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May 18, 2006

Warning: don't talk to another woman until you read this

Dear friends and subscribers,

Did you know what you say in your everyday conversations with women could be killing any chance you have of creating attraction with the one you desire?

It's true... you can never tell when the tiniest thing (like asking for a phone number) can obliterate a newly formed attraction. See, what is "everyday" and "natural" to us as men, is confusing and unattractive to women. So, if you talk to a woman like you talk to your guy friends (and most of us do), you may be killing any attraction she had for you.

Luckily there's a new resource available that will allow you to "turn the tables," and use what you say to now create attraction while avoiding the things that destroy it. How great would it be to talk to a woman, knowing you can "flip" her attraction for you on or off, just like you'd flick a light switch? Would you like to know how to do that, at will? Why then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover how to just that, plus many other secrets to creating attraction.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't lose another relationship with a great woman because you said something that killed the attraction... and didn't even know it. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 04:19 PM

Why the rich get richer...

Hey guys,

There's an old saying that goes, "the rich get richer and the poor get poorer." This statement is absolutely 100% true--but not for the reason you might think.

Usually when some overeducated college professor says this, he or she is really saying, "the rich get richer because they steal from the poor, they manipulate and trick them. It's not your fault you're poor, it's the rich's fault."

Which is why most college professors are poor.

The reason most rich people are rich (and when I say rich, I mean "self made" not inherited, married, or won in the lottery) is because they spend their time doing the things that make them rich.

What do the poor spend their time doing? The things that make them poor. Both rich and poor have the same amount of time in the day--24 hours. But it's how you use that time that counts.

Now, this episode is not about money. It's about spending time doing the things that will make you successful with women, and being willing to pay the price to do so.

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Check out the following email I received, and ask yourself why you think this guy is unsuccessful with women:

Dear John

I have just seen you Add and i liked it.. but accually am sick of seduction internet products.. i have spend money on products like hypnotic-seduction.com for Dr Jacob and getsexynow.com for Mr Dowing and i was not satisfied... the thing is that what they r talking about is something related to self development which neads training and it takes time more than 6 months...

but they r marketing it in their website as an easy to learn subject!
and in your address u r telling the same thing that it is easy to learn you even said in your story " I put his secrets to work the very next day with one of the seminar attendees (an attractive real estate investor named Kat), and I was astounded by the results. We had an amazing time, and I still keep in touch with her to this very day. His secrets not only worked, they worked better than he said they did!

so if i get the ebook today can simply start getting women appraoch me from tomorrow?

accually i want to get ur product but am affraid to find similar subject that i have read in other products.. i just want to make sure that i can really get results from the 2nd day! or i will ask u for refund

what do u say?

best regards

--name withheld

Gee, do you have to read much of what this guy has written to see why he's unsuccessful? He's not willing to pay the price, and not willing to use the information he's already gotten. Much easier to keep dreaming about the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow than it is to a bit of "self development" work.

He thinks he's somehow "entitled" to something. That something should be "given to him." Look, if you want women to approach you, you have to give them something they want... a feeling of powerful attraction. And for some of you, it's going to take some time to learn how to do that. But once you learn it, it's a skill you have
for life.

That's the way to world works... to get value, you have to give value, plain and simple. There's no way in hell I'm going to sell this guy anything. There's a 100% chance he'll whine for a refund and a 100% chance he'll never be successful with women. He's not willing to spend the time to create value for others. So, I'm booting his butt off my list... I don't need or want to do business with guys like that.

As some of you know, I also do quite a bit of direct marketing consulting, and work with a company that sells information products to people who want to get into business--"opportunity seekers." We're going to be moving out of that market soon, and into a much better market, although the money is very good.

Why? Because we can't stand dealing with "opportunity seekers." They all want a "magic money chant" to get rich quick with, to have a million dollars show up in their mailbox tomorrow without doing any work. Now, I'm all for getting rich quick, but it takes a tremendous amount of focused energy and effort to do so. And "opp seekers" don't want to do that. Most of these people have spent over 30 years trying to "get rich quick" when they could have done so in two years, simply by putting their energy and effort into building a business that delivers value to people.

Here's what most people don't get: how quickly time passes. Read the above email again. Six months is not a long time at all to learn how to be successful with women for life. Six months is a drop in the bucket of time. How fast did the last six months pass? To me it was a blur, as will the next six months be. If you spend your time trying to shortcut the system, time will get behind you so fast, you'll be ten years older, twenty pounds heavier, and no farther ahead than you are now... and you'll wonder how it passed so quickly. Spend your time as the rich do, and you'll reap rewards beyond your imagination... spend it as the poor do and you'll forever
be wondering why you never get the results you want.

People who are poor in money and poor in women don't give or contribute much value. People who are rich in money and rich in women give quite a bit. And people who are MASSIVELY successful with both money and woman, find a way to deliver value on a mass scale... they "leverage" their delivery of value. They understand that true success, true riches comes from how you use your time, and they understand how fast it truly passes.

Time is the only thing in this world that is finite, and it is the only thing everyone is given equally. How you use yours will determine what kind of life you lead.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS To discover a unique way to give value to women, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm now.

Posted by john at 10:22 AM