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January 16, 2007

The door slams shut

Three days from now I am officially closing registration to my Ultimate Attraction Immersion Event. If you haven't registered, time is of the essence. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/event_reg.htm to be sure you don't miss out.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS If you've ever been confused as to how to create attraction with women, that confusion will evaporate when you actually see it happening live. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/event_reg.htm now.

Posted by john at 04:33 PM

Why relationships fail

Here's something you guys in Northern climes will find amusing- we're frozen in here in Austin, TX and everything has come to a halt. What would be considered a warm, dry day in Buffalo, NY has shut the whole city down here, so I'm stuck inside for a few days.

Why do most relationships fail? It really has to do more with how men behave, than how women do. Pay attention to the following email, and you'll see what I mean.

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.

Dear John,

I have read many of your tips, and so on about relationships, and I was wondering if there was any way you could help me. I am currently in a relationship of three months with a beautiful girl that i like very much. I have never had a relationship last this long, and I almost dont know what to do at this point. I dont want to loose her, but at the same time the relationship has gone very well to this point. I read one of your pages, and you were talking about how you dated one girl for a while, and when you turned into a sensitive guy she left you for some other person. I dont want to treat her horribly, but at the same time i dont want her to loose the attraction she holds towards me.



JA: Thanks for the email Branden, and congratulations on taking action and attracting a beautiful girl. The answer to your question is actually simple: if you want her to stay, keep doing the things that attracted her in the first place. Don't change what you're doing, or the attraction will disappear. That's why most relationships fail: the man stops doing the things that created the attraction in the first place, and she leaves. The most common thing I hear from women is this: "I don't know what happened. Three months after we got married, it was like he was a different person." So, as long as you keep doing the things that attracted her in the first place, you'll be fine.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS The Ultimate Attraction Immersion Event is fast approaching--to make sure you don't miss out, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/event_reg.htm right now.

Posted by john at 08:23 AM