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January 20, 2007

Aint't it a shame... to be shot down in flames!

There's an old AC/DC song called "Shot down in flames," and the chorus pretty much sums up the experience every guy has had at one time or another when approaching a woman: "Ain't it a shame, to be shot down in flames."

And ol' Angus Young is right... it is a shame to be shot down in flames. But you know what? If she approaches you first, you won't be shot down... in fact, if there's any "shooting down" to be done, you'll be the one to do it. Isn't this the way it should be?

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On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 04:20 PM

Should you be rude to a beautiful woman?

Awhile back I was at a seminar where, as usual, I met an attractive woman. As we got to talking, I told her what I did for a living, and, as usual she was intrigued. Every time I said something or touched her after that she'd say, "is that a technique?"

My answer: "only if you're naughty enough...!" Needless to say, we had a good time.

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Here's what she told me that was interesting. She said she'd been to a previous seminar where she'd met a guy who was in the same kind of business I was. She said she thought he was "kinda cute"--until he came up to her and said something really rude... a "put down." She had nothing to do with him after that.

I immediately recognized the "technique" as something called a "negative hit," in the "seduction community" (most of whom have never even had a woman smile at them).

Supposedly, when you see a hot woman, you're supposed to walk up to her and utter a minor put down. This is supposed to make her view you as different and intriguing since she's used to guys kissing her butt.

The reality? She thinks you're a loser. And she's right--why would any woman want to be with a guy who walks up to her and puts her down?

Here's the truth: if you want to attract desirable women, you have to be able to form real connections with real women. That means having the ability to be naughty, funny, intriguing and engaging... with a strong sense of personal authority.

That's what sets you apart from all the losers who kiss her butt because of her looks, and all the losers who put her down because of her looks. Forget about all that and concentrate on the woman in front of you. You might just discover a few intriguing things about her as a person... and that's when the fun really begins.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Posted by john at 11:17 AM