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February 03, 2007

Are you like this man? Will you succeed like him?

Here's a great success story I recently received from a man who had to make a very hard decision about an existing relationship. This is something that, unfortunately, applies to many men so pay close attention.

Dear John,

I subscribed to your newsletter a couple of years ago, under the fake email address I was hiding from my then wife. Thank you for rescuing me from the pit of hell.

I was the wuss' wuss. Scared to death of approaching women, scared of rejection, it was pitiful. That's why I settled on who I married. (Big mistake? Uh, YEAH!) You changed all that. (Heck, I even won one of your contests one time as having the worst pick up line)

My marriage was what you have pointed out over and over as a bad investment. I tried all that I was learning from you on her, to no avail. Strangely, it worked wonders on other women. I never cheated on my wife, but I knew that things would be ok if I were to leave. I figured out that she wasn't attracted to me - even though she never admitted it. It took a long time, but I finally moved out 3 weeks ago. I can now carry on conversations with women previously never thought possible. I am working out 3 times a week, and am as confident as ever.

In short, you rescued the King of Wuss. But I am ready to take things to the next level. I plan on purchasing your knowledge on a good online profile, and more importantly, how to identify the ones to dump immediately and move on. Things are good now - but they can get better - much better!

Thanks again, and whenever I see a guy down in the dumps over women or their wives, (wuss) I immediately direct them your way. Sadly, some guys just don't want to change. Oh well, more women for me!!!!

Malcolm C.

JA: Thanks for the great email, Malcolm. It can be a very hard thing to do, but one of the most important things to master when succeeding with women (or with anything) is getting rid of bad investments. When you do that, your life instantly gets better.

A lot of guys really don't get that qualifying women is a crucial part of attraction--after all, since you can't polish a turd you want to make sure you don't pick one up in the first place.

Congratulations on your new life and new, improved self image--I suspect it won't be long before you're turning away more women than you know what to do with. Let me know how it goes.

To get your hands on the "forbidden attraction secrets" Malcolm is putting to use, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Put an end to your troubles with women forever. Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now to discover "lost attraction secrets" that finally allow you to attract the women you truly desire.

Posted by john at 04:22 PM

What to do when a woman tries to "change you"

It happens to a lot of guys. They meet a woman, feel that wonderful spark of attraction and decide it's time to have a relationship. A few months into the relationship a strange thing happens.

She starts trying to change you.

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.

Maybe she tries to box away your prize possessions or dissuade you from seeing your best friend. Maybe she tries to get you to go to the opera or theater with her instead of watching football. However she does it, she starts trying to change you.

When this happens, what do most men do? They dutifully change. What happens next? Something even stranger: she's no longer attracted to you, even though you changed for her.

From a man's point of view this makes no sense at. It is completely illogical. But attraction is illogical. You see, women make decisions about men based on whether or not they feel attraction for that man--not on logic.

Understand this: women love a challenging man. They love trying to change that man. The process itself makes her feel attraction. When you change, giving into her every want and whim she no longer feels attraction for you--and she leaves.

So, if a woman tries to change you, let her try as hard as she can. If she has a good point about something you're doing then you can make the decision to change that one thing on your own because it makes sense to you, not because you're trying to please her. But if you like who you are, then stay who you are--in a strange way she'll become even more attracted to you because you're that much more of a challenge. And there's nothing women love more than a challenging man.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Want to be a challenging man who attracts women literally on demand? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover these forbidden attraction secrets.

Posted by john at 10:17 AM