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May 02, 2006

Imagine, no more heartbreak ever...

Dear friends and subscribers,

Have you ever had a woman who just broke your heart? I mean, she just ripped your guts out, stomped all over them, and left them in the street for the buzzards to clean up?

It sucks, doesn't it? Luckily, there is a new, unusual book, just released, that reveals step by step, how to avoid this kind of pain and agony in the future. In fact, it reveals how to get beautiful, desirable women to approach you first, so that you, as a man, get to make the "rejection decision." That's how it should be, right?

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Sincerely,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:48 PM

A controversial subject

Hey guys,

Well, the NFL Draft is history, and with the exception of a few mini-camps, we're about to enter the dark times of nothing but baseball. But, it does work out for me and for you because I'm a lot more productive during these "dark ages" because I'm not constantly wasting time reading all the football websites.

Today I'm going to talk about an extremely controversial subject. And quite frankly, I'm going to piss a few of you guys off because I'm going to challenge the way you view the world. But I'm also going to have an equal number of guys say, "Yeah, right on King, it's about time someone has the guts to say that" because you've experienced what I'm going to talk about.

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OK, on to today's "controversial subject," and that is this: why it is essential you sleep with a woman as fast as possible if you want to have a relationship with her.

There are a lot of doofus psychologists out there who claim "study after study" proves that couples who "wait" to have sex have more "lasting relationships."

Here's what this silliness leaves out: all the relationships that DIDN'T HAPPEN because the guy waited (just like society says to do) and she went off and slept with a jerk who "flipped her attraction triggers," killing what could have been a really good relationship.

Ever had that happen to you, guys? You met a great woman, there was an attraction, but you decided to be a "sensitive guy" and wait, and then she bolted and you had no idea why?

Yeah, I know it's never happened to any guy, ever.

Here's the truth of the matter: if you really like her, you need to sleep with her as fast as possible. It's a very powerful psychological phenomena called "commitment and consistency." I don't have time to go into it here, but you can read all about it by spending the Kingly sum of $19.95 at amazon.com on the book, "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion" by Robert B. Cialdini. Every single one of you guys NEEDS to read this book.

Am I saying you need to do it on the first date? No, and in fact I don't think it's a good idea, unless you just want to have a purely physical relationship with her. You need to be able to test her to see if she's worthy to spend time with you (I teach you how to do this in my book, Secrets of Natural Attraction-- http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm).

But as soon as you've made that determination, you need to get her into bed as fast as possible, in a way that feels natural to her, that makes her feel like you're a "powerful man." Now that does NOT mean "tricking" or "hard closing" her. Not at all. If you do that, she's sleeping with you to avoid an uncomfortable, pressure filled situation, which is obviously not conducive to any relationship. You want her to sleep with you out of desire, passion, and genuine attraction... which, if you read my book carefully, you can quickly create and amplify.

If you don't close the deal quickly, she'll begin to feel nervous around you, and second guess her feelings of attraction to you. And if another guy comes along who does demonstrate authority, she'll head for him, not for you. None of you have ever had that happen, huh?

Guys, as much as I hate it, this is the way the world works, the way the world is. We live in reality, not what "should be." When it comes to women and relationships the "should be world" says, "be a nice guy, wait until she's ready, until the time is right, etc., etc." In the real world, where you and I live, you have to close the deal as soon as possible in a way that feels natural to her, or another guy (maybe one of my hard-working students) will come along and close the deal with her before you do. And you'll be cheated out of what could have been a wonderful relationship.

So, the next time any "psychologist" starts spouting off about "studies," ask them this question: If you're so smart about how the mind works, how come you ain't rich? That'll shut 'em up pretty dang quick.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues and live a lifetime of power, choice and success with women? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:52 AM