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September 26, 2006

A very short success story

Dear friends and subscribers,

This has to be one of the shortest--but best--success stories I've heard yet:

John--

Read your Gold Package ! I'm 40 and a 22 year old beautiful blond just called me and ask me out!!

Cool!

Dale L.
Houston, TX

JA: Like I said, short and sweet--this stuff just plain works. Ain't it great when hot women call to ask you, Dale? Great job.

For those of you who'd like to get the same results as Dale, simply go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm

What are you waiting for, Christmas? There's a beautiful woman out there right now, just waiting to approach you first, if you take fast action. Don't disappoint her--go to http://www.effortlesscommunication.com/enter.htm right now.

On with the fun...


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are any of the "Five Myths About Succeeding with Women" holding you back? To find out before it's too late, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

Posted by john at 04:21 PM

A frustrated man...

Hey guys,

I received an email a few days ago from a man who's frustrated with his outcomes with women, despite the fact he got his hands on my information and is taking action. However, he's not getting the results he wants... and I know why. Read on to discover the answer--you may be experiencing the same thing.

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Mr. Alanis:

I trust that things are going well for you, yes? I'll try not to waste your time, I just wanted to give you a praise, a disagreement, and a question so you can help me see if my disagreement is valid or not, read on, you'll see what I mean:

I invested in your products about a year and a half ago, and not after long, I started seeing a BIG difference. Back in high school, not ONE girl even looked at me, I was invisible. But after looking into your items (and a few of your partners/competitors), I was able to change that when I started my first year of college. Young women actually noticed me, actually smiled, actually laughed! Actually let me touch them without pulling away!! I can get womans attention by being a cocky, funny, playful, "naughty boy", and listening to some of Han Solo's best lines help me think of the right thing to say!

You have helped me come a long way from the loser I was in high school, and you have my thanks.

Now here is the bad part.... I wish I could give you a success story, but I have none, here's why:

I see an attractive girl next to me in class, I decide to start up conversation, we talk about favorites, about class, about how we ended up at our college. Im sure we hit it off well; I can get her to laugh, I get her talking about herself, I tough her shoulder and arm repeatedly and she lets me, she smiles whenever she glances me! Then, class ends, and we walk out together, and in the most playful tone possible, I tell her "You know what, Im going to the mall to get lunch! You need to join me!" Then she giggles and says "No way!" Huh?-Wait-What?-Did I do something wrong? Trying not to be phased by a simple rejection, I simply keep smiling and say "Come on, sweety, join me!" And then she giggles, and says it:

"Look, I like you, but I HAVE a boyfriend!" >:-( I just shrugg, smile and say:

"Well, you gotta give a young man credit for even trying, right? If it doesn't work out, you know where to find me." And I avoid her the rest of the semester. Probably not the best solution. :-( And how often does this happen? 100% OF THE TIME!

I disagree when you say that there are plenty of lonely hot women out there, waiting for a man to create attraction. What? Where? You maybe right, if you mean women in YOUR area, around YOUR age! I'm 20, living in South OC, Cali, and I'm the only one who has NEVER had a date, or relationship EVER. (I don't bring that up when I talk to girls)

Every damn time I try to hit it off with a girl Im interested in, she just brings up the boyfriend so casually, as if she only saw me as a playful friend! 1 out of 4 times, instead of boyfriend, she says FIANCE, or HUSBAND (at 20yrs old!!), even though she has no ring. Everywhere I went, the mall, the coffee shop, book stores, grocery stores, Target, every hot lady I see is with her damn boyfriend! I see them interact: they act like married couples. There is no single scene where I am, except for the ugly fat girls.

Frustrated, I decided to give internet dating a try. Looking at the profiles, I saw some nice looking, nice sounding ladies! Again, you helped me fine tune my profile to get attention, and I think it turned out alright (if you want to see it, let me know, I'll gladly show it to you) because I get about 10 emails a day...... all from ugly fatties! *frustrated sigh*

I go on the site (True.com and match.com) and look at the profiles for the ones Im interested in. Of all the women I DO want to meet, the most recent login was 10 months ago! They dont see my profile, because they dont even log on! Im stuck rejecting fatties who see me as their last chance.

I should have bought your stuff when I was 15, but now I think I'm too late. Do you have clients in my area? Everyone seems to know how to attract, and I didnt learn in time. Right now, Im what I call a vulture; I wait for a relationship to end, then I go for the kill! No prizes yet.

Right now, I would love to learn how to steal girlfriends, fiances, and wives for myself. I used to think that as horrible, but I'm so frustrated I DONT GIVE A SHIT anymore, and I never believed in karma! If you don't want to help me with that, I understand, but I'll start looking for someone who will...

Am I doing something wrong? Are they lying? Do I need to look elsewhere? Do I need to be patient? Any feed back would be appreciated, but thank you for what you have done for me so far!

Frustrated-As-Hell

Mad Cat

P.S. To all the men who are reading this and are still debating about whether to buy these products or not, don't wait! Buy them, they are worth every penny! If you wait too long, you will end up like me.

JA: Thanks for the email--I know exactly what you're doing wrong, and I know how to fix it. First off, though, let me say this: if you're having problems attracting single women in your neck of the woods, your chances of stealing wives, girlfriends, etc. is between slim and none. I certainly do not advocate going after women in relationships (you can wind up with a gun to your head) but if you can't attract single women, you can't attract women period.

Now, here's what your problem is: you're desperate and women can feel it even before you talk to them. The twin killers of attraction are doubt and desperation, and no amount of "technique" will overcome those. You expect failure on a subconscious level and you get it. You also don't like women very much, which is a huge problem--one of the keys to attraction is genuinely liking women.

How do I know all this? For a very brief time I experienced the same thing--I knew every move to make and what to say at the right time but deep down I had doubts... and those doubts were the killer.

Here's how to solve this. Quit worrying about your outcomes with women and focus on connecting with them as real people. Whenever you see a woman, talk to her, be naughty and funny, make her feel great, then walk away knowing you made her feel good. You need to become comfortable around women with no ulterior motive whatsoever. Only then, once they sense comfort, confidence and an abundance mentality (instead of doubt, desperation and scarcity) will they want to spend more time with you.

When you do this--when you start liking women--when you become comfortable around them, when you don't desperately need a woman for selfish purposes, things will change... and they'll change in a hurry. They'll ask you to go to lunch, they'll talk about you excitedly to their friends, and they'll call you until you can't take it any more because you've become what is very rare--a genuinely attractive man. And when this happens, you'll never hear "I have a boyfriend" again--unless you're it.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Want to know how to design and create your own automatic attraction systems to get women to approach you, predisposed to liking you? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now.

Posted by john at 10:41 AM