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February 06, 2007

Now she's gone- -will she ever come back?

If you've ever had a woman suddenly leave you, you know it feels like a punch in the gut, even a knife in the back. You may feel all kinds of different things--rage, anger, hatred, even betrayal.

But here's something interesting: if you feel all these things, underneath all of them, you'd really like to have her back. Why? Because if you didn't, you just wouldn't care--you'd be happy she's gone.

Here's an interesting secret: the reason most women leave is because they simply didn't feel attraction for you any more. It's that simple. But there's a silver lining here: if you recreate the attraction, she'll come back IF you want her.

See, when you know how to create attraction, women suddenly flock to you. You have what few men have: choice. Why? Because while women crave attraction like a narcotic, few men know how to create it. If you know how, then you can rule your own world with women and never have to worry about being dumped again.

Burn this into your head: attraction is a skill, not a talent. And if it is a skill, it can be quickly and easily learned by any man, no matter your looks, age, or income.

To discover little known forbidden secrets to creating attraction, simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now, before I decide to remove this site for good.

If there's any skill in life you should master (and this one is really easy to do), it's creating attraction. Don't delay, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm at once, before it's too late.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Put these "forbidden attraction secrets" to work for you-- go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now!

Posted by john at 04:25 PM

Let it come to you

Well, the 2006 NFL season is in the books, and something strange happened- -a playoff choke artist became a Super Bowl champion. Why did this happen? The answer is simple--and surprisingly useful when it comes to attracting women.

The reason Peyton Manning finally won the big one was because he let the game come to him. Instead of trying to throw the ball downfield all the time, risking interceptions, he took the check down and threw to his running backs. He handed the ball to his running backs. He took the field goals and let his defense overwhelm a young Rex Grossman. In other words, he didn't press--and finally, he won.

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.

Now, I have been a big Manning detractor in the past, and with good reason--he was a statistical hero in the regular season and an interception machine in the playoffs. And, truthfully, he didn't play well early on in the playoffs or even early in the Super Bowl this year. BUT... instead of pressing like he did in the past, he eased off, let the game come to him, took what was there, played a team game and he won. That's what champions do.

Think about how most guys approach attracting women. When they meet one they think is interested, they go full force, start pressing and scare her off. Then they press even more with different women, winding up frustrated and alone.

You have to understand that attraction is a process, one women enjoy. You have to let the process play out, let the attraction come to you, not going too far too fast. BUT, when opportunity presents itself, you have to take it, like Manning did when he saw Reggie Wayne wide open for a 57 yard touchdown.

If you feel yourself start to press when you're talking with a woman, ease off, pull back, re-establish the connection, and go from there. Pressing is the fastest, easiest way to kill attraction because it comes across as desperate--and desperation is the ultimate attraction killer.

But, when you sit back and let the game come to you, enjoying the process, taking it one play at a time (even if those plays are just short gains), eventually you'll get your outcome--and you'll finally be a champion with women.

On with the fun...

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS "How can you succeed wildly with desirable women?" Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm for the answers...

Posted by john at 10:22 AM