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August 17, 2006

A free, "sneak preview" of the King's Real Conversations with Real Women Eavesdrop CD's

Dear friends and subscribers,

I have some exciting news for you! I just posted some of the audio samples from my brand new, real conversations with real women product (which will be released to my general list on Tuesday, August 22, 2006 at 2:00 PM Central) so you can actually hear me creating attraction, live, as I talk to real women. You don't want to miss this!

All you have to do is go to http://www.johnalanis.com/audio/ and you can listen to them, free right now!

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PPS To discover how to be the MAN women can't resist and be the envy of all your male friends, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm now.

Posted by john at 04:17 PM

What women really mean when they say they want a "nice guy"

Hey guys,

As it stands now, there are 88 basic, and 57 deluxe sets sold (out of a total of 299). Obviously a lot have been sold, but I think there will be some left over for my general list. If there are, I will release them on Tuesday, August 22, 2006.

I've gotten a few emails from guys wanting to know if they can preview these CD's, so today I have a special treat for you. I've put up a few real, live audio clips of me talking to women, and you can listen in for free by simply going to http://www.johnalanis.com/audio/

I think you'll get a kick out of these--pay close attention to how these women respond to the term "naughty."

Anyways, on with today's episode. If you spend any time reading the profiles on Match.com or any of the other online dating sites, you'll see a lot of women who say they just want to meet "a nice guy."

Furthermore, if you talk to women about relationships often you'll hear, "I'm tired of dating all these jerks. I just want to meet a nice guy."

A whole new approach to dating, women, and relationships that allows me to choose my own relationships with women, anytime, anyplace, anywhere, devoid of all heartbreak or misery, and I'm convinced any man can copy what I'm doing, no matter your looks, age, or income. Why would any sane man reveal these secrets if they were true? To discover the answer go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Guys read and hear this, so when they meet a woman, they act like a "nice guy." They're sweet, respectful, give her compliments, gifts a peck on the cheek--and they never see her again.

What's her reason? She'll say, "he was a really nice guy, but there was no chemistry there." Remarkably enough, this is the same woman who says, "I just want to meet a nice guy."

What's the disconnect, what's going on here? Why do women say they want to meet nice guys, but when they do meet one they don't want to see him again because there's no "chemistry?"

The answer has to do with what we as men think a nice guy is, and what women really mean when they say a "nice guy."

We think of a "nice guy" as a guy who's meek, mild, unoffensive, humble, a guy who compliments women, buys them gifts, lets them make all the decisions, wants her to "just be happy," and is very careful to do nothing to offend her.

Women think of a nice guy as a guy who makes them feel like they feel when they're around the jerkiest of jerks, but doesn't come with the baggage and negative behaviors the jerks always come with.

Here's what women want when they say they want to meet a "nice guy:" a man with a strong sense of personal authority, with a naughty, fun, playful side, who genuinely likes women. While he engages in "naughty behavior" he doesn't do the things jerks do: lying, abusing, freeloading, etc.

In other words the "nice guy" women want makes them feel like she's with a jerk without the bad behaviors the jerk brings. So next time you hear or read a woman say, "I just want to meet a nice guy," you'll know what she really means--and it has nothing to do with how men define a nice guy.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS At last! Here's how to have the relationships you want with the women you desire, without all the pain, misery and emotional turmoil, only happiness and joy. Want to know how? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:38 AM