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July 05, 2006

How to choose your own relationships with the women you desire

Dear friends and subscribers,

There is a sad truth to men and relationships: most men don't wind up with the woman they really want, only the one that comes along first. They think attraction "just happens," not realizing it's something they have complete control over.

They don't realize they CAN choose the relationship they want with women... if only they had the right information. Luckily, there is a new resource that reveals, step by step, how to choose your own relationships with the women you truly desire. You can have a look at it by going to:

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On with the fun..

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:44 PM

Beware the unintended consequences

Hey guys,

A few years ago Congress passed into law the Consumer Telephone Protection act, and created the "do not call list." The intent of the law was to cut down on unsolicited phone calls from pesky telemarketers, so consumers could eat dinner in peace and quiet.

The penalties for violating the law were severe-- $11,000.00 per violation. As you can imagine, the law was quite popular--after all, who hasn't been annoyed by a telemarketer. But... as the political geniuses are just starting to figure out, the law has had some... unintended consequences.

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One of these consequences was to make India rich. See, the people who the law was aimed at really don't care about it. They just contracted with companies in India, and the amount of telemarketing hasn't dropped one iota. Legitimate businesses have been hurt, and American telemarketing jobs lost, but the real criminals just keep cranking along.

These unintended consequences are the result of poorly thought out legislation, produced by legislators who were caught in up in the moment (but not so caught up as to not exempt political parties from merrily calling away to raise money).

How does this relate to attracting women? The answer is simple: before you proceed to spending a lot of time--or declaring yourself in a relationship with--a woman you just met, you'd better think out the unintended consequences.

Most guys don't--they just go with the flow in the moment, thinking that because things feel good right now, they'll always be that way, and that no matter what happens, "love will conquer all."

Worse is when a guy breaks up with a woman over a perceive slight, and does so in a cruel and brutal way just to "show her." The unintended consequence of that can be a woman who forever hates you long after you've forgotten what made you mad at her in the first place.

The point I'm trying to make is this: before you proceed with attracting a woman you just met, you need to think out all the unintended consequences of what can happen, good and bad. I know, I know, it sounds like common sense, but very few guys do it. Very few. And they wind up getting in trouble in ways they never imagined they could get in trouble in because they made a decision based on a feeling in the moment, failing to think through everything that could happen.

If you want to keep your life in good working order, get in the habit of quickly thinking through everything that could happen before you take action. It's not easy to do, and it's not fun to do, but it's a hell of a lot more fun, and a hell of a lot easier than cleaning up an unintended consequence.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you ready to stand at the "top of the mountain" and pick and choose your relationships? If so, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:36 AM