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August 07, 2006

Do you live in the land of "should be"?

Dear friends and subscribers,

Have you ever gone on a date where you thought things went really well--you were the "perfect gentleman," took her to a nice restaurant, opened all the doors for her, pulled out her chair for her, and even gave her a good night kiss on the cheek, only to have her never see you again?

Why does this happen, especially when you did everything you were "supposed to do?" Because what "should work" is not what works in the real world. And, despite what society wants us to believe, attraction takes place in the real world, not the land of "should be."

If you want to attract women in the real world, you need real world tools that produce real world results. You need what works, not what should work. Most men know what should work--few know what really does. But the few that do are getting all the outcomes they truly desire with the women they truly desire.

To be one of these elite few and live a lifetime of power, success and choice with the women you truly desire, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:21 PM

Why you must "get in the mood" first

Hey guys,

Several years ago a friend of mine who was a well known martial arts instructor said something interesting to me: "Emotion stands for energy in motion." What he meant was this--if your energy is low or bad your emotion will be too... and everyone will pick up on it.

If you're feeling sick, down or tired it's just about impossible to attract women. They pick up on your negative energy and it short circuits any attraction.

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

However, there are things you can do about this. Whenever you leave the house, it is important to get yourself in the mood to attract women. Understand that attraction is not just for sex and romance--when you create attraction with women anywhere you go, you get much better service, much better deals, and "head of the line" privileges.

Before you leave the house, mentally rehearse what you will say and do when you see an attractive woman. Replay the successes you've had in the past. Practice your naughty boy smile in front of the mirror, making sure your eyes back it up (a real smile shows through the eyes, a phony one is betrayed by them).

Now you don't have to spend an hour doing this--5 minutes is plenty. But when you do this, you "warm yourself up" for creating attraction with women. Your mind is oriented for that direction, and you don't have to start a conversation with a "cold mind."

This "warm up routine" is one of those seemingly small things that makes the difference between men who are average with women and those who succeed wildly. Don't neglect it--it might cost you the woman you've always been looking for.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Ready to choose your own relationships with the women you desire on your terms? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 10:16 AM