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June 12, 2006

What you do NOT have to do to attract desirable women

Dear friends and subscribers,

Did you know there is a brand new way (an unusual way) to get women to approach you first, and ask you on a date? It's true, and you can put it to use quickly and easily to attract as many women as you want, any time you want.

However, before I tell you what this "new way is all about," you should know what you do NOT have to do to get desirable women to approach you first:

You do NOT have to... learn, complex, memorized "language patterns" that take forever to "get down." These rarely work for most guys, and only serve to embarrass you in front of the woman you want to attract.

You do NOT have to... have lots of money, a fancy car, or a big house (in fact these "natural attraction" secrets work even better if you're dead butt broke!)

You do NOT have to... take advice from your women friends on how to meet women--this is a HUGE trap many guys fall into. Your women friends will tell you what they THINK women want in a man, NOT what they really respond to.

You do NOT have to... be tall, handsome, famous, rich or even fashionable (heck, I'm 5'7" , an admittedly bad dresser, drive a beat up 1992 red Buick Regal, and my hair is falling out!)

You do NOT have to... "hypnotize" women, be "sneaky" or manipulative, or learn weird, far-out new age "energy secrets."

So what are these secrets, secrets that literally compel women to seek you out, and chase you down, begging you for "just one date?" Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover them for yourself.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't delay, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now before it's too late.

Posted by john at 04:56 PM

Why it's NOT about dating...

Hey guys,

Want to know a sure-fire way to fail with women? Ask one on a "date"--you'll be done before you start. How do I know? Because I tested it over and over and over, and every time I went on a traditional "date," I never saw her again.

What will you do when the woman of your dreams suddenly leaves you to be with another man? Don't ever let this happen to you-- go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to make sure she's always thinking of you... and ONLY you!

Why does this happen? The answer is simple: every guy asks a woman on a date, and if she goes on one with you, you're just another guy (a JAG). Women don't want JAG's--they want a guy who's different, a guy who creates attraction. Dating is also a very structured, uncomfortable ritual--you dress nicely, bring her flowers, go eat at a swanky restaurant, all the while wondering if you're going to "get some." Then at the end of the night, you wonder if you're going to "get a kiss." After it's over you call your friends, and she calls hers to evaluate the whole ordeal.

No wonder dating sucks--it's no fun at all, and it's set up to fail from the beginning. So, I just don't date. I "allow" a woman to spend time with me to see how much we can enjoy each other's company over coffee. If she asks me "is this a date?" I say, "oh no, I don't date. This isn't dating, this is discovery. I get to discover if I like you or not!" They always love that response because it lets them know immediately I'm different from any other guy they ever met, and the experience they have with me will be vastly different than anything they've ever done before. And then they start to pursue me.

So, don't date, discover!

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Discover how to choose your own outcomes with women for life!
Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

Posted by john at 11:14 AM