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June 09, 2006

Do you make these mistakes with women?

Dear friends and subscribers,

1. Hoping and praying she'll "like you" because of "who you are?"

2. Just "being yourself."

3. Buying a woman gifts, candy, flowers or jewelry to impress her?

4. Being a kind, sensitive, caring guy who caters to her every whim and desire.

5. Thinking that just because she's "with you" she won't dump you in a heartbeat for another guy.

6. Thinking that just because you have money, a fancy car or a big house she'll be attracted to you.

7. Going on "dates."

8. Hoping she'll "let you kiss her" at the end of a "date."

9. Buying her drinks, hoping she'll "go home with you."

10. Believing her when she says, "I just wish I could meet a nice guy."

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On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:49 PM

What is, and what should be

Hey guys,

One of my subscribers forwarded me the a link to an article in Rolling Stone that is worth reading. It's one of the best articles I've read about how women behave in a group dynamic, with a perceived limited number of desirable men.

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If you haven't seen this, it illustrates your points about authority and women.


-Dr. William

JA: Thanks for the link, Dr., this is a great article. In fact, it's so good, I'm going to assign a bit of homework to everyone on the list. What I'd like everyone to do is this: read the article, and look to see how many of the following concepts you see in action here:

Defining authority

Setting and controlling frames

Automatic attraction systems created by environment

What should be vs what is

What women say vs what women do

Looks, age, income not a factor

Women are just as sexual (if not more so) than men

If you read the article carefully, I think you'll find it to be very enlightening, especially if you read it looking specifically for the above concepts.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 10:09 AM