, age, or income.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to step up to the big leagues and live a lifetime of success and choice with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

Posted by john at 04:33 PM

Q and A with the King

Hey guys,

We're coming up on one of my favorite weekends of the year--the NFL draft. I actually went to the draft last year at the Jacob Javits Center in New York, and it was a blast. Not the best place in the world to attract women, obviously, but it was heaven for the football fanatic facing the long drought of baseball season. I'm not going to it this year, but I will be glued to the TV.

Anyways, I figured we'd get to some "pre-draft" Q and A, so here we go:

At last the real truth about women, dating, and relationships--why you have been held back by society from attracting the women you truly desire. For a whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover how to lead a lifetime of power, success, and choice with women


I have been on your email list for a while. I was having trouble with women a while back and my dad signed me up! Long story short, all of your techniques work!

One day I want to get the whole package, but not really full time employed right now. However, I did land a sexy and intelligent 30 yr old girlfriend using your methods(I'm 25).

I love the show 2 and A HALF MEN! Your classic wussy is Allen Harper! I think he is actually the half man that the show title talks about! Charlie gets all the bitches and Allen gets walked over by all of them!! If you want your readers to see how not to act, tell them to watch a few episodes of that show! It's hilarious. Charlie has got the method down. Although the respect thing seems a bit lacking! Anyway, thanks for all your help.


JA: Thanks for the email, Brooks, and congratulations on your success. I confess to not having watched much of the show, but of what little I have seen, I agree with you. Charlie Sheen is, for the most part, someone to pay attention to (to emulate, mostly), and Allen Harper is indeed a wussy wuss.

Watching a show that portrays a guy that does it right, is a valuable resource, and there ain't too many of them left. I'll have to tune in more often--thanks for the tip.


Tell the guys that you're more right than anyone I've ever read about. I am a woman.

Women like men with "personal authority."

-And that's the truth. I was actually asked yesterday what the number one quality I looked for in a man was, and I said, "Confidence."


JA: Thanks for writing in Jane--I always love it when a woman tells me I'm right! Seriously, though, this concept of personal authority is vitally important, and while it does go hand and hand with confidence, I think it is a better term for the male behavior that creates attraction. Confidence is, actually a vague term--people can relate to, and emulate, a guy who has strong personal authority. It is a learnable skill.

When I was in the naval unit at the University of Texas, it was always amazing to me, how a geeky, nerdy, frightened teenager would come on board, and two years later would be brimming with confidence and authority when the freshmen for that year came in. It was an amazing transformation--although they looked about the same as when they first got there, they had a different presence about them. Many of them never had a girlfriend in their lives, but after they developed their sense of authority, they usually met one (a hot one).

The point is, authority and confidence can be developed by any man, and it is sought by every woman. Authority is the lynchpin of attraction--luckily it is learnable. (For details on how you can develop this skill, check out http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm )

Hi John,

Do you do any seminars on your dating techniques???


JA: I will be doing those in the future, George, probably within six months. Thanks for asking, and stay tuned.

On with the fun--

-John Alanis
The King of Let 'em Come to You

PS Ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power and success with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now before it's too late!

Posted by john at 10:35 AM