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June 24, 2006

Is it really this easy?

Dear friends and subscribers,

Here's an email I received from a doer who's getting tremendous results, by doing one simple thing. Read his email to discover what it is...

Yo dude,

I was gonna compliment you on your teachings, but then i figured that you get so many emails that your head is already big enough lol!

So straight to my point...

You mentioned something in a recent email that i picked up on before which really worked for me. You said that if you start thinking and believing that every women is attracted to you, and that YOU let HER spend time with you, then authority and attraction will come more easily.


Hear my short (but sweet) story...

I was just waiting around for this girl I liked at college one day and noticed there was a lot of females walking around so i decided i would try something you suggested. I flipped my mindset to thinking I was God's Gift To Women!

I started to look at every woman who went by as if to say "I could give you the most pleasurable time of your life" and by doing this i instantly noticed that I maintained eye contact with these women instead of shying away, my posture improved, I was getting looks and stares all over the place!

All from changing my mindset.

Needless to say i met this girl and she was overwhelmed by my charm and attraction creating techniques (he he he) and well, i didn't get a lot of rest that night.

Now i think this all the time. Everything about me just naturally changed. I now walk differently, talk differently and... well... just about everything is different in some way or another and it didn't even feel like i'd done anything!



JA: Congratulations on your success, Toby... you've hit the bulls-eye. All external success comes from internal beliefs, and your story is a perfect example of 1) how easy it is to adopt an attractive mindset and 2) proof that it produces amazing results. Every woman I've talked to for my upcoming conversations with women product has told me how important it is for a man to have an authoritative mindset and presence. Congratulations on taking action and getting results.

To discover how to build an attractive, authoritative mindset quickly and easily, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/authority.htm right now.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Imagine, no more heartbreak or rejection by women ever again-- see http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm for details.

Posted by john at 04:51 PM

Hire 'em slow, fire 'em fast

Hey guys,

Way back when I first started my direct marketing career, I got hold of a book called "Magic Words that Bring You Riches" by an old time direct marketer, Ted Nicholas. While it was really a compilation of Ted's newsletters it was one of the most valuable books I ever read.

Why? Because it took me from the broad concept of direct marketing to usable specifics... and gave me one of the most useful pieces of advice I've ever gotten, anywhere:

Hire slow, fire fast.

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Although this piece of advice has been very valuable to my business career, it has served me even better when it comes to being successful with women.

Most guys are just the opposite. They look for any excuse to spend time with a woman, then keep spending time with her long after it's apparent she has nothing of value to contribute.

Why do they do this? Because they're coming from a place of scarcity with women, not abundance, not realizing that when you can create attraction for women YOU become the scarce resource, not them.

Whenever I first meet a woman I immediately look for things that might disqualify her. I listen very carefully to what she says, particularly in regards to her relationships with men. I look to see if she respects my time and hers by being where she says she's going to be when she says she will. I look for needy and clingy behavior, and really any behavior I don't want in my life.

And if I find anything, just one thing, I remove her from my life. Not in a mean or abusive fashion, of course, I just simply spend time doing other things.

This has saved me literally countless hours of wasted energy and misery, hours I've been able to devote towards more productive things, and women more suited to my tastes and outlook on life.

It also does one other thing: puts me in the authority position so I'm the one who determines whether the relationship goes forward. I'm evaluating her, when she's used to being the one evaluating--and that in and of itself creates attraction when she realizes she's dealing with a scarce resource, and not a "JAG" (Just Another Guy).

So take it from me, and good ol' Ted Nicholas (I think he's till around)--hire slow and fire fast. And, when it comes to women, hire SLOWER and fire FASTER... your life will be much more pleasant.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Would you like to discover "hiring secrets" that allow you to attract the kind of women YOU want to spend time with? Take it from the King, it's better to be hiring than firing... to discover how to do just that, go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm at once!

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Posted by john at 10:46 AM