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June 16, 2006

Are you ready to step up to the Big Leagues?

Dear friends and subscribers,

As you know, there are two types of people in this world, talkers and doers. And there are two things that separate the two. One, is obviously taking action. In order to be a doer and get the results you desire in life, you must take action. There is no way around that.

However, did you know there are lots of talkers who do take action, but never get the results they say they want? They look busy, they appear busy, they "do" things, but they never get any results. Why is this? Why are they really talkers even though they "take action?"

The answer is simple: they do not have the right information to base their action on. And, when their action fails, they do the same old thing over and over and then go talk about the lack of results.

The true doer "calibrates" when he or she takes action and doesn't get the results they desire. They look at what they did, they find out where they lack knowledge, then they go out and get that knowledge. Then, and only then, do they take action again, this time a different action. And they continue to go through this cycle of taking action and acquiring information until they get the results they desire. Sometimes this takes a long, long time and the price is high. But the outcome is ALWAYS the same in the end--the doer gets the results he desires.

If you want to be a true doer and control all your outcomes in life with women and relationships, I can offer you the correct information, information that has been tested and proven through my investment, trial and error. What I can't do is get you to take action. That's up to you. But, if you're an action-taker, and all you need is the right information, I can provide that for you. To get that "right information," and step up to the Big Leagues forever, simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

I look forward to seeing you in the Majors!

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Don't delay--this is your chance to be "called up," and change your life forever. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm at once.

Posted by john at 04:14 PM

The success skill that never fails

Hey guys,

A few days ago, I wrote an episode regarding the differing personalities of Bill Clinton and George Bush. I talked about how Bill Clinton is the perfect "naughty boy" while George Bush comes across as cantankerous and mean spirited.

As expected, I got a barrage of emails castigating me for "praising Bill Clinton" and another barrage telling me how "W" is an evil man, out to terrorize the world.

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Sadly enough, I expected both kinds of emails, even though I offered an endorsement of neither man (I'll keep my politics to myself in this venue).

One of the greatest success skills you can ever develop is the ability to study someone you strongly disagree with, strongly dislike, to see what makes them successful. You can then apply that personality trait in your venue of choice, even one that is completely counter to the one the person you dislike applies it in.

Look, there's no doubt Clinton misbehaved when he was in office. That's a fact, pure and simple. But it is an absolute waste of time to rail against the guy and talk about what a horrible person he was when you can spend the time studying him to find out just why a guy who misbehaved as badly as he did left office with high approval ratings and is now treated like a rock star.

That's the real success skill here. Understand this: I have learned a lot about how to attract women by guys I don't like very much at all. I didn't like how they treated the women they attracted, nor did I like how they viewed women. But I did notice, that despite what you would think are handicaps, they continued to attract women over and over, even when these women knew what they were in for.

Over time, and with careful observation, I was able to extract the attractive behavior, and apply it without the dysfunctional behavior to attract women in the way I wanted to. And, I was able to get a better result in the end than they were: I could get a woman to stick around for a real relationship, when they couldn't. But I never would have gotten to that point without first setting aside my personal distaste and studying these jerks to find out why they were getting the results they were.

If you want to become successful in any venue, a skill you need to develop is the skill to set aside your distaste for a person, to study what makes them successful so you can apply it in a more honorable way. Having a knee jerk reaction and blathering about how bad someone is will get you nowhere--studying them and extracting useful behavior from them will get you everywhere.

That's why you need to study both Bill Clinton and George W. Both have flaws. Both have been successful. Both are worth paying attention to.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS What's the one thing all men have who can attract women effortlessly? It's called personal authority--few men have it, but all can develop it. It's the one thing women are magnetically drawn to--to discover how to develop yours, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm

Posted by john at 10:05 AM