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January 21, 2007

Now she's gone- -will she ever come back?

If you've ever had a woman suddenly leave you, you know it feels like a punch in the gut, even a knife in the back. You may feel all kinds of different things--rage, anger, hatred, even betrayal.

But here's something interesting: if you feel all these things, underneath all of them, you'd really like to have her back. Why? Because if you didn't, you just wouldn't care--you'd be happy she's gone.

Here's an interesting secret: the reason most women leave is because they simply didn't feel attraction for you any more. It's that simple. But there's a silver lining here: if you recreate the attraction, she'll come back IF you want her.

See, when you know how to create attraction, women suddenly flock to you. You have what few men have: choice. Why? Because while women crave attraction like a narcotic, few men know how to create it. If you know how, then you can rule your own world with women and never have to worry about being dumped again.

Burn this into your head: attraction is a skill, not a talent. And if it is a skill, it can be quickly and easily learned by any man, no matter your looks, age, or income.

To discover little known forbidden secrets to creating attraction, simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now, before I decide to remove this site for good.

If there's any skill in life you should master (and this one is really easy to do), it's creating attraction. Don't delay, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm at once, before it's too late.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Put these "forbidden attraction secrets" to work for you-- go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

Posted by john at 04:26 PM

Yes, they are out to BS you

For the past few days I've been having a few email problems--if you've emailed anything to support@womenapproachyou.com or helpme@womenapproachyou.com it has apparently gone into a big pit of nothingness. My hosting company has, of this moment, offered three equally lame excuses as to why this is happening instead of just fixing the problem. I'm leaning on them hard to get this annoying issue fixed now.

I'll keep you updated--if it's not fixed within hours, I'll have a temporary email address set up for my customer service people to check regularly. So, if you've sent an email to either of those email addresses the past few days, go ahead and resend it starting tomorrow. We'll get you taken care of... as soon as I take care of this moronic company.

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.

One of the most important (and least talked about) success skills I ever learned was the ability to detect when someone was BS'ing you. Sometimes they'll do it on purpose, sometimes they don't even know they're BS'sing you, but you have to be able to detect it.

Take this hosting company, for instance. I called them up, talked to them, and they said, "oh, we've fixed the problem." Sound's like BS to me. So I said, "have you tested it?" Then I tested it and the problem was still there. So, I told them to get back to work, and turned my BS detector up to full. I then had my web guy stay on their butts, telling him not to believe anything they say until the problem is actually fixed.

You see, a lot of people are just used to saying something to make others go away. They'll tell you "it's fixed," because the last three people said "wonderful," and went on their merry way. They may even believe it's fixed because someone else told them it was--but they didn't check it out for themselves.

Most people wind up BS'ing you because they don't pay attention to the details. They don't check and double-check their work or their facts. Instead of flushing out the problems before presenting you with an answer, they rush to make you happy--it's less work.

If you want to be successful both with women and with money, you've got to develop a good BS detector. You simply cannot accept what most people say at face value, not because they're liars, but because they haven't done the work to check what they're telling you is true. Or, they're simply repeating something they heard from someone else without checking to see if it's BS. Regardless, it's still BS and if you don't detect it early and often, it will cause havoc.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to step up to the Big Leagues and lead a lifetime of power, success and choice with the women you desire? Then go to: http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm

Posted by john at 08:23 AM