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February 10, 2007

Imagine, never being rejected by women again

I hear it over and over. The number one reason why men fail with women is fear of rejection. NOT rejection itself, but fear of it. See, women like a man who has the "stones" to come talk to them, but they don't like men who are fearful, whether it's of rejection or anything else.

My name is John Alanis, and I used to be terribly afraid of rejection. Then I discovered something unusual: when a woman approached me first I had no fear at all, because I got to make the "rejection decision," not her.

That's why I engineer what I call "attraction systems" that get them to approach me first. Now, women are nervous and scared of rejection when they approach me... which is the way it should be! Me, I'm calm, cool and collected... no more fear of rejection. And, I'm convinced any man can do what I do, no matter your looks age or income.

Would you like desirable women to approach you, worried YOU'LL reject them? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to discover a myriad of neat little "girl-getting" secrets that don't involve any rejection at all!

Ah, how sweet it is to have a gorgeous woman walk up to you and stumble and fumble over her words because she's scared you'll reject her! Won't you join me in success? Go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm to find out more.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PS Are you finally ready to change your life with women, forever? Then go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now

Posted by john at 04:20 PM

Can you "see" what others miss?

Do you know what separates the super successful from those who just get by? It's simple, really: the super successful, whether it's with money, business, or women, can "see" opportunity that the ordinary guy over looks.

Let me give you an example. In the mail order business, most ordinary marketers rent a mailing list, mail to it, and consider it a failure if they don't make a profit. The super successful know that the real money is made in future sales to customers, so they can afford to lose a lot of money on a mailing as long as it produces customers. The best of the best engineer it so they can spend tremendous sums to acquire a customer so they can expand their business to thousands of mailing lists.

Obviously what each guy "sees" in the results of a mailing determine their success--one man's trash is another man's treasure.

What if everything you ever thought you knew about dating and relationships was just plain wrong? Would you keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Or would you try something new and radically different? To stop dating, and start living, go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm before this site is removed.

I'll give you another example, this time in residential real estate investing. A seller has a house worth $200,000.00 and he owes $200,000.00 on it, $150,000.00 on first mortgage and $50,000 on a second, and has a judgement for $10,000.00 against him. He's three payments behind and the bank is about to foreclose. To the average real estate investor and realtor, there's no deal there. But the extraordinary real estate investor sees opportunity.

He or she knows that they can easily get the lien released, discount the second mortgage, and get the bank to agree to a "short sale," the upshot of which he may be able to get a $200,000.00 house for $100,000.00 and put a fat check in his pocket. Why? Because he or she sees opportunity where the ordinary miss it.

Nowhere does this hold more true than when it comes to attracting truly desirable women. Most guys when they see a woman who is truly a stunner make all kinds of assumptions: they think she has a boyfriend, they think she's "out of their league," they think she shoots down better men than them all the time, etc., etc.

But the man who is truly successful with women "sees" opportunity. He realizes there is a very good chance she spends a lot of lonely nights at home because most men are intimidated by her. He realizes that she's probably approached by a lot of goofballs every day, and that when he approaches her with a naughty boy smile backed up by personal authority, he will be incredibly attractive to her purely based on the contrast with all the waldos she has to put up with.

He realizes she just wants to feel attraction with a bright, fun, naughty, intelligent guy, and that if he can make her feel that magic feeling of attraction, that his looks, age, or income just don't matter.

And he'll welcome a great woman into his life because he was able to "see" where the average man was blind.

On with the fun....

-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

PPS To discover how to "see" opportunity with the women you desire, simply go to http://www.johnalanis.com/ultimate_system.htm right now, to discover what few men will ever know. It just might mean the difference between being lonely for life, and welcoming the woman you truly desire into yours--and not having to settle for one who just showed up.

Posted by john at 08:17 AM